Before two days have to explode money article " be in this to lie as a child beat old woman before, yang Chao does not calculate bright and beautiful carp really more " telling a schoolgirl to arrive as a child is greatly how lucky, for instance:
The problem of appreciate of ancient poetry word in take an examination of is brushed before the exam, because the first is late and officeholder exam is recommended, him home installs new developed area to have 300 mus of land in hero fitly.
More magical is, the person that often needs together with her can have lucky energy of life, join the sale eldest brother next door her, also be basically from outstanding achievement 0, the goods that because followed her to eat a meal,sold 140w...
The creation before Jiashangzhi 101 on whats won't still be C the Yang Chao that goes out is jumped over, pay treasure " carp of man-made bright and beautiful " the letter is small slow-witted, you can see bright and beautiful carp straightens this two years this is really more and more fire, more and more people wait important node a moment in exam, interview before, transmit these bright and beautiful carp, bless oneself to be connected smoothly close.
But you had thought, place the hope the more early the person on body of bright and beautiful carp, jump over won't lucky.
Of course great majority person is not place the hope completely on bright and beautiful carp really, it is the heart also was put only so little thought, with the behavior of transmit of low cost ground, exchange bigger lucky just.
But I ask you, one does the person that nice perfectly sound prepares, a person that struggles difficultly, does need place the hope on the bright and beautiful carp of entirely imaginary?
Resembling is a teacher once admonished my: You want awe-stricken and dim the chance in, but cannot give a destiny power to make decisions, resemble you won't disregarding traffic light to go on big driveway, believe oneself are lucky to won't the car bumps into you.
True lucky come out hard, even if you go asking that explodes the author of article one ground gold, she also dare not tell you she does not have serious preparation before all sorts of exams for certain...
The effort that causes end was gone to by concealed, instead is a few chance are taken show off repeatedly.
Gathered up like somebody gold of this one ground, discover she says without oneself at all so indifferently, so irritated also before all sorts of exams that want dead. Even still he comes out to censure her with the station of senior fellow apprentice of school, say she is major of liberal art of first of this school rank far from, a series of experience make a holiday.
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This learns with respect to a few scheming that are like our student period bully, before taking an exam obviously, prepare than who exert to one's utmost, after but take an exam,the result comes out, say with everybody how oneself didn't prepare at all, because take an examination of the dot is him meeting by chance,be being taken an examination of very purely is.
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Answer test to need fivefold ammo to measure:
Lucky need you pay N the effort of times
There is a very significant technical terms on strategics, call Fanfolite ammo quantity.
This story comes from period of Yu Chaoxian war, the staff officer that American general Fanfulite asks him is hit win that war to need to more or less play dosage.
Give advice told him a number, fanfolite says, this battle should hit the ammo of 5 times to measure. Final Fanfolite achieved the strategic goal of that battle really.
He is not a hope lucky, compare others however taller beforehand the degree of appraise difficulty, give oneself obligate enough much room, consider each detail to help somebody attain his aim, get ready at any time answer worst hour, lucky balance just begins to tilt.
In other words, answer the hardest test, need you to prepare fivefold ammo to measure, pay N the effort of times, when you accomplish this, lucky begin favour you.
But a lot of people do not do this, they think lucky lean namely really " touch " , is not to rely on his fight the nature, pay more effort to must come.
2017 end when, my friend Elya was lovelorn.
Cross year when, she has pity on say with me on small letter: Hope 2018 can be opposite I am a bit better.
At that time she already because encounter broken bits male be lovelorn largely month, all the time very dispirited. I look to go nevertheless really, say with her:
It is a bit better to you to want one year newly by what? Whose happiness is to struggle come out? How can you place the hope on others body?
It is a bit better to you that I say I do not bless 2018 meetings, I bless you to be able to rise differentiate broken bits male ability, when encountering difficulty can firm all the time, can fearless, can be apt to of battle of be apt to is become, can not suffer all pulling to stumble, can say no longer " hope Xxx is a bit better to me " if this kind of weakness is despondent.
A lot of people are met so say, hope next year is a bit luckier, the hope leaves a project a bit more successful...
Our oversight a problem: Lucky not be " hope " come, lucky can rely on you only ability must come to the fight the nature.
If your everything places the hope on other person, is not him expectation make what thing change the current situation, then I think you are led probably forever won't lucky.
Truly lucky person often is on right way brandish asperses sweat just.
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Found when you " fall " want church your thing
What climb you to be able to grow again is faster
A reader once had said with me: Recently I gradually " why should this thing happen on my body? " is idea replaced " is this thing to think church my what? " , discover everything beside was changed next.
I feel this word is the truth simply:
On one hand the meaning need yourself of a lot of things goes discovering, seeing the fault that you had tried is to think church your what;
Find this sense when you only on the other hand, climb from the hole that oneself had thrown, the ability that you grow is the fastest.
A lot of people expect his life is plain sailing, but this kind expects is impossible to come true apparently, from the point of long-term perspective, the function of life is absolutely cannot drab increase by degrees.
Since trial and error is the indispensable growing cost in life, that still is inferior to from the lesson is drawn among the setback, let oneself grow quickly rise.
Want to if you want to succeed,know, so the first thing that you should do arrives from unsuccessful middle school namely thing, thereby " avoid to fail " .
This just also is the elite place of converse thinking. The teacher that describes oneself like well-known investor Li Lu investigates case of manage · awn:
Checking manage to ponder over a problem always is from converse begin. If want to understand how life gets happiness, that is about to study how life just can become painful above all; Should study how the enterprise is done do by force big, checking manage to study a company above all is how of decline; Major person cares more how to score a success on stock market investment, checking what manage pays close attention to above all is why to be on stock market investment major person failed.
"I want to know I can die in where in the future only, such I did not go there " .
Lucky be contingency, failure is level sex, growing is lasting sex, but the unsuccessful ability that jumps over level sex only is greeted grow ceaselessly, accordingly from force of the derive in failure, should compare successful all the time He Yongyuan lucky have decision sense more.
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What decide life value truly is not small lucky
In those hard hour your choice holds to and become strong however
Found when you " fall " want church your thing, when climbing again, what you can grow is faster. But most person is not such, or chooses to abandon, or bends over not to stand up in hole.
But of the life value that shapes you, often not be each small lucky hour, however those choices that you make in hard hour, it is to choose to abandon, still choose to hold to, let oneself become stronger.
Explode like that the author of article one ground gold, she says those are small lucky I do not care, because say impolitely, what I am close friends more than her achievement in student times is much, for example lies like that winning English 6 class grade, do not calculate even the introduction really in my school on, the person that takes an examination of 600 minutes of above is too much...
I want to decide she can go to today to brush explode the friend encircles, also not be her the little that says in the article is small lucky, cross the hour of a lot of hardship however, hard loiter heat, look for Kol to detonate discharge, flower is big time to write an article, the hardship of this backside is far either lucky can generalize.
The domestic author Li Xiangceng of the car is in via sharing his 2008 the hard hour of moment.
What the home of the car develops at that time is first-rate, but of development better, their cash flows to jump over difference instead.
This is pure because,be they advocate business Wu is advertisement, and the financial cycle returning a money of most car businessman wants 3 months at least, so the cash of the home of the car flows very nervous from beginning to end.
Li Xiang says him most the hour of feel sad is 8 Nian Wenchuan earthquakes when: A lot of person of the same trades give disaster area come down, contribute 200 thousand, 500 thousand, of 1 million have. But money of the what on our Zhang is done not have at that time, there also are more than 10000 moneys only on myself card, that is the most miserable really when. What is awaiting everybody to still say Li Xiang in those days 80 hind billionaire, actually nonsense is not.
More miserable is that a year still erupted global banking crisis, the cash that is their company not just poured out of a problem, the cash of a few VC that Li Xiang sees flowed to also give an issue, do not make money because of a lot of LP. Li Xiang can send salary through borrowing money give employee only even at that time.
But partner can not consider financial crisis, also won't consider ad advocate the strategy that return a money, won't consider newly established group to do not have financing experience originally more, they can feel Li Xiang is incompetent only, so Li Xiangrong is less than money, li Xiang be a burden on our development.
The most difficult when, li Xiang attends a meeting on a table with partner, a gang partner is pointing to nose to scold Li Xiang, want he and an another combination author to kick a bureau.
Li Xiang also is to biting a tooth to did not sign later, because want not to sign only, partner people also do not have method from jural kick him a company.
The home that there just was a car later so appears on the market, appraise value reachs 1 billion dollar, 6 billion dollar, to today's about a hundred 100 million dollars.
So you look, full classics setback comes up the person with a lot of very great success, is not lucky all the time come up. The hardship that in the final analysis lets you are painful is normal, those who make you comfortable is lucky it is temporary.
But collect like the Buddhist nun say " always kill not dead my, can make me more powerful " , and say without the person, make me comfortable, can make me more powerful.
Very much hard hour you cannot expect what oneself can change is lucky, can choose to hold to only, those who lean is brave of one antrum Gu, most dangerous places also wants the courage that takes forth.
Because you know, if say there is what thing on this world is the competitor is copied forever,do not go, the moat that the affliction that is your experience then helps what you make, because you know the competitor later also can walk into these hole likewise, and you hold on to the experience that becomes stronger, it is unique.
Hold on to the person that becomes strong to be able to be gifted by difficulty value, hold to no less than going to that can send a hope to be able to be washed out by difficulty at lucky person only, so simple.