Age is small before, youthful vital energy fills always be sensibility, when encounter baleful bespatter or be immersed in meaningless conflict, impulse makes we make for a short while refute, after those tolerance, sober all throws all heads, contend for finally although hurt enemy 1000 also meet from caustic 800.
Had turned round to look, when you begin a debate with these people, jump into the hole that they dig.
Do not discuss an issue with the person of unthink, do not argue with the person of unthink especially what.
In blundering society, my constant regular meeting sees " controversy " setting, because view of a thing is abhorrent, contend for be flushed, photograph of evil even language to. And as draw near the eddy that the person that watch also can be argued by be involved in sometimes.
But is this a controversy really? With choke dead the other side is a victory is bicker, deepen the view to a problem in order to oppose means sets out from different point of view, ability is qualified the controversy that be called. A lot of moment, these so called controversies are not real debate at all, more resembling is bicker, once bar rises, very easy mood is changed, disposition says to come, speak rudely assault and battery also is commonplace.
The controversy becomes bicker is to quarrel even, because argue,be both sides is not below condition of a words more very communication, also do not leave communication in an administrative levels. Just thinking how oneself are conveyed, and did not go listening to the meaning that goes pondering over the other side, chicken is told with duck, be totally unrelated, cause what say each each, send the situation that discharge resents severally severally.
Constant with had been the same as contend for relative superiority or inferiority, not with goofy theory short long; Peace and gentleman hit, do not say a word with Lilliputian.
Believe a lot of people had heard these words, those who say is OK with gentleman preach manage argues, you also can be harvested somewhat, won't have a result with goofy controversy, the person that can tell a truth also is not goofy, more never mention it, with the person with a 3 different view, also cannot communicate on a frequency.
"Well frog is not OK language Yu Hai, summerly bug is not OK language Yu Bing " , the person that cannot tell a truth must not waste talking around with him.
And Lilliputian we should were far from more, this kind of person often be fond of sows discord, without the principle, confuse right and wrong, force hypocritical. But did you say to encounter how to do? First time is avowed and hapless, learn this lesson next, leave such person a bit further later. A person of low position to those, we stop to quarrel or explain later with him without time, they understand the reason not, be being sheered so is.
Disaccord Lilliputian associate with, purify friend circle, you want to become what kind of person, be about to choose what kind of person to become a friend.
Common saying says: "The word is not congenial half many " , do not waste valuable time on undeserved person, both neither can have income, return the energy that can waste you. And the object to wanting to communicate, want to notice speaking pattern, much conversion thinks, the point of view that can understand with the other side as far as possible will talk about, lest arises " choose the wrong audience " , " do not say person word " awkward.
