Do not think the child lives more self-abased more, always do not engraft to the child this kind of

Lifetime of Xu eldest sister is austere, teach her son as a child not random beautiful money, can save a province, be economical to matter. When Xu Dajie takes a son to go out, every time her son sees what eats play want, most of Xu eldest sister can preach to the son: "That plays suggestion is much more valuable ah! You think father mother goes to work much tiredder much trouble, we also money of it doesn't matter, we did not waste money to buy these things... "

As time passes, xu Dajie's son becomes gradually " oily " , oneself buy a toy rarely, buy eat, but always call other young associate to share those who eat to him, the parent that sees young associate still asks cautiously can go playing in their home, and if the parent is softhearted,agreed, he can go back on his word to eat and drink in others home play, face the toy that arranges other child even, was discovered cry with respect to act shamelessly beg saying is to borrow, won't return however...

3 years old look big, 7 years old look old, want conceivable also, what if Xu Dajie's son is in,viewpoint of value did not get in growing is correctional, that won't have too great promise for certain in the future, be on branch road possibly even.

Xu Dajie is used to this kind still is not an exemple really, in the life, have a lot of " Xu Dajie " like to be before the child most go about telling people how hard up one is, engraft to the child " save money is serious " thought, obviously the condition in the home is not poor, think to cannot make child nurturance grandiose blindly however the habit of wasteful, extravagant, the result is overcorrect, be just the opposite to what one wished, because show sympathy to parents works hard and be known,won't let the child not only economize, can let the child become self-abased and sensitive instead, also or it is oily like Xu Dajie's son Babbitt.

Proper education child does not have a fault originally sparely, but the parent must have mastered among them measure, do not think the child lives more self-abased more, the parent always does not engraft to the child this kind " save money is serious " thought!

The parent always teachs the child " save money is serious " , before the child go about telling people how hard up one is, can let the child feel from personal home really very poor, then becomes self-abased, dissocial, timid, feel oneself and the difference of little companionate presence all round, dare not contact with them consequently.

The idea of affection respect often also is deformation is in after such child is grown, exceeding is self-abased let them dare not grow sentiment, dare not accept feeling.

"Save money is serious " 4 words are listened to too much by the child, the look that can bring about the child is centered on be economical, at every turn feels distressed money, it is more important to do not know a lot of things want to compare be economical however.

Have one's view of the important overshadowed by the trivial, do not see a father-in-law, was obscured by be economical the child of the eye, how can you have broad view, capacious situation?

By be economical screwy viewpoint of value is very terrible, truly avaricious person often is not those wealthy people, however the poor of twist of a few viewpoint of value, because of end, know poor hardship, be afraid of end especially.

Although those parent may not to child go about telling people how hard up one is are true end, but the poor that the be economical thought that they engraft can bring about the child to become mentally however, in monetary side exceeding lack safety feels, money of exceeding also longing, make the child's viewpoint of value screwy, become monetary slave.

Truly clever parent, can know the consciousness of hardworking and thrifty that how rears the child, and won't blindly go about telling people how hard up one is, engraft to the child " save money is serious " thought.

Hope parents can correct Yo, always not be go about telling people how hard up one is and hole the child!

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