What is happy and perfect family?
Happy and perfect family is same, wretched family has each misfortune each however. Good family has positive effect to each member, conduce to career and preserve one's health waiting. The home and all things are promoted, harmonious family is current call! What kind of is happy family? Were you had? Do we want how to be waited for again? I wish good person owns the home of harmonious happiness!
Have a happy and perfect family, it is the Ji Wang of everybody. However, in actual life, home remedy is betrayed, violent photograph to, fall out of husband and wife, child take a wrong step in life, a lot of problems such as disaccord of wife and mother, be full of possibly in the family. The family is the cradle of the harbour of love, happy foothold and child. So, build a harmony, happy, happy, perfect family, become our everyone the main task in lifetime and responsibility.
A happy and perfect family has the following feature: Assume responsibility, spend time in all, praise for certain, mutual communication, mental health, careful place crisis.
So, can a family appear what contradict? Can these contradiction give again once is the family of be in harmony of its Le Rong brought how the crisis?
1. individual privacy:
Abdomen measures again old person, hear to the sweetheart's red also can lay acetic idea, as to be informed the other side " Gong Xing gives a wall " colourful thing, tolerate harder, cause domestic crisis from this the thing of 4 bend over is not rarely seen. So, love past individual marriage history the privacy that go up, to present sweetheart " but explain in vain " be not good plan, in that way, not only to promotional feeling of no help, can bring this avoidable feeling crisis instead. Accordingly, leave some of individual privacy, it is to consolidate with development advisability of emotive of husband and wife chooses.
2. careful make opposite sex friend:
There is oneself social activity after marriage of husband and wife, this is very normal. But, should notice careful make opposite sex friend, should stay when association have sense of property, let each other concern to control the concern in like-minded type only in. Apparently to oneself good impression even does not conceive friend of well-meaning opposite sex to oneself, want active alienation, will handle emotional dispute with reason. Best method is as far as possible little attend a few to have his the one socialization that the individual attends. Accordingly, no matter the man still is the woman, cannot consider his career only and ignore the cause of the other side, the enterprise that cannot importune him sacrifice of the other side to dote on more will be subject to oneself. In that way, can injure each other feeling only. Both sides of husband and wife has the power that seeks him career already, also have the responsibility that assumes domestic obligation. Right way should be, think method carries burden of a few families more, support the sweetheart's cause enthusiasticly. Both sides can be done so, can clear up is contradictory, promotional feeling.
3. money issue:
After marrying, if cannot do well,income and expenses is balanced, with respect to crisis of finance affairs of meeting occurrence family, affect feeling of husband and wife. Some families, money puts in one party manager 's charge, if cannot financial and open, when one party economy the requirement is couldn't get when satisfying, also can produce domestic contradiction. These, be worth vigilance. Accordingly, want husband and wife collective conduct financial transactions, hold to the housekeeping principle of keep expenditures within the limits of income, economize, careful calculation and strict budgeting. Should stay from beginning to end in the hand have funds of a few motor-driven, in case of accident with. Such, can prevent financial crisis Yu Weiran, refus feeling crisis at a thousand li.
Of above at 3 o'clock, the culprit that should be occurrence problem of current society family is in. After witting reason, for the family harmonious, we ought to be answered actively as the indispensable one member in the family, try hard to solve.
Share an example again finally: A my good brother, the setting that he and his wife grow is different, the located environment, education that gets and habits and customs have difference, because of these differentia, make they are attracted each other, walk along an eave thereby, established a happiness that belongs to themselves is small. But also because of these difference, make they are after marriage, had walked along to be adjusted indispensably period. Small grind ceaseless, small dispute is more than, still can erupt now and then big fight of a family. Those who quarrel is direct and sequential, it is two people eat bad meal, sleep bad to become aware, all of body and mind is exhausted do not say, steep still the suspicion that gives birth to pair of marriage. Think two people that love each other so at the outset make a pair of an unhappy couple likely, part company possibly even, the brother shudders. Because this also can talk about the topic of a few this respects with me constantly, I also gave out a few small proposals, then he recalls a painful experience, if such marital road go stepping down, can be blind lane only. Common saying says: A hand is patted not noisy.
I tell him, you are a man, how do thing of what one is particularly good at and wife haggle over every ounce. And, is marrying wife to bestow favor on her to love hers? Besides, she and you are same, it is an ambitious and aspirant person, not only should work, and academic still on the job try to be the first, the wife in the life also is the housewife of a diligent, just have bit of urgent temper, why cannot you open an eye to close a key point? The jumping-off place that considers her is for this home, you still have what what can complain and nag.
Now, he and wife quarrelled rarely, the time passes very gently very comfortable also. He tells me, occasionally, for some thing his wife is wanting to get angry, but see his expression with one innocent face, stopped immediately, their feeling also because this is closer and closer. They husband and wife of this pair of commonerses, live prevailing life.
Finally, in the life while, the life also church we, hold the happiness in the hand attentively, manage oneself marriage attentively. Have a word: "Preexistence a 500 eye, just change this life brush a shoulder and pass " , fortunately, when preexistence answers eye, we did not brush a shoulder and pass, the posture of depend on each other that just changed this life is defended. So, what reason is cherished well?
