If turning a deaf ear to a teacher to parental word, become imperial edict, spirit of child lack dou

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My home son is student of a dutiful really, hear the teacher's word especially, the teacher says what does, the teacher teachs him how to learn. Once I coach problem of a his maths, as a result he says: "Mom, what you say is incorrect, such the teacher not teaching. " I ask in reply how does his teacher teach. He said the teacher's method probably. After listening, I feel different in approach but equally satisfactory in result of these two kinds of methods, OK. When the analysis of the train of thought that solve a problem that uses me when me listens to him, he special defy, unexpectedly persist unreasonably ground says: "You are not a teacher, I work should listen to you. Do you know, if do not listen to a teacher, the teacher wants criticism. " I am able to bear or endure strength says blandly with him: "The teacher's method is the method solving a problem that is aimed at all classmates, why be if there is better method,adopted? To the teacher also cannot blind audience, want to have doubt mind. " ground toot has son panting with rage small mouth, no longer pay attention to me.

Common saying says: October chaos is clad in September. Seasonal and alternant season, difference in temperature of morning and evening is big, everyday the face that weather also resembles baby, say to change. Drop in temperature suddenly yesterday, cold wind rustles, I put on dust coat, preparation sends a son to go to school. When going out, I discover the son is wearing short sleeve shorts amazedly, ground of my stare tongue-tied says: " won't? The rumor that didn't you hear scream of face of regard sb as an outsider and passes? Leaf waves fell one ground. He says: "Irrespective, I am not cold. " although he says so, I or obstinate ground remind him to put dress of a long sleeve to be in satchel, in case cold can wear. He came to: "You are irritated, quickly, I should be late. " although not be at ease, but can follow him only, let him freeze to he just can wake up to reality and be changed.

Came back last night, the son says: "Mom, tomorrow Qiu You, the teacher lets us wear short sleeve to take a coat. " when getting up this morning, yang Gaozhao admires outside, clear sky 10 thousand lis. I say to the son: "Need not take coat today, weather is too hot. " the son refutes immediately: "Be no good, the teacher says, must take coat. " I restrain fury: "The teacher reminds you to take coat according to the weather situation yesterday, but weather has today change, the teacher also does not expect, do not want the word of apply mechanically teacher so, want adapt oneself to changing circumstances. " the son listens far from, just wearing coat to go Qiu You. I am thinking, he so a person that is afraid of heat, to implement the teacher's directive, really " not plan sequential " ah. I by his " loyal and devoted " be to be convinced deeply. Actually I do not worry to heat up him bad, heated up him to be met, what I worry is the son is opposite this kind teacher at sb's beck and call, do not know the thinking way of flexible, is this a very terrible thing?

Eventually one day, the thing appeared a favourable turn. Once I kiss with him child read, there is a word phoneticize above obviously bid became complex, him son also knows be a fault, but he however ground of repeat what the book says is read went down, be without regret meaning. I remind his fault repeatedly, he can have fallen, speak plausibly and at length the ground says: "Be of such mark on the book, is it wrong? " I say: "Book also is met wrong when, you cannot go up because of the book so you follow bid blindly it is read, you must have doubt mind, how can you follow it one fault after all? " his sniff, ground of over shoes over boots read whole text.

I am can find no way out, be forced to appeal at the child his pa guides. The son adores very however to his pa, old after all father is the whole nation famous oratorical, also be erudite the teacher of much ability. His pa still has idea really. Close child reading moment is intended misread a few words, the son is corrected immediately, and mock the father that this bellyful combs and arrange silk threads-attend to state affairs cock-a-hoop: "Father, you read aloud a fault again oh. " then his pa make the best use of the circumstances: "Son, father is so clever, read aloud a fault how possibly? " the son says: "Everybody can err, you are not exceptional also. " father says: "That was opposite, wrong be wrong, you can because is father very outstanding,you think father what is right? " the son says, of course cannot. Father continues to say: "You look, my son was connected. To old father such authority has doubt mind, this ability is the son that we has wisdom most. That father thinks excuse me, is your teacher wrong? How should if did the teacher become wrong,you do? " the son says cowardlily: "I think the teacher also can err for certain. But the problem is I am afraid of the word that does not hear a teacher get a scolding. " father is laughing to say: "Son, you are much Lv. The teacher lays in education according to general situation, so impossible reach every aspect of a matter. The teacher also needs to grow, the teacher also likes to have the student that oppugns spirit most, because such student is creative, have ponder over force. The teacher can dare to raise doubt because of you and praise you, admire you, scold you how possibly. What is more,the rather that the solution that a title has a variety of differring, if you can find the better method that solve a problem, can exercise your thinking ability on one hand, also can raise your rate that become a problem on the other hand, this ability makes true study, have the study of wisdom. Have the study of wisdom..

His pa sent his Han Yu quip finally: Master need not virtuous at child, child need not be inferior to division. Although he is very not clear now, but I believe the son can understand slowly.