Confucianism: Do not have assault and battery, look for problem itself only

Confucianism: Do not have assault and battery, look for problem itself only

Child say: "Bai Yi, father's younger brother is neat forgive and forget, complaining is to use rare. Complaining is to use rare..

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? Uncle exterminate father's younger brother is neat, these two people, not be a person to the thing, have on individual body evil, what they hate is this evil, is not this individual. ?

? ? Because this kind of their moral was known by others. Others also hates them rarely, because everybody knows, uncle exterminate father's younger brother is neat it is not to hate oneself of this individual, hate the ferocious act on him body however. ?

? This is a kind of very marvelous character. Had this kind of quality, can become a good friend with anybody, can with anybody lay one's heart bare. ?

? And the heart of Everyman is, if this individual did bad thing, had evildoing, implicative this individual is hated together, ?

Result, can cause bilateral mutual resentment, have assault and battery each other. This enemy is complained hard unlock. ?

? So, we are in the job, must emphasize wrong to the thing person, what should point out is this thing is done not purely, where is incorrect. ?

? is not to point out, this person has a problem. ?

? Of course, this socially, the business that a person does, with this individual itself do not divide actually. ?

? Should appear a person is to change to come nevertheless really his defect when, we also have administrative cost, ?

Do not want absoluteness investment, this moment, be forced to abandon him. ?

? Nevertheless, inside that limits that did not abandon in you, you still want to often be told, wrong to the thing person. ?

Working, in the life, do not have assault and battery to the person forever, this most the resentment that enrol a person.

Talk about specific issue only, specific solution.

Such, calculated you to correct the error of others, because everybody knows you are well-meaning, neat like uncle exterminate father's younger brother same, not be resentment the other side.

Others also does not hate you.

A person, if can be accomplished,point out mistake of the other side, and others is not hated, this individual, the controller with can become good.

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