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Affection business, it is the popular keyword that lasts long a few this years. Actually not fathomless, with affection the person with small business is waited for be in, too meet with blame, easily urgent, do not come with respect to change, a word your choke die partly, oneself resemble a person of have nothing to do, crucial others still won't tell you. Then, many people begin ego to meditate, him for fear that is delimited receive favour a business is small batch that.
But I discover a phenomenon, present person, what thing loves the business that have feeling. Be apt to even if my affection business is small, do not mind.
Really, some people are not to know well really of affairs of human life foolish Bai Tian, what do not know you is not easy. Can have the problem of some of person, pressing a root is not affection business is small.
Say a friend encounters the flooey worry on recently, the company came newly a colleague, it is a bar essence, have nothing to do always likes to do not support, and be being torn open always is an opportunity just. Overwork hardship of boss boast others, she says overwork specification capacity is small. Efficiency of boss boast others is tall, she says the likelihood works not saturated. Chatting at ordinary times also is a heart, not be to uncover others weak point, laugh at others to wriggle namely, somebody of in every case by complimentary, she meets an other people pull down altar certainly.
Anyhow, chat at ordinary times very good, arrive the moment of truth, affection business second gets offline. Friend by black extremely miserable, ground of have no alternative says, must be far from you beside affection the person with small business.
Listen me very without language, this presses a root is not what affection business low, it is bad. A person says what word, it is what person, with affection trade it doesn't matter concerns. Those are alleged not careful disclose others the person of one knife, it is others of not to be exposed to likely good.
Two
The friend says this thing, let me remember a heat of Wang Lifen of the beginning of the year. Wang Lifen of author of net of rice of famous compere, actor sent the CCTV before this year January a small gain, caused not small heat to discuss. In this small gain, she celebrated the article that she comments on Mao Kan Kan one piece to die ardently to be achieved quickly 100 thousand + , at last still came to " speed should imagine than me in a lot of faster, first glad " .
When seeing this news, a lot of people say she may be medium fall first, get dizzy with success arrives this degree, affection the can care with true business. Then, I discover surprisingly, business of increasing person discussion condition when, like to use a level: What word should say, what word ought not to say. Can look in me, the core of this problem is talking means far from, however why you are opposite of others lose did not sympathize with a heart.
Boudoir honey said a word, sum up very reach the designated position, occasionally, affection quotient is high also cannot rescue you, because of one individual in one's heart disgusting do not hide.
Before two days, saw Huang Bo be in " character " special interview, understand this eventually " without Yan Zhi, without muscle, without height " 3 without star, encircle pink how indescribably all the way.
He has a word, special move I: "When having actually, alleged tall affection business, it is you do not want to harm others, I am not the person with an actuation sex, aggressive particularly strong sex, there is soft place inside my disposition, do not like to say the word so so absolutely. Do not like to say the word so so absolutely..
So, he just can have the show of business of so much tall sentiment.
" yearning life " in, huang Bo is asked about, how " a good fun " Li Xuzheng and show share of Sun Gonglei cutout, he replies wittily:
Still once, of the film remuneration of yellow Bo of the hearsay on the net and Zhou Jielun same, reporter foment dissension asks how Huang Bo looks. Huang Bo one " Na Gongxi Zhou Jielun " ably head off a danger.
Every time, others rancorring Huang Bo, he can not hurt person fraction ground to rancor go back. Must say, do not say the word absolutely actually a person arrives greatly the goodness of in one's heart. Business of this kind of affection, install very hard.
Three
But in reality, a lot of people live muddleheadedly, like to regard affectation as affection business, then, they often plaint, affection why does business drill so hard. Actually, not be difficult practice, the place that is practice is wrong. Build refine affection business, what should drill most is not the mouth, however heart.
Our company has a fellow worker before, always say him frank and outspoken, affection business is small. Left hand not careful the information that leaked B to A, the right hand not careful shook the thing of C to go out. Finally, everybody discovers, from her here conducts the groundless talk of entire before company. Then, 26 letters seek her account. She returns one face grievance, my this person is natural solid sincere, conversation says plain truth only.
I ask her, company so much person, you know how to reply a thing.
She one face distains the ground came, know what says what.
True, want to smoke her at that time. If say, profitable selfishness, still calculate going up is clever bad, she is without this kind fall to the person logically stumble, it is foolish absolutely bad. Affection quotient is again high, also cannot remedy the flaw on motive.
This, it is duty field not only, person and person get along also is same argument.
Have period of time, the office mind of a boy is restless, somebody guesses is Tan Lian love, but I treat that condition, resemble those who come just was being given off from neuropathic courtyard. Still talked about cate giggle with you yesterday, with respect to fade head the ground that build a brain makes go on a hunger strike today. I ask, was to have a favorite girl so, do not know how the family thinks. Make evening a little with you today, will disappear tomorrow daylong.
Result, the girl is playing the boy friend's hand one day, say with my work in the same placing, feel embarrassed, my this person won't talk, I did not think of to let you misunderstand. The office falls on the spot broke several cups.
True, this is not the problem that can talk, it is the person has a problem.
Four
These a few years, there are a lot of shows about tall affection business on the net. You discover surprisingly, affection has a few general character on the person with high quotient. For instance they are known exercise restraint, never try to change the point of view of other, when be being refuted, also can behave courteously, have patience. Be together with such person, a most word that people says is: Comfortable.
Alleged and comfortable, pass through these people namely actually, you prefer yourself.
Can want to reach this kind of state, light has a way, far insufficient, you are gotten can put down oneself, return so that be the same as manage heart a bit. Spoken parts in an opera, truly kind-hearted person, affection business is small not. The low affection business of those alleged goodness, it is goody likely.
In the life, I had seen many people, or likes Diss others fat, black, ugly, or opens a few ultra fun, take others to drive scald thin slices of meat in boiling water. Harmed others to return Yun Danfeng to get on gently, you how so not know how to behave in a delicate situation. To satisfy his the heart is nodded then narrow, do not pay attention to others completely experience. Tell the truth, this is not what affection business low, it is bad.
I once had asked an affection business explodes the person of the watch, can know person of which say a few parting words can be overcome, after all the susceptibility of everybody is very different. She said a word with me, my benefit from up to now, be in when you weighing in the hand this word is inappropriate, explain itself is already inappropriate, that had better not say.
Actually, said so much, not be to say skill is trashy, say however, besides skill, you should spend mug-up to think of the heart in oneself more. Presumably, why so much person likes Huang Bo, because,be probably compared with sense of humor, that tenderness and goodness more let a person use a facial expression. In the final analysis, affection the highest state of business is true goodness.
