Guide language: "Daughter-in-law, the ring of handed down from the older generations of the family gives you, betrothal gifts was avoided " " aunt, I do not wear false ring "
01
Follow A Hua to know, a colleague introduces father unit. He is not the first my boy friend, blame dispute this are not actual also, when two people encounter, I already 31 years old.
I once had had the male friend with a very close feeling, one matriculate school gate knows two people, but I want to follow when graduation,he goes when he is located in the home town job besides a thousand li that to get married, parents objects me strongly at that time far marry.
Originally I still do not want to be obedient to, parents is troubled by in the home, the neighbor neighbour of lane knows, do not have method finally, I parted company. (the son that his parents also does not agree with him stoutly gets married to nonlocal marriage, true Dou Ting is helpless. ) thenceforth rises, I pledge, this is unripe won't marry a person.
I am 21 that year years old, I was defended for my amour full acceptance of 10 years, although before male friend parts in us after 3 years married others already additionally, I am Yu Huai of this thing be troubled as before however.
02
Till, be overcome really the tear that parental nag follows my Mom, accepted finally date, knew A Hua. He is 34 years old, maiden, so old age, the enterprise develops another kind, in us place is belonged to for certain the sort of marry wife very hard the sort of.
because I am big surplus female, stem from state of mind of such a kind of payable again, be like the ground to want to catch a man marriage with the task that finish, not much demand ability is accepted. The thing lies between the consciousness that still having to feel wronged and act rashly with parents for years in my heart, a that when myself of if it were not for wants, or does not search; Hustle is worn I search, that catchs casually.
He is belonged to appear just just the sort of, as it happens bumps to my muzzle, who to know more than who a few more hapless. Though at the beginning, I am to did not give what feeling, pure patchy.
Can get along 3 months, feel his each respect is not bad, light is very be fond of me, love me to let a person be touched quite this at 2 o'clock very much. See his family is done not have nevertheless so happy, take me to see his pa Mom for the first time, the first I feel disgusted very much.
03
My what husband's father and mother gives the first feeling is including wolfish nature in the sort of fokelore namely, the dispatch Tang Shi of thievish-looking the sort of feeling, do not know to be being appeared from where a kind of calculate and astute, look at feel from the unfeignedly in the heart " this person cannot be handed in greatly " flavour, the feeling follows their contact with should eat to have a deficit greatly, the mouth says each word must stay repeatedly, have kind of feeling that so as to save falls into others decoy.
But A Hua is not bad however, very simple and honest, also do not have what calculation the sort of, from his parents here, more or less do I also know why the reason that A Hua has not married, respect of its neutral case holds one share, cent also is reduced for him for certain here many.
See A China parents for the first time, I bought a lot of gifts. These are I let A Hua be what they carry technically to the opinion (he says him parents what to like only, nevertheless the thing is myself however press good quality technically choose) , after but give,arriving in his parents hand, two people lose me aside, sit on sofa one looked.
04
The edge looks, his mom is casting aside a mouth to say, this she knows which sign talent is first-class; That which brand ability is the noisiest, the meaning below character, I am persnickety and miserly. That is, LV also is a bag, roadside booth also is a bag, the character difference among gets a great distance of far more than, I spend a huge sum of money impossibly to buy top class goods euqally technically euqally, anyhow purpose is very arrived to be become.
This is same, had seen they are the sort of very calculate, very acrid and acerbity, do not have decent person again pettily.
Later I as far as possible little come, perhaps know him father and mother what heart sex, when A Hua sends me to come home, said, we won't live together with husband's father and mother after marriage, let me do not worry about these too.
To let the know how things stand and feel confident of handling them in my heart, he also hit precautionary needle with me beforehand, no matter marriage hind still is before marriage,say me, had better not see his mom under the counter, those who promise them should not be in more when he is not attendant any requirements.
If herself will look for me, raise the requirement that makes me embarrassed, let me turn the business toward his head, explain my sentence: "This I cannot be done advocate, ask you to look for A Hua to talk. " went, have him this word, more or less did I just put mug-up.
05
Eventually when we want to talk about marriage talking to marry, meet in two above the ceremony, put forward to want their home to give 100 thousand betrothal gifts when my parents, nevertheless my home won't want, also can go out likewise 100 thousand let when I am taken together, my mother-in-law reason does the hand that stirs the ground to pulling me to say: "" daughter-in-law, I give you the ring of handed down from the older generations of the family, it is OK that was betrothal gifts avoided? Also be a form only anyway, those who take go off with is troublesome also, you come over dowry part belt to give directly I went. You come over dowry part belt to give directly I went..
Draw out a box from the pocket next, open shook before me, one fights big organic glass, setting outside knowing is iron makes the give up that still is steeliness hold in the palm, deceive people to also be disinclined to issue cost simply, take me to be fooled when fool.
I look at ring say; on the spot " aunt, I do not wear false ring. " listening to these utterance of big check below Hua Tianzhi, see that inferior glass ball before have sth in mind, don't I know this marriage how should do? My parents also had the meaning that thinks back out, feel such relatives by marriage nevers mention it association, look at namely feel to be troubled by mind to ache.
Ke Ahua says however, his parents is what person, it is good to mine to do not affect him. Really I follow A Hua marriage, but this home, say really, can't help I do not worry, does everybody say to be opposite?
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