" attention small Li says, more happiness feels "
Everyday midday, we disappear not to come loose
Recreation encircles the person of another good man to set collapse.
On September 24, namely Chinese traditional festival mid-autumn that day, continuous heavy rain of actress Chen Yu exposes to the sun oneself in friend circle with Wu Xiubo affection of 7 years of underground.
Explode in makings, chen Yu continuous heavy rain shows Wu Xiubo is fickle not only, still point out brook of actor Zhang Zhi also has one leg with Wu Xiubo, oneself still are annoyed by Zhang Zhi brook, because this suffers from,went up depressed disease.
Person of wave father's younger brother sets collapse, open-armed it doesn't matter is very open-eyed. The person sets this thing, use collapse namely originally. Do not collapse today, also will collapse tomorrow; Will not collapse tomorrow, also Baobuqi will collapse the day after tomorrow.
I feel distressed is, this is done small the girl of 3, too spoony, too feel sad, too foolish!
18 years old encounter Wu Xiubo, by male god glamour + star aureola conquers directly.
American diplomat Kissinger has said a famous remark: "Influence is best philtre " (Power Is The Ultimate Aphrodisiac) .
The your person such as ascendancy, position, mana, consequence, fame is confused drunk -- female instinctively the man that apt likes those to have social ascendant more.
the Chen Yu continuous heavy rain that to just going out 18 years old at that time, the Wu Xiubo when those has depended on " before dawn " in China bright red big violet. Money, fame, position, all has. Very dead amaranthine, he still has a piece of face that has temptation extremely to the woman!
Any girl of 18 years old, if does not have a person in the heart at that time, this man is opposite if what even if be to stem from courtesy merely,she expresses little is friendly, she ripples likely for his desire for love.
The life of Chen Yu continuous heavy rain produced tremendous change from now on. She from provide quite go qualitative new show, fall cannot see smooth subterranean lover for middleaged uncle Wu Xiubo.
Affection of 7 years of underground, take off alive an optimistic, beautiful moviedom new show, became to spend depressed disease patient again.
Chen Yu continuous heavy rain says in friend circle: Each days are maintained very sadly; Whole world most the person that understands me abandoned I; If which days of my be dead, ask you not to become me a jest.
Chen Yu continuous heavy rain still says: If days can flow backwards, I won't approach certainly that individual.
Yes, know the family has wife to the child does the lover of others even obviously, story from at the beginning, ased if to be destined tragic.
However if Wu Xiubo is lone, are they together so can happy?
Or although Wu Xiubo is not lone, they are extramarital affair, must fall to nowadays so the condition that Bei urges?
In fact, besides fall in love with a married man besides, this girl still made a few big deadly mistakes that fall in love with uncle!
These are wrong, all carries blood, although of your love is a diamond Wang Laowu, successful still walked along marriage, if you made these a few faults, be about to cry tearless day is in euqally jian hou mian!
Mistake one, the career that abandons oneself
A lot of person climbs star is to borrow machine touch before last of benefit from association with sb or sth to heat up ferret to call-over, although do small 3 cannot exposure, that also can use the person arteries and veins of the other side, resource, circle, for him open highway of a golden light.
This girl is good, after knowing Wu Xiubo not only the resource that did not use him acts in his art on the career further upward, instead rests directly dish, did not pat!
Wu Dashu said: The play staff is too complex, you are dealt with do not come, come home, I raise you, dog year we are held in the arms one year two. This girl is then darling follow uncle to come home.
Girl you are foolish! The career that the man iron of running water makes!
You see family Tian Piao , you see family Deng Wen Di, the family also is become small 3, the family also draws near big Ga, the family is to borrowing big Ga people ascendancy resource accomplishs him. Pass new interest a few years went, the man wants and your See You Later, scatter have pull, his affection that he takes away, his love, even his money that he takes away, but the circle that he takes away yourself to be not managed and the land that make.
A lot of person and I had discussed Tian Piao is independent female! The answer that I think what do not think, that is absolutely. They say, does independent woman still lean a man how? I say you are wrong, cropland young lady is not to rely on a man, she just uses a man.
Remind incidentally here broad the girls that fall in love with uncle, uncle compares you on experience of money, resource, life really more get the better of one prepare.
Wrong way is the lark that a simple pleasure does inside the pedestrian island that lies in uncle to be built to you. The younger brother of one's father that he can become you, he also can be become the uncle of others. One day he goes off you, to moment that once let you feel warm to safe islands will become you to bury his graveyard.
Contrary, if you are in this hind sunshine of the bath in the garden, rooted and gemmiparous, your domain does bigger more, concern is forsaken, it is him, not be you.
After a lot of uncle also encountered Li of young trailing plants is brought up, do not look to go up in fact his awkwardness. This scale is in range estimation to expand gradually.
Mistake 2, be controlled by uncle spirit, did not have oneself thought
On one hand uncle has more life experience, more extensive experience and the thought that mature more deeply; On the other hand once a girl likes to if father is like the man of division,get on, very easy the other side Utopian, feel the other side says what is right, putting a fart is sweet.
Kind-hearted uncle can guide the girl to distinguish right from wrong, think independently, move toward the maturity of a woman; And be happy selfish and control, narrow uncle can use this to carry out mental control to Li of young trailing plants: It is incorrect that you are done so, it is bad that you are done in that way; You should such such, you should in that way in that way; Your whats should listen my.
I have a friend, feel the woman should not make up a lot of years, should not wear high-heeled shoes, cannot talk with the man. She also is a modern city girl that has gotten higher education, but before uncle husband, she with respect to waiver intelligence quotient.
Chen Yu continuous heavy rain says Wu Xiubo controls her with sutra, specific how pilot unknown, but from the point of the result, have effect quite really. Wu Xiubo says to take sport bad, she does not take sport; Wu Xiubo does not let her see producer Xu beautiful warmths, she disappears; Did not want even family friend for Wu Xiubo even, the nest serves him near one year in the hotel of Hengdian.
A woman, no matter have how to love a man, the independence that does not abandon oneself thinks. If did not have a thought, you calculate again beautiful, it is a beautiful an utterly worthless person nevertheless just.
Here, I cannot help sharing with everybody, encounter a lot of oxen to force all one's life uncle, but never give the legend person that gives him head - Russia writer, feminism person, ideologist shows · Andelieyasi Shalemei.
Young lady of this Russia noble, early the priest that is admired by oneself when 17 years old proposes. Be proposed by God, general girl can be developed by happiness first, and she, refused. Reason is: Do not want to be conquered by him!
I feel this view may be to comfort clerical proper pride, real reason is: Do not think by his confine.
This priest gave Shalemei to coach with the abecedarian with a lot of thought domains in theology really, dan Sha Le Meishen knows very well: Dimensions of oneself thought territory, spirit, the teacher that surpasses this girlhood far; Be sure to go up with the world most the brains collision scintilla of bright, hand in photograph reflect.
The fact proves, she is right.
1882, shalemei of 21 years old encounters Buddhist nun of 38 years old to collect. The Buddhist nun picks the first word that sees Shalemei says is: "Are we from which on the heavenly body one rise and fall arrives here? " after this 2 people feel like old friends at the first meeting, meet hate is late. The Buddhist nun collects the thing that likes most to mix this namely beautiful the woman that has an idea again is communicative the thought that those affected whole mankind in the future inside him head, it is ten a few hours, hours a little.
With the priest, the Buddhist nun is collected also fell in love with Shalemei. Face the frenzied pursuit that the Buddhist nun collects, shalemei said a word only: I very the thought that admires you, but your thought is you, not be me. Next with respect to good-bye.
Happy in Sha beauty is 50 years old when, encountered on human history another great figure, psychoanalysis author, fuluoyide. She learns psychoanalysis to Fuluoyide, but the student that she is not the Fuluoyide on real significance, they more a pair of bosom friends that resembling is meet one's match in a contest, friend.
Shalemei does not grudge with this great psychologist, ideologist undertakes arguing, but they are respected each other from beginning to end.
Shalemei lived 76 years, she encounters a lot of star that flare in Yi of the Yi in human thought sky all one's life. Besides uncle people beyond, still include small she well-known poet Li Erke of 15 years old. But she did not stay on an any heavenly bodies. Till the last moment of life, she is developing her intellectual border ceaselessly, open a blackart treasure box of another domain, seek truth of universe of human mystery, pursuit.
Her lifetime, have free mind, independent thought.
Mistake 3, in abandoning the life other everything, the nurse that just becomes opposite party + sexual slave
See when me Chen Yu continuous heavy rain says him 333 days to stay in hotel of Hengdian abundant Jing Jiali in a 1208 little room, boil congee Bao soup to wash the dress namely everyday, wait for a man to come back, occasionally a month just goes out. I risk the thought that come out the first times is: Ni Ma this where is small 3 ah, this is baby-sitter simply + sexual slave!
You do not feel my imagination is too rich, the bridge of those sexual slaves that you think to TV is performed paragraph, very resemble!
The film " Luo Mandi overcomes die out history " inside, zhang Ziyi is caught by Japanese sexual slave is become inside penetralia, do not cook everyday namely, serve a man to have a meal, offer man pastime next?
A lot of foolish once the girl fell in love with a man to abandon his world completely. Abandoned oneself career, oneself friend, oneself hobby, become oneself world small small.
Remain finally: Come back to have a meal in the man such as the home, eat a meal to accompany a man to sleep, if the man does not eat the meal that she does, perhaps do not sleep she, she still feels grievance is grouchy.
I am not feminism person, do do chore, take care of take care of a man, do not have a problem, want you are be most willing to only, do very happy also.
As to sexual slave not of sexual slave, want bilateral party to enjoy only, people also can say without what.
You are OK dry-nurse, also can play SM, but your world cannot have this only.
The egg is put in a basket is dangerous above all, it is bored next.
The man calculates the meal that likes to eat you to do again, he also is eating 24 hours a day; The man calculates like to go up again your bed, he also cannot 365 days of annual are not had cease.
You say, the time that this goes, did you turn the enmity on a cliff looking at a husband into Fu?
During writing an article, arranged the photograph of a few Chen Yu continuous heavy rain. It is clear really but person, I see blame pity.
Regrettablly the man that this times wants to be caressed to the woman is less and less. This perhaps is not evildoing completely, perhaps be the progress of the times.
The female comes down to be engrafted from lifetime " you are the girl, you need to protect " , " you are effeminate " , " you are delicate " . However this is not the truth, this is a view only, what also can say this is pair of females is hypnotic.
The woman is not lifetime coming down is a woman, however by culture hypnotic became a woman, perhaps say by culture hypnotic the woman that accords with social imagination into. (here hypnotic the Xiang Xiaonv child that shows social culture is uninterrupted engrafts some kind of definition about sexual distinction, make its are entered subconscious, let her think her becomes that model only really, ability is called real woman. )
However, who says the woman cannot be doughty?
I ever had asked a reader that will seek advice, imagine: If you are complete, release oneself energy completely, let oneself become strong and strong, mature successfully again, what evildoing can happen?
She is to laughing to say immediately first: What can that have to ruin sth, that is very good of course.
Then I let her close an eye, silent dichotomy bell. Her tear flowed: I do not think, I want to stay here. Sooner or later, the person that I love can take away me. If I become,mature again formidably again, he won't come forever.
We always think, want to become powerful first, ability abandons the illusion to the man; And in fact, want to abandon an illusion first, your ability is truly powerful.
Finally, I send the continuous heavy rain of beatific Chen Yu from the heart. Although make public this matter to appear you are a bit immature, also do not have what advantage to yourself's fame. However, under the circumstances, protect a life to matter. I believe to announce at numerous to you character, it is a cure heals.
Pain spread out, be seen; Illumination comes in, can ameliorate slowly.
I very feel distressed you. Resemble feeling distressed each girl that has a rough time in love.
You are a tenderness of fickle world. It is I cannot bear only for this world colorful, let you have a rough time again.
Spoony this species, absolutely absolutely.
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Ps: Somebody may oppugn me to be not criticized for what small 3. I am sorry scold small the 3 jobs that are not me. I do not condemn a woman. I also all along not redress the scales, I care joy only.
The society loves him, ability can love others
Pay close attention to small Li to say, love oneself well
