If you think educational cost is too high, have a try ignorant cost.
I believe every parent loves his child exceedingly. For this, their would rather is bungled sell iron, also want as far as possible let the child go to school; Those who be willing to leave one's native place is crowded to big city, create better educational condition to give the child only; Or live frugaly, want the child to be able to have outstanding achievement be praised by other only.
Are they not bitter? Be bitter!
But they are clear, read only, just be had better go on the world, the brightest, and that road with highest redound.
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Read to be achievement not only
Write in the letter that Long Yingtai writes son Andre: "The child, I ask you read diligent, because I want you to compare result with others,not be, however because, I hope you can have the right of the choice in the future, choose the significant, job that has time, is not to be forced to fend. is not to be forced to fend..
It is difficult that the life that did not choose has many?
May, want to choose high pay, diploma is insufficient, can do hotel clerk only;
Want to choose double cease, capacity is insufficient, can lead only say nonstop nonstop;
Want to choose to become cameraman, but do not have money to do not have time, can put down a dream to become only an average office worker.
Such life, not be to say no point, did not have the freedom of life however.
Without freedom, why to talk about happiness again.
Yu quick Hong Ceng has said, 3 his the university entrance exam have an objective, cast off the scared sense that needs all one's life in the country namely.
Because rural life is,can look at in the end, make arduous efforts all one's life again, still also be strand the farmer in place.
The parent always hopes the child is happy, but because diploma cannot choose,become a youth, must bear when failing, can he feel happy?
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Reading is a kind of responsibility
Study does not need capricious, those who study need is effort, it is to overcome, it is to assume.
The Dong Qing 2017, depend on " congress of Chinese poem word " and " declaimer " in admirable expression, circle pink countless, a lot of people said to know her afresh. When she directs a program, dehisce closes a mouth, it is good expressions completely, blurt out place says, all come from famous book.
She uses " I remember " extol father female affection:
I at that time am the tenderness of what kind, I asperse leaf between your hair, leave when you, my heart won't become cool, remember you, arrive as reading the most beloved character, that kind of thoroughly delighted.
She uses father of poetry eulogy blind to love:
God gave me the book of great capacity of vast, with a pair of invisible eyes, even if is such, I still am imagined secretly, heaven should be the about of the library.
There is TV in her bedroom, without the mobile phone, read everyday a hour, final.
And this kind of habits and customs is risen by parental education as a child.
To foster her literary accomplishment, father asks she copies idiom everyday, back ancient poetry. When the middle school, 35 days are about read through famous book of one native inside and outside. And the logistic thinking for her what take exercise, the mother still is met from time to time selective examination, want her enumerate among them character concerns.
Be the study rhythm of such high strenth, modelled present Dong Qing.
I believe, if in those days, if this is approximately severe,her parents does not have teach her, her life is potential short of the height nowadays.
Those who do father and mother, want those who be the child to make a plan in the future. Good now, after be not being represented certain good.
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Read very painstaking
Read very painstaking, because this kind of suffering is him need,eat actively.
Other child is in amuse oneself when, you are in text of prepare lessons before class, reciting famous book of China and foreign countries.
When other child watchs TV, you are calculating the maths that does not write, physics, chemical examination questions.
When other child brushs game, you are listening to English, recite one word accordingly undertake an interpreter.
Such day, not be a day, however ten years.
Review us all round, in every case gained certain success, passed tough effort rear, the world is nonexistent the matter that drops pasty, reap without sowing be nonexistent in real world.
Study is same also, lying to be not moved, knowledge won't run actively in the head. Those are called to learn bully the person that learns a god, who had not kept the operation that form a pile in one's childhood, had not endured a teacher or the parent's criticism, had not experienced an another exam?
This kind is bitter, not be China just has, the whole world is same.
For instance the education of Singapore, education content is exceedingly rich, as far as possible the endowment such as the art that arouses the child, language. But the meeting is pensile at the back of classroom of middle and primary school a ferule. If child performance is bad, the teacher can be below the testimony of other classmate and teacher, make control 3 times. And American child besides wanting to complete the work inside the class, still must finish quite quantitative homework, and it is achievement has the ground euqally preferred, recommend, admit.
So the child's joy grows and learn hardship not to conflict. Contemporary education, do not mean the child not to need to learn assiduously, contrary, in competition ability so intense now, assiduous study is more serious instead.
Learn growing ability to be able to have rich happy life ceaselessly only.
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Read should before it is too late
The age that does not try hard in this chose easy and comfortable. Easy and comfortable do not belong teenager person, the life of effort, just be the appearance with junior and due youth.
A lot of people think people on one's own side gives birth to the most brilliant period of time is before the university entrance exam 6 months:
"Celestial body knows to run a principle on, organic and inorganic reaction knows below, there is elliptical hyperbola before, there is cross biosphere after, english can say outside, internal medicine writes ancient prose, got series, say Ma Zhe, trace to the source China fluctuates 5000, extend of great capacity of land of the city that retreat a pool 1 billion, tell musical art computer namely, hold pincer pliers of long wushu folk-custom concurrently! Hold pincer pliers of long wushu folk-custom concurrently!!
This phase, all foundation acknowledge that can use in life has learned entirely.
The golden tower that if the university is the following,achievement is Yi Yi glitter, so the knowledge that gets before the university entrance exam, it is the ground that makes for golden tower. Foundation is solidder, what this gold tower can build is taller.
18 years old of Chen Kun feather, tsinghua university is big 2 students, he what had contacted scientific research, present research direction is plasma and can accuse nuclear fusion. Attend " cheer! To future " when the study deepness that erupts and range let person exclaim, he still published many sci-fi, add has been written " 3 body " .
Face a such young people, we may imagine the future that is less than him can gain what kind of success after all, but what we can affirm is, the world that he sees is met certainly very wonderful.
Diligent read, learn more!
Study is to endorse not just exam, still have means of more and interesting study and amused knowledge, help us learn easily, improve our knowledge ceaselessly.
