Bureau of Chinese type meal, eat not be a meal forever, be " bureau " .
Recently, finance encircles exposure the indelicate video on bureau of a meal:
Ma Mou of analyst of some negotiable securities (male) with colleague Liao Mou (female) when attending bureau of a meal, with Liu of the chief inspector before some fund some cuddle cuddle is held in the arms, bearing is flirtatious.
Liao Mou and Liu Mou
After indelicate video is poured out of, ma Mou is cancelled randomly optimal analyst chooses a qualification, this stockjobber also took the special investigation that suspend sb from his duties handles to two people.
Well bureau of a meal, finally already because of ugly performance 100, be pointed to to break heart; Because of interests, cheated unemployed shadow.
Ma Mou can depend on his ability originally, compete for next new money is optimal analyst, it is very possible inside the industry social status times add, future is like bright and beautiful, nowadays however melt into visionary hope.
Liao Mou of 27 years old, be called " negotiable securities goddess " , the brilliant student that Tsinghua university graduates, good looking and talented, have a boundless future, but also because of oneself drunken indelicate behavior, make the career is sufferred inflict heavy losses on.
This is bureau of meal of type of a China cause " murder case " .
Love of Chinese all along is lively, red issue white issue, other people's business of one's proper business, below the mesa on mesa... was used to egg on an another meal bureau, calculate on can turn the major issue on dining table little petty thing was changed.
And debauchery money spirit is same many, easily Bohemian the human body, the evil common on bureau of meal of not care a nut is abusive.
A cup of a meal, wine looks be like do not pass usually, but to the effect that you cause the damage of two heroes career with far more than occasionally medium video, public opinion is criticized so simple, imperceptible perhaps it with respect to finish your life.
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A lot of moment, the meal bureau that the Chinese forms a delegation is contained more or less certain wrong end.
Join the person of meal bureau, also be to be being taken likewise " the task " enter the arena.
Terrible is, everybody is right this already be accustomed to sth, so that do a thing casually, must send wine to have a meal please, simple thing also turned the camera bellows that cuts ceaseless manage to return chaos into the operation to finally.
This kind of not dinkum at the beginning meal bureau, answered naturally that adage " the world does not have free lunch " .
Concupiscence of cash advantageous position, during total meeting is impure, cannot help doing sth letting a person.
Often listen to a person to say, meal bureau is true can accomplish sth. Is resource of person arteries and veins accumulated so namely come out?
Really, you can establish a relationship on dining table with others; But concerning without a kind is hold together of bureau relying on a meal.
The world bright bright all come for benefit, the world rejects reject all go to for benefit.
Bureau of Chinese type meal, closing a door to come is field of a fame and gain.
If neither one is profitable, be afraid neither one person is willing to enter.
" Chinese news weekly " of editorial Yang Shi ever had said:
"These term killed person arteries and veins and resource a lot of people. Do not think you go attending each meal bureau, you had arteries and veins of so called person, if your itself is useless to other all the time, attend of all kinds dinner party with the identity of Nobody all the time, you still can be Nobody only all the time.
What people wants is the content that you can furnish, is not the rate of meal bureau attendance that sees you. is not the rate of meal bureau attendance that sees you..
Indulge when a person in bureau of Chinese type meal, was used to go regular, what forgetting just is true regulation, so the ability that you can lose ego to grow only, final accomplish nothing.
Have more very person, because a variety of camera bellows are operated, bring about oneself to degenerate, on compensate is the destiny of whole future.
Forge iron even oneself is hard, your performance on meal bureau is again good, but if ability and wine force do not match, final also be an all in vain only.
And you must be willing to do to licking a face forever really, on meal bureau ask for help handles affairs, the person that be partitioned by others at will?
Say like king ear gentleman that:
You do not need an another meal bureau, what you need is valuable encounter. Premise condition is, your oneself must valuable.
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" desk of Chinese type wine, the game that is an influence " in, have a such vivid descriptions about meal bureau:
"Overmatch is used threatening drink reveal authority and control force, the weak drinks actively with self-abuse type profession faithfulness and obedience. Here implies major person does not have the logic that realize:
The person is the the most important, most precious is healthy, drink spat still drinking, be just like was to give a piece of state that drop a name, return fall book.
For you, I disregard even the body, are you satisfactory? Are you satisfactory??
Compared with the fritter away on spirit, of life of opposite of bureau of Chinese type meal use up, more clearly.
Last year the beginning of the year when " Beijing youth signs up for " once had reported a news:
Spring Festival eve, jiangsu university of 26 years old is electric Shi Guoping of graduate student of Master of information project institute, after attending bureau of a meal, fall in the dormitory, also did not awake again, cause of death is alcoholism.
Before this, he just learns himself to recommend graduate student of this school doctor, because,be probably glad, because be thankful,be probably, not good at at ordinary times he what drink, on the meal bureau that organizes in the adviser " cut a dash " .
4 teachers, many 40 student, the adviser that includes Shi Guoping and him inside, gross 5 desks, dry 13 bottles of liquor, shi Guoping is one-time drink below 669.
It is probably in eye of a lot of people, merely mediocre.
But to Shi Guoping, it is his this all one's life is drunk at most however, also be the most expensive bout: For this, he gave one whole and young life.
Someone says, bureau of Chinese type meal has " 4 should " : Want ostentation and extravagance, 2 keen on face-saving, 3 flesh wanting wine, 4 a nuisance.
Ostentation and extravagance had, face arrived, but wine flesh wears bowel, did not have health, what to want those ostentation and extravagance and face to have to use again?
According to investigation of our country Ministry of Public Health:
Chinese hypertensive population has 1.6 ～ 170 million person; Of tall blood fat have 100 million much person; Overweight or fat disease 200 million person of 70 million ～ ; The 160 million person with hematic unusual fat; Fatty liver patient makes an appointment with 120 million person...And these are so called " riches and honour is ill " , it is to eat likely come out, drink come out.
British science monthly magazine " into addiction " published an overview article points out, alcohol can cause cancer, and at least related to 7 kinds of cancer:
Cancer of buccal pharynx cancer, laryngocarcinoma, esophagus, cancer of the liver, colonic cancer, rectum cancer and breast cancer.
What adage says is good, get ill by the mouth.
Run your mouth, ability maintains your order.
Bureau of Chinese type meal, can little attend little, can not drink do not drink.
Besides yourself and the person that love you, be fond of your life without person understanding.
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Say, the success with the greatest life, the success of marriage of nothing is more... than; The biggest happiness, the happiness of family of nothing is more... than.
But, some people indulge unluckily in bureau of Chinese type meal, lived the life to take the branch for the root.
A news see on the net:
Late on June 13, chongqing inside one rented house, one woman is chopped madly by the husband more than 20 knives, if not be cure seasonable, within an inch of because exsanguine and overmuch lost life.
People guesses in succession, the likelihood is the domestic tragic of a soul-stirring.
But after knowing the fact, everybody is a little dumbfounded, but open-eyed afterwards, it is silent without language.
Its origin is simple mysterious:
Wife disposition extroversion, outside the friend is much, meal bureau is much, come back for a long time very late, husband and wife two often quarrel for this.
Final husband suspects the wife has an affair, under one anger the double foot of wife of stump of 20 a few knives, he wants her forever " stay " in the home.
Original, meal bureau can the body that of finish is your individual not only and spirit, still can give a family heavy cruel attack.
Be willing to defending an empty building without the person, the evening that endures other in part not a home to return to.
Hold the major time of a person when the dinner party, be too busy him attend to family when, so sweet meaning of all a solemn pledge of love, strong feeling can be in eventually your die out in acting wilfully dangers.
And the support that a person lost a family, also lost ongoing power. Although outside again scene, also be a castle in the air nevertheless.
After getting married you, carry on the back already full responsibility, your every act is affecting each nerve in the home, and abandon has your ego to be able to give a family to bring annihilative harm carelessly a bit.
Remember please: Best meal bureau, it is a banquet forever.
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Yu Dan is in " it is clear that the world has taste joyous " in write:
"Alleged meal bureau, those who eat is not a meal, however bureau; Alleged propose a toast, those who respect also not be a person, however the identity. Refuse blatant, revert is halcyon, refuse costly, return uncut jade to return true, this is the homework that our everybody should do. This is the homework that our everybody should do..
Above all, reduce useless socialization.
The socialization of inferior quality, those who be inferior to high quality be in alone.
Party of 35 good friends is normal human feelings, but be full of in the life various invalid meal bureau, can use up you badly to promote ego the time of ability and space.
Next, reject culture of urge sb to drink. .
The Chinese likes to be on meal bureau urge sb to drink. , what to say " sentiment covers tightly greatly readily " , " attachment is low lick " , as if not to drink, became the alien on meal bureau.
But, make the friend with deep love truly, care your health and safety more.
Let you drink the person of haematemesis, cannot hand in greatly absolutely; The person that indulge drives after your wine, become a friend absolutely impossibly also.
Finally, guard gregarious bottom line.
Color of the privately give and privately accept on meal bureau, money trades, common occurance, but there never is what windtight wall on this world, the thing that everybody wants to be made for oneself is responsible.
Remember a body please in meal bureau you, what still bear after one's death is your individual not only, still have the responsibility of a family.
It is mid-autumn next, National Day, successional length is false, bureau of meal of type of a big China is being approached.
Please as far as possible be far from, do not search the self-identity of entirely imaginary to feel in Linzhong of wine pool flesh.
Final body broke down, the career was destroyed, the home also was done not have, life also with respect to this respond to a curtain call.
