I aux would rather talk about love a lot of times a lot of, do not be willing to marry!
This is the love view of colleague Xiaobai.
With most person, the defect that Xiaobai is not willing to taking his not to know and blemish are mixed so a life lives all one's life, fear to quarrel, fear to raise the child, fear to force the the dead's reality gives her brought pressure!
So although love is very brief, but it is the 100% sweetness below 0 burdens after all. Somebody cares your changes in temperature, somebody fears you go out row, festal somebody sends a gift, sad somebody is comforted, so the graveyard that we step into marriage why again?
About the theme of marriage and responsibility, let the two Han theatrical work that I recall impression is the deepest
1. " confess couple " -- reality dies to the tear!
Do not know from when to rise, some things are familiar with and smooth in become of course, but should lose this all everything, we just realise the existence that links a certain person is not the thing of of course. -- " confess couple "
This drama begin shows the life after giving naked marriage, a few pictures in the family let countless audiences plunge into a heart.
Do the husband to have those who become the man is not easy, fend raise the home, lower his head to the client bend one's back, those who suffer all kinds of boss bully. So tired that resemble a dog same, of gain not much still. In bruise again and again, prop up him only the child dimples lovelily.
Do a wife to have the hardships that does a wife, handle chore everyday already very tired, plus take care of the child more physical strength was not raised, life place approach must tighten the garment to shrink again feed, the husband when difficulty always is absent beside. Isolated she what do not have aid is silent and enduring.
Then all sorts of contradictory conflict instants explode, erst a variety of no longer, allow to serve as fuse by a misunderstanding, the divorce was become inevitable. One thinks, it is you make me living do not have dignity. One thinks, it is you make me living do not have your.
Their marriage is equal to exhaustion and lose, and quarrel perpetually and bury old misunderstanding greatly.
If not be,weigh the chance that comes however, they do not know the other side ever also sacrificed for oneself forever probably all!
2. " the wife of understanding " -- be I turn her into an eccentric person!
The love of the strangest nothing is more... than on the world, the half alive that each other love marries, become the enemy that wants to kill each other however nowadays!
-- " the wife of understanding "
Of same theme " the wife of understanding " be called male edition " confess couple "
Men and women advocate it is the Everyman that does not spend 3 part alive in general love theatrical work. Male advocate the bank employee that is earn one's tucker, be disturbed by the child every day Morpheus is insufficient, full day is in be late the brim explores, processing is prentice traffic accident produces in the business course that get into trouble, brush explode credit card repairs the car that rents a boss, tired a day.
Those who come home to still be worked to be beautician is immersed in fuel to resemble a yellow face husband's mother however is female advocate big growl, brawl is ceaseless, suffering can'ts bear character, produce the idea of the divorce.
Male advocate the again and again asks him: At the outset that does she lovely go which?
Till finally, male advocate ability him discovery just is the murderer that turns wife into an eccentric person!
Actually the theme of these two drama is how to coexist around marriage and love those who begin. Then most the problem that gets dispute appeared: Before marrying obviously, feel the other side is the person with best whole world, after why can you entering marriage he (she) changed?
Because a lot of people misunderstood marriage,be actually, actually it is done not have so bad, bad is the means fault that you use it. Actually at that time they do not know, whole the world does not have perfect sweetheart at all, the whole world also cannot find a paragraph of perfect marriage, faulty ability is former appearance of marriage.
And marriage is originally very the lifestyle that expends love and money, when the hope that lets two people cannot see future when rough life, contradiction grows day and day. Once one considers to make clear to marital affective psychology, a paragraph of maturity, perfect amour must experience coexistence, depend on instead, independent, accrete 4 phase, of place correspondence is 4 period that the concern grows: Sweetness period, contradiction is preclinical, contradictory break out period, stability period.
So each paragraphs of marriage cannot avoid contradiction, the contradictory problem that the key depends on if why handle such danger,be in two among them people.
Regret to marry for the first time when us, regret to give birth to the child for the first time, just know from it is wrong at the beginning. But who can be returned,go. Is the person beside new knowledge fallen in love with again? Be still in hysterical years bear silently? Lamentable is reality is medium we file impossibly to come again forever!
Know on see a word:
If you love a person, that marries with him, because love is very sweet. If you hate a person, that marries with him, because marriage is very bitter.
Arrive from love hate, because love to give birth to hate, patchy move spends half a lifetime, this is current of most married personage hard of Yan Yu painful, because this hopes you aux would rather more one individual loneliness, and do not want two individual disappoint.
Remember Li Zongcheng is in again " marry at a mature age " in sing: I do not think celibate, have however premonition marry at a mature age. I am waiting, on the world agree with the soul exclusively.
Marry to cannot be afraid of, terrible is patchy life. The love that does not have material resembles two pairs of couples in drama, because of like and marry, because be born to live and divorce!
THE END
Because each other perfect gift walks along marriage,we are, so because,also meet of the other side faulty and walk out of marriage. Also do not say so, it is marriage lets love to become desolate, in the endless flow of time, what is same.
Love all the time so desolate, gift is so so precious
Ask so, forever, not, so speak easily, "Divorce " these two words!
In resembling love you also are asked, forever, not, so speak easily, "Part company " these two words!
