One
"Mom, why must you go to work? Why must you go to work??
When the daughter asks this word to me, I am stupefied.
That day is on the weekend, play slide the way home to go up from the park with the daughter, daughter some interest are not high, I think is to play tired, did not go in past heart.
Wash a hand to prepare to work in me dinner when, the daughter appears suddenly in backstairs mouth, one face asks me seriously,
"Other little girl has mother for company to play together, why you are about to work, let a grandma take me? Let a grandma take me??
"Mom you do not go to work, accompany more it is good to accompany me? Accompany more it is good to accompany me??
Tell the truth, this one prickled my heart really.
The mom of a lot of children in the park is full-time housewife, can child of for company of from morning till night plays slide, buy the toy, class before going to school.
Can I? Zhou Yi should work to Zhou Wu, give evening early to return not to say, now and then work overtime even, think carefully, accompany the time that the child grows really a lot of lesser.
Tell the truth, in those days when the child just was born, I also had thought is to continue to go to work, still come home do full-time mom. It is cogitative only later, still decide return duty field.
The child, let me tell you now, why must mom go to work.
Two
The child, everybody needs the work.
To mom, working meaning, not only it is to be able to give you to buy good-looking toy, take delicious sock, more important is, the job lets mom more gas of know how things stand and feel confident of handling them and force go loving you.
See this raise encourage annals short to you first, have inside this include mother inside, the aspirations of each duty field mom:
" greeting each inherent and ambitious duty field mom "
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Each resemble the duty field mother like me, it is not easy to have him inarticulate actually.
The company goes to work by day, take care of darling in the evening, 24 hours turn even the axis, morpheus time is compressed again and again.
Take care of the child to have time, can reduce oneself time again and again only, slept to become a kind of luxury repeatedly.
All round of the person pay no attention to solution, heavy actuating pressure, think of abdication countless times, want to abandon even.
Duty field does not believe tear, but mom of each duty field has had the moment that break down.
After just breaking down, think of the child's bright smiling face, feel oneself can continue gnash one's teeth holds on.
Because of each mom that work hard, it is for oneself ideal and target not just, it is to make the model of child pride more.
Dong Qing once had said a word when field of manufacturing return duty: You want the child to become what kind of person, yourself does a such person first.
The child, my hope is the following you are ambitious and brave, the both hands that relies on oneself is hit spell the life; My hope is the following you no matter when, do not abandon hard up courage.
Hope more the following you, won't animal farm to be mixed at feeling marriage, continue forever your career, develop your interest, angle your freedom.
So, even if duty field mom is very painstaking, also meet the pride to become you, laughing to hold on.
Three
Tell the truth, there are an any moms on this world is unwearied.
I had seen a lot of outstanding full-time mom, quit oneself job, mix everyday associate with of basin of boiler bowl gourd ladle, struggle in excrement make water of the child, await with enough time and accompany the child to be brought up, exhaustion but happy.
I also had seen a lot of outstanding " duty field " mom, duty field glazing is bright beautiful, the hurry-scurry in the family, wish the foot steps on wind fire annulus, the time that packs an one second and child get along.
Which kind of Dou Xin suffering, which kind of happy also.
And I choose to become duty field mother, just do not want to be in after becoming a mother, forgot oneself.
The choice returns duty field, control gadarene continue to struggle, can hold to oneself and even the best kind that raise oneself ceaselessly just about.
Indeed, on the world never law of be satisfactory to both sides, time has only so much, gave a client to do not have method to accompany you.
But I hope more, what mom brings you is the company on time not just, invigorative still the force of the guiding that go up and example.
See mom work is very hard, everything what you can understand to be had now must come not easy, can learn to cherish.
See mom works very hard, you can know a world to go up to be able to go without shortcut, must want to pay conceivably, want to pay must want to strive for.
See mom rises duty raises very happy, you can know to encounter a good job, can bring achievement sense, can let life is worth more and be enriched.
More important is, should see mom tries hard to maintain the balance of the job and family, what you can know mother not just is not easy, can understand the significance of free-standing self-improvement more.
Mom wants to tell you, you should become future the person of self-improvement, no matter encounter again great difficulty, can spell a life to bite close tooth to rush forth.
Why do you know mom must work now?
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