Because,you are had a bagatelle, lose a paragraph originally the concern that you value very much? Sometimes you do not know even why, originally very good friend strangered suddenly however together with your form.
01
Faced yesterday before sleeping, very serious ground asks bub me: Mom, can you love me all the time? I am very affirmative the ground answers him: Of the meeting. He continues to ask: Did I make a mistake can you still continue to love me? I say, of the meeting.
He asks me again: Then I made a mistake, yang Yang (his best friend) can you still continue to like me?
I also did not think, blurt out: Won't.
He is a bit disappointed: Why?
I say: Because Yang Yang is your friend. On the world besides father mother, nobody loves you can termlessly. Everybody likes you, because you are kind-hearted and friendly,or is, or is you very useful to others, or you are handsome and threatening at the same time not provoking also be disgusted with... the relation that is close friends again, likely because of a bagatelle or wrong and disintegrate, and do not have redeeming likelihood again.
I know he still does not know some words, but the relation of person and person, a lot of moment are so flimsy really.
Probably you did very old boudoir honey, each other draw out a heart to draw out lung, you may have given her a lot of help, she has helped you possibly also a lot of times. But did not help her because of you, she thinks you are not quite generous, from now on or else takes you to become a friend.
Probably you did very old husband and wife, you once situation is like the sea greatly, your Nong Wonong, you sell off the family property of the half to save her even, but, she however because you are off the rails, miss 100 day grace no longer, also do not agree to excuse you anyhow.
Probably you follow some boss to hit go all out old, ever also had established one's contributions in work, however the likelihood because " small error " be swept the floor to go out, or else agrees your opportunity.
Such saying, the concern that once had a paragraph of happiness is placed before you, you had walked along 99 kilometers, this 99 kilometers you get along very happily, but last kilometer produced a not quite happy job however. This paragraph of good relationship, likelihood from now on disintegrate, after you again also cannot all the way Gao Ge is entered in all.
02
The most typical case, it is little boy the story with bear. Believe a lot of people had read this story, I press my understanding, narrate again simply.
A little boy became a friend with bear, they each other like, deep attaching. Regretful is, this bear has a drawback -- halitosis. But because the child likes this bear very much, he never has told to rebuke it has bad breath.
One day, the child and bear produced a bit conflict, ground of childish in a state of excitement and bear say: "I bear you actually very long, because you are the big stupid bear that has bad breath only! Because you are the big stupid bear that has bad breath only!!
Bear listened to be stupefied one small conference, take out a fruit knife to say to the child from the room next: "You go up toward my body disclose one knife " , the child special feel puzzled, still did accordingly however, fruit knife is on ursine body lay off a cut, blood flows continuously.
Xiong Gao appeals to the child: "I should leave here, I can come back to look for you after a year. " say bear to leave.
In the day that bear is absent, what the child begins to realize it is good, he yearns for ursine warmth and goodness, he feels ursine to have bit of bad breath even also just as well.
Arrived one year, ursine came back eventually, of child too impatient to wait run over to apologize with bear: "I am wrong, I ought not to cold-shoulder you. I ought not to cold-shoulder you..
Bear shows the cut a year ago the child at this moment, cut had cicatrizationed, xiong Que say: "But you at that time that ' the big stupid bear that has bad breath ' , in the cut that keeps in my heart, up-to-date still dripping blood, it never has cicatrizationed. " say bear to leave, also had not come back again.
This conte is to should teach us originally person of evil language injury is cold in June, do not export a person.
But be opposite for the child, is because,why " bagatelle " lost a friend forever? Bear does not think the child never cold-shoulders its halitosis before this, also did not think the child loves it to trust it, good 99 kilometers had been before in ursine memory disappeared. It remembers that hard finally one kilometer only, and feel also cannot mix again the child is jolly ground amuse oneself.
Lose a paragraph of passionate love occasionally, it is so simple.
Because of the person's nature, it is bear grudges does not write down the animal of favour actually. Said 100 a good word to him, also resist the influence that nevertheless a malicious remarks brings.
Once was opposite person 1000 kinds good, not as good as in one day is broken involuntarily, of expression is this meaning.
03
In the life, such example also cans be found everywhere:
A girl and B girl, be in big three before, it is best friend. A girl comes from rural family financial situation general, b girl is this city, family circumstances well-off.
A and B fluctuation are spread, get along well again, b girl often helps A girl in materially, a girl knows favour be thankful, often help B hit water, take place, two people became the boudoir honey that does not say without the word. A girl made male friend later, b girl feels he not quite rely on chart, disadvantageous speak bluntly. Again later because the male friend of A girl fights with the person, be badly in need of compensating for medical expenses of the other side, situation is urgent under, be forced to look for B to borrow.
B is rich, but the male friend that is not willing to borrow A. And speak bluntly tells A, actually I feel not to rely on chart all the time. A is very indignant: Do not borrow do not borrow, your look do not go up my male friend, suspect my eye namely. You tell the truth, do you look down on me all the time?
A and B affection are the same as sororal friendly feelings, at this point disintegrate.
A is indignant, b grievance. B at the same time interrogative also: Be opposite before me she is so good, why had not touched so called " bad " ?
Do not go who discussing to who wrong, just want to say, a lot of moment, the relationship that will establish the day after tomorrow, no matter be friendship, amour or colleague affection, it is very flimsy actually, little is so called " bad " , destroy it likely.
Of course, also somebody is inherent and open-minded, the friend that feels to be able to be lost, not be true friend. But occasionally because a few break involuntarily, and the relation that delinquency is close friends one paragraph originally, be also quite regretful?
So, a paragraph of relation the more good to certain level, want careful hold together more. Must not think you are Laotie, barratrous now and then irrespective also, the language wantons a bit also can be excused.
A person once explained a paragraph of past event when he is abjection because of a poor brother, kill its dead, the name of this person calls Zhu Yuanzhang.
Occasionally, even if our error is inadvertently break, the likelihood lets us lose a paragraph of main concern forever, we do not have even explanatory opportunity even, the other side has gone far. No matter be friend, colleague or husband and wife.
Jump over good relationship, want to learn esteem more, want to have bounds feeling more, want cautious, on thin ice more.
