"Female arrive middleaged " , why can you yearn for extramarital affair? These 3 women spoke one'

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In new era, from come up at all tell, did not accomplish true ideological emancipation, because of the thought of our older generation, very traditional still, just say new of one generation 90 hind waited for young personage to just accomplish true ideological emancipation.

So why, the thought does not liberate, middleaged woman, arrived middleaged later can yearn for extramarital affair, because they spend a heart,actually a lot of moment are not, because she is bad woman,also not be, very big one part reason comes from a family, the harm that family circumstances brings to them is too great, just brought up middleaged woman to yearn for extramarital affair so this be related is solid.

So female arrive middleaged, matrimony, also pretty is happy, have have female, why can you still yearn for extramarital affair? These 3 women spoke one's innermost thoughts and feelings, listen together.

I am together with my husband, about the same also without 20 years, arrive from love marry, arrive from dynamic flatly light arrive again now, fine long hair is impassible between two people but character, I believe this will be the fact that each pairs of husband and wife should face.

Among this paragraph of matrimony of I and husband, my husband is an idler, what thing without any consideration, the its it may not be a bad idea inside, child, this all everything is my person is being managed, it is my person is taking care, the business that I should do everyday is housework, husband child, I am in around this small circle of people, husband won't want to help me partake, also won't take care of my feeling, I am very irritated really.

Zhang Wei is my college fellow student, we are each years, metropolis classmate meets, it is among the classmate party last year, I encounter him, he, still be before in that way, still resemble previously in that way like me, I wine was drunk that day much, but I say to me, did not concern, if you get unfortunate happiness too between marriage, will look for me, I am maiden, I can wait for you all the time.

He spreads out pursuit to me again, I have a family, have husband child, so I reject him, but he, give my sense, to my tenderness, good to mine, make me deep-set lair, cannot extricate oneself, subsequently and those who come is me is off the rails, my treason, I have that feeling with him, I am off the rails, I was done I am sorry husband, I am sorry domestic thing, although say I am known perfectly well,cannot be, still did however, but the suffering among the be worried among my heart and heart, who can understand again?

Reply:

Marriage and love are to having substantially of distinction, love is the romance of dynamic, marriage, make the same score namely make the same score light bagatelle, in marriage, the woman can have such mentality really, when what the mood depresses nobody are recounted when, meeting very break down, this moment woman can be immersed in blind angle, cannot, changeover, this moment, I suggest you do not go off the rails, do not go betraying, do not go doing the business that hurts opposite party, if love well, do not love to be able to divorce, can peace parts company, or, resemble you now such, you are off the rails, you are procrastinating can be two people only, can make two people very painful only.

Do not know to because belong to,should not, I follow always is noisy between husband, always be troubled by, I belong to a dog, husband belongs to chicken, with respect to test and verify that word, flying dog of that phrasal chicken jumps, we two people are original with respect to feeling bad, the result quarrels each days now, want those who be troubled by to be troubled by everyday, gallinaceous flying dog jumps, must not quiet, he does not care about me, I also pay no attention to him.

We two people such refuse to budge, not be for other, because scruple,not be he, also not be to take care of his what experience, it is for child child only, still want not to want to let the child, get such blow and harm, so two people been makinging do with so, bearing did not divorce, I also have liked person, the person that I also love, he is bigger than me too, do not care, I have old communal family, he also knows I follow feeling is bad between husband, he is very tender to me, etc the child is sensible, can say to understand this reason with the child, next we can divorce, I do not think again such.

Reply:

There must not be good with the child name between husband and wife, ability put up with wears what do not divorce, if you two people are together, feeling is on bad terms, the child also is meeting discovery, to you are a kind of torment for two people, to the child, it is a kind of anguish, rather two people are painful, be inferior to letting go put freedom of the other side.

I am not the woman that does obeisance to gold, I also am not a woman that loves money, my husband once had a paragraph of frustrated experience, between that paragraph of moment, husband is exceedingly decadent, I did not abandon him, also did not want to divorce with him, I just am accompanied beside in her, silent encouragement is worn she, cheer for her, I did not lose confidence to husband, because I know my husband is very capable, have ability very much, morning and evening is met one day of stage a comeback, it is now only, husband does not have the brave of stage a comeback.

I serve as his wife, I should give her such confidence and courage, can be, I all effort are no use, not be to waste he, accompany Mi to arrive what degree? Go every day bubble bar goes drinking, what rectify oneself is blotto, especially other and decadent, I am right really he loses confidence, originally a man likes me, plus husband decadent, I lose confidence to husband, I dated with that man.

This one appointment with respect to addiction, cannot extricate oneself, slowly, off the rails, happened, extramarital affair. I fell in love with him unexpectedly, fell in love with date with him, with the feeling that he is together.

Reply:

To your husband frustrated, you did not abandon, prove you are a good woman, but, you do humanness Fu, cannot easily date with other man, you should know your husband, when he is worth the business to fail now, very indulge very decadent, what you should do is to accompany beside in her, give him courage, cheer for him encourage, let him realise correctly, he, not be penniless, at least he still has you, so you should not choose to date with other man, more not should off the rails.

Believe to see the answer of these 3 women, in your heart, should, have one steelyard, because the woman arrived middleaged still yearn for extramarital affair, most circumstance issues the nature that is not his, it is domestic reason, this cannot blame this wife completely, a lot of moment also should rely on a man, go thinking over, go promoting.