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Genuine effort, not be than who beautiful time more, who gets him cruel more miserable, find appropriate method however, cast next distracting thoughts, investment of systemic a person's mind goes doing a business. It is very easy to cheat others, it is easier to cheat his, but it is a bit difficult really to should deceive this world, your place is owing, still can come back both the principal and the interest one day eventually.
By is small make up
The person often says: A minute cultivated a minute of results, should try hard more only achievement affirmation is better than others, assiduous may not is successful, but be destined not conscientiously to fail.
But, why some students obviously very hard, is result bad however?
Because, they may be in holiday study, false effort, we are occasionally so called " hard " , cause by oneself ignorance nevertheless. So how be changed?
The child " false effort " , the parent " false care "
Discuss this issue with everybody today, actually I got a lot of people inspire, most what inspire me first is a in the class little girl, this little girl takes the first in class, particularly clever, quiet, clever even arrived the teacher is met the degree of oversight. But be in in final examination, her achievement very not ideal. The child's father can look for my illicit to chat later in the parent: "The child is common very obedient, why is achievement not ideal? " I also wondering, say: "Such, we observe again, in your observation home, I survey the school. I survey the school..
Through two weeks observation, we discovered the problem of this child:
When the school attends class, no matter the teacher is in lecture, reveal PPT, query... this girl is in mark note, even occasionally, the teacher turns over PPT faster, she need not read an edition, staring at screen only, next apace is written down;
And the information that the child's father feedbacks is, she returns the home everyday, can close oneself in the house, with a very delicate notebook, by day the note of each division again copy out arrives on this notebook, till the late night.
See this, everybody should have discovered the problem is in, it seems that, this girl really very assiduous, very hard, but in fact, because the method is gotten,must not become, her behavior, namely a kind " false effort " .
"Bogus is assiduous " next masking " really lazy "
When Mr. Dong Yuan of middle school of Zhengzhou foreign language makes a teacher in charge of a class, ever had made a small investigation in the 60 many children in the class, she takes out a day of time technically, below the condition that allows children to be measured in similar that day work, record every student to finish the time of exercise.
The result makes a person astonied:
Finishs quickly child, used just a little ten minutes to be finished only, after was being finished, still saw an English movie.
And finishs slow child, spent 5 hours full!
Mr. Dong Yuan says, she observes discovery, the child that those exercise finish quickly, often quality is very high still, achievement is first-rate also, and the child that those exercise finish slow, also do not have the effect of the slow work yields fine products in the imagination. They are typical " false effort " .
Get up 5:30 from in the morning, immerse oneself in enter study state, basically besides have a meal necessarily, the noon break, time that washs gargle, the others time uses study entirely.
Having a meal basically rely on to swallow, do not taste give what flavour to come. Going of course on the road of the dining room also trot all the way, also be to should take out what remember a few words small in the clearance that waits for a meal.
Issued evening to study by oneself in scheduled time, catch below dim desk lamp to the dormitory diligent, a day of problem that does not brush quite certain amount, book that reads quite certain amount is impossible to set his mind at to lay down will sleep.
Morpheus is insufficient, catnap is certain day, can rely on a volition to be maintained by force only; Tired condition issues visit a class, always have a lot of doubt, understand to be able to stay up late then in the evening only to do; Such loop move back and forth, arrive conscientiously person mind in all anger.
However, exam achievement comes out, still do not go up to fall, ongoing footstep dimension difficult, without language ask blue sky, why sweat is changed will not succeed, cannot get redound hard.
If you or your child satisfied above a few, so congratulation get so an appellation -- the person that the holiday tries hard.
Their assiduous the performance comes out, look to others, also look to oneself, perhaps be for teacher and parent that " you try hard really " praise, perhaps be to let when oneself review a day, do not feel to regret, oneself are comforted when result is bad, "Because I do not try hard,not be, just brain is too stupid " .
The little girl that we say above, it is typical low character learner, I think such child is very poor -- when people is playing, she is learning, but serve as redound without ideal achievement again finally. Bring about did not play already, did not learn from good examples again, such " assiduous " , we must avoid.
3 paces are done away with " bogus is assiduous "
1
Raise time to use efficiency
Even if distinguished the importance of different job, a lot of students still face the problem that time uses not quite. Fine fine check comes down, valid study time of a day is taken up by many trivial matters, connect for example diligent (learn up and down) , await (etc have a meal, wait for the parent to receive send, queue up) , loosen (after meal hind, siesta) .
Use in time with efficiency in the center, exist likewise in the center " 28 law " (Pareto Principle) . In efficiency highest " gold time " , the time investment of 20 ％ can produce the redound of 80% . In efficiency lowest " exhausted a time " , the time investment of 80% can produce the redound of 20% .
Accordingly, increase time availability, the essence that the key depends on pair of time is refined hold. This expresses the hang that tells us the 2nd piece namely!
If according to study unit external state of affairs differentiates, can get whole time and fractional time; If differentiate according to efficiency discretion of the student, can get efficient time and small effect time.
◆ " gold time " : The active study of high strenth
Paragraphs big complete efficient of time " gold time " , it is very valuable study time, the student can finish the study job of a few high strenth, for example of each division in a limited time training (especially put together of maths, manage) , the development of the key breakthrough of difficult problem, complex issue thinks.◆ " rubbish time " : The passivity of low intensity learns
What the fragment changes is inefficient time is study " rubbish time " , the student's psychosis owes beautiful, also have thorough reflection and study without enough whole time. Suit to undertake a few low strength that do not need to undertake a large number of reflection learn the job right now, hear English news for example / recording, those who undertake outside reading, Chinese or English practice calligraphy, estreat accumulates composition material.◆ " feedback time " : Baconian, summary, adjust, plan
Complete inefficient time is among a day " feedback time " , the analysis of the summary that suits to undertake dialogue nature place learns intellectual method, complex problem and the Baconian, study plan that reviews oneself, direction that ponders over below one him phase to try hard.◆ " accumulate time " : Recital, memory, review, promotion
What the fragment changes is efficient time is among a day " accumulate time " . "Accumulate time " , suit to undertake be mixinged with memory accumulating relevant study task, consolidate knowledge of put together of article of material of word of ancient poetry of Chinese of English word, recital, familiar composition, recital is nodded for example.oneself all time undertake the type is changed differentiate can better him give attention to two or morethings time and energy, and can undertake agile adjustment according to his daily timeline and psychosis.
2
Use good evening to study by oneself in scheduled time the time after finishing class
Evening of a lot of students studies by oneself in scheduled time to finished class at 10 o'clock, excellent / need half hour only about to the dormitory, eliminate washs gargle and time of food taken late at night, the distance sleeps to have the time of 1 many hour toward contact. Because won't temporarily other trivial matters disturbs his learning process, so whole time is very precious.
If student psychosis is better, still can have the study of a few high strenth, brush a problem for instance, in a limited time training, study difficult problem (be born as a few contests) . Of course if psychosis is bad, actually also need not loath, after all diurnal study task is very onerous.
The psychosis of major student has been inferior to moment of late self-study inchoate, experienced the motion of the exam of high strenth and excessive likely perhaps by day, so properer study task is to undertake complex problem is arranged, the method induces and study a plan make.
Reason actually very simple, even if still has 1 hour of time to just sleep, if the student's psychosis already not beautiful, go finishing a few " burn a brain " study task has not had best effect, ponder over speed and computational speed to slow not only, the mistake also can compare ferial grow in quantity.
To most student, the study through a day and review, study by oneself in scheduled time to evening time of 1 of this finally many hours after finishing class, basically had compared tired, go to those who have high strength brushing a problem again at that time set roll actually not actual, also not " humane " .
Be inferior to using time in the complex problem that does not have time to finish at ordinary times to arrange analysis, method at this moment Baconian summary, make study plan to go up.
Although these study tasks cannot bring immediate profit to the student, but hold on for a long time, total meeting brings results. In fact, a lot of in 2 rounds of students that when reviewing, show itself, it is feedback sums up the job to be done so that reach the designated position quite.
3
Had used face before sleeping 15 minutes
Face the 15-30 before sleeping minute time, the student has gotten the likelihood to be prepared to rest by the nest. At that time some students may take skill machine to brush a small gain to brush a friend to encircle, perhaps take out extracurricular book to read. If the student thinks the time that spends this paragraph of fragment is used, also can use " 28 law " arrangement means.
Face ten minutes before sleeping, time wants relatively a few briefer, finish impossibly also without method brush problem, complex problem to arrange the study job that needs to be thrown for long etc.
Below most circumstance, the student is in face before sleeping already state of mind is listless, learn involuntarily, have high strength again think and learn already not actual, can undertake at that time a few not quite " burn a brain " study task, hear English news for instance / recording, undertake outside reading, estreat accumulates composition material, practice calligraphy.
If the student's psychosis is better, can increase reflection strength appropriately, especially the content that understanding of a few need remembers, can undertake review and be reviewinged before sleep, consolidate knowledge of put together of article of material of word of ancient poetry of Chinese of English word, recital, familiar composition, recital is nodded for instance.
Junior high school is born to often say work is very much, besides do a problem to do not have time to accumulate, do not have time to practice calligraphy, do not have time to undertake outside reading, but if can a few do not suit to use the time that brushs a problem to use, as time passes can rise. For instance the proposal of this piece of watch, suit to be used very much solve trifling task.
Of course, if feel daylong study is already enough, perhaps want to be stolen to oneself lazy put a holiday, should not maintain by force surely actually, resting some earlier just is road.
The parent learns " true care "
1
Replace with the examination interrogatory with the nag
Every parent wants to become the assistant on child learning road, but we want to notice, the attention on the action just is true attention, do not take the child's study seriously on the action, and use only complain to express with the nag " care " , also be actually a kind " bogus cares " . We should do have:
The article that the child writes is read;
The child's word is taken an examination of;
The child's examination paper breaks up;
See holiday coach have on the teaching materials of the class " human activity " trace;
The problem of child err asks him himself whether summary experience lesson.
2
Money wants a flower to be on edge
The child's study, need beautiful money certainly. Although I am a teacher, but also be the parent at the same time. I think all the time, give the beautiful money on child learning, cannot count consumption, and should count investment. In this process, we should be accomplished a bit -- get on money flower in edge.
Extracurricular take lessons after school and coach the data must not be had an insatiable desire for much, cannot blind, suiting ability is good sense.
Once begin to be about to hold to, once learned,be about to fulfil. The newspaper coachs a terminus that is not parent help child, however start. To attending class the monitoring of the effect is very important also. Communicate the feeling that attend class in time with the child, help child is evaluated coach currently whether does the class suit him, it is the job that the parent cannot neglect.
To child reading demand must not grudge. Want to buy book of book, try to win sb's favor to the child regularly, enlarge the child read a cover. The advantage that read, I am absent this give uncecessary details.
Write finally
Genuine effort, not be than who beautiful time more, who gets him cruel more miserable, find appropriate method however, cast next distracting thoughts, investment of systemic a person's mind goes doing a business. It is very easy to cheat others, it is easier to cheat his, but it is a bit difficult really to should deceive this world, your place is owing, still can come back both the principal and the interest one day eventually.
