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The friend is to be in some company to do a design, what face every day is as dry as a chip insipid picture. But be in as dry as a chip in, chat boss is the means that they indulge in pleasures everyday. The boss that says them according to the friend is Beijing originally, domestic condition is favourable, wife shows consideration for the child obedient. But, succeed in eye of this alive common namely male, be together with the employee of the company however rear.
Come off work every time two people make an appointment to go to see a movie, go shopping. Not only such, still have an affair with in the company not clear. Had passed below their relation illicit left, just hinder to dare be not carried in public at the boss' majesty bright stopped.
Think to have the plot that sees in teleplay only so, who knows in actual life performing likewise. Some men have a happy and perfect home, not contented still, then look for a lover even outside, satisfy oneself desire.
02
Why can they satisfy the happy family that they have? Because be mixed for long,be on one hand actually wife different ground, and oneself are alone and doleful, want to look for a person to accompany accompany oneself. It is on the other hand a stimulation searchs in flat life, the life that lets oneself is a bit more interesting.
The friend's boss is belonged to former, wife child is far be in Beijing, oneself a person manages foreign land alone, urgent need has one the individual's company. But, he still loves him home, because every time the company has a holiday to be able to return Beijing accompany wife child.
If not be to still care about that family, have a holiday to go to Beijing why again, see wife child. In them the sound with the realest bottom of the heart is, two I want domestic lover. After all the family is him forever port, also cannot come loose anyhow. And lover. It is when oneself are doleful and intolerable, it is difficult to can discharge care to solve, it is happy more so.
03
It is difficult to love each other to be defended easily, what should maintain marriage in flat life is fresh be very not easy, this needs the joint efforts ability of both sides of husband and wife to do. Zhang Xiaoxian of famous affection fictionist says " feminine with the passing of time lays condition, repugn of man with the passing of time " , again good marriage, also be unavoidable insipid.
So, a lot of men always are easy and off the rails inside marriage, in the day long always easy heart repugn is evil. And search new stimulation, made the man's commonnest way. Clever woman knows management marriage, and not clever woman knows brawl only.
Common saying says " of chaff wife cannot cast " , want to have happiness not to want truly everywhere look for is exciting, nocturnal route goes much, total meeting encounters ghost.