Psychology distains a success to learn, either the book that because the book of interior chicken broth sells,does not have a success to learn is good. Interior chicken broth can be regarded is " once do not have a success to learn " , learn with the success about the same. Learn successfully abhorrent, because it grabs a patient with psychotherapy,be. One individual psychology is sick, should see a doctor originally, the result is learned this to jump to give flicker magically greatly by the success, the result did not come. Jump well to fall, jump bad to saw a doctor to be treated harder again.
Are you to saying successful personage has psychological problem? Not, what I say is major successful public figure bring about a success because of intentional grain issue. If you feel you have psychological problem, not self-abased, you become successful public figure likely; If you also often cannot succeed, not self-condemned, you are psychology compares health only likely just.
The major success on this world belongs the person that him requirement must succeed. Such belief ability bestows their gritty psychokinesis, and the courage of self-abuse. What talent can ask he must succeed? It is those people that do not have method not successfully to be in oneself. So great world, put the argument that be in in order to succeed as oneself only, is this sick what be? To character of those committed suicide curule, entrepreneur, public, if you know the means of livelihood that they leave to oneself is how narrow, understood probably. A few years ago, the Ceng Youyi in a top college of domestic has preliminary suicide event, that student has stood in the building to carry preparation on the head to jump down, be asked by rescue hind he jumps the reason of the building, he says to reckon GRE exam cannot get full marks. What thing is mixed live connection rises, but awful. hungry if primitive of 3 days stood a Great Bear before discovery, meeting Ceng ground climb a tree, this is the energy that arouses by dead fear. It is a bit lighter that angst can be regarded, chronic fear. For the person that the meaning that succeed to those and exists contacts together cheek by jowl, below strong existence misgivings, can move the whole body into excited shape, resemble having the primitive that Great Bear is chasing after. He is gotten than others leap up as expected inside period of time fast.
Who can ask who must want to succeed? Lacking the meeting that parents admits is be the first to be affected, still have flat be abandoned by parents. For instance Qiaobusi, well-known he is living it is to change the world. However, serve as the world we, request him to help change? Look in psychology, he wants a change desperately and discover what cannot change at all acedialy to have a fact only, that is his one's life experience. His violent rage before this fact makes him change besides this besides all things. He said a word: Father you abandon at the outset I am a mistake. The Yin Chengyang in Chinese school declines to also can explain with this. Not be the schoolboy compares schoolgirl clumsy generally, however the schoolgirl is general not be the child that their parents wants. To tell father and mother, it is right that you give birth to me, the schoolgirl has to want to force she succeeds, follow Qiaobusi same.
Still result from successfully self-abased. Because domestic deficient, appearance is ugly, or force is weak, not be parents does not admit them, it is themselves does not admit him. "Self-abased with surmount " academic father Adler, itself is a physical disabilities personage, often had not exceeded him that high-energy and strong and handsome eldest brother, result he one anger becomes psychology to be sent ancestor. Because of young when domestic deficient and struggle of plute, the case is more. The book that because grow ugly and more to look,still has those, also can become talent finally even money. You see those poised and graceful, father be fond of the elder brother of the Beijing this locality of mother love, because rise small what don't have but self-abased, the star that be in charge of is a taxi asperses full sunshine in the heart.
When the college seeks advice to the student, hear more than a boy says, want to be able to succeed only, they do not care to become abnormal public figure. When them so say, advisory division can draw in the heart cool cool laugh. When because duty person gives to do in social orgnaization,seeking advice, had seen the sort of a lot of people that they consider to become. Having obstacle of two kinds of character is psychological bound accepted get rich the most easily and succeed, one kind is to force, one kind is narcissism. In extremely successful personage, these two kinds idiosyncratic reside surely almost firstly. Former oneself will be very painful, latter meeting is killed all round the person is very painful. Former anguish arrives, they are willing to exchange semiotic elimination with all successes. To latter, because they make the adverse event that bring about others is painful and right,their success also can be caused damage.
For the person that wants a success to much, what they want not be successful itself actually, succeed however the love of promise. They are subconscious on want to love, but oneself tell they want to succeed only on consciousness, perhaps mark a price with love successful. Because,this is, they are actually subconscious li of problem that also does not believe to be able to solve love successfully really. Bring a person successful certain thing, regard oneself and other as for instance the machine makes, segregation of the real life that abandons grow has taste, craftiness, affection is waited a moment, probable meeting lets a person become disabled person in the respect of love. He thinks to blocking this hill that is called a success between oneself and love, ground of his innumerable trials and hardships turns over the past, discover to posse white mist is only behind hill however.
Have the succeed person of mental health after all? Some. That is the person of some of self-fulfilment. They just cherish the curiosity of pair of worlds and ego, want to know to there is how many honey after all in the sugar bowl of this world, want to know oneself this seed can blossom finally a what kind of plant. They also expect to succeed, but be not care about a result really. Resemble dripping with sweat below burning sun the child that plays mud, they enjoy mashed vegetable or fruit dedicatedly, also can drop scoop to go the butterfly that beat has flown to, they built a brilliant mud castle finally, this succeeds namely.
