Now, because be badly off, she wants to appeal at that son that is sent. Nowadays son year income 550 thousand yuan, but, he does not pick up the telephone all the time however...
These two days, an old lady because " send after raising a son 34 years, appeal meet with refus " went up small gain heats up search.
On December 3, the reporter contacts this old lady and her son, is the thing after all how one and the same?
Old lady, surname king, this year 73 years old, there is two below genu two female, the young son Xiaozhang that when still having 1 year old, sends (alias) .
King old lady says, oneself are after becoming birth control operation, conceived Xiaozhang accidentally, holding out pregnant to still act in a Chinese opera in those days, pretty is not easy.
After the child is born, because the condition in the home is too poor, the child that should raise is too much, raise do not rise, via person introduction, gave condition of a family Xiaozhang relative to better other people.
"The other side asks I want how many money at that time, I say, I do not want money, I am not to sell the child, I am to send, the son was brought up after, can bring let us see see went. " king old lady says, go so these year, she and the young son that send are contact all the time, had met ten times.
To see young son, king old lady says, oneself are that 70 years old years, specially is at the beginning of good year 2 that day, in that other people that hurries to foster Xiaozhang.
"Because know, this time, he is in certainly. " she says, if oneself wished to see son Xiaozhang.
Xiaozhang tells her, oneself married in Hangzhou, bought a house, still gave birth to the child, the job is good also, do not calculate additional stake, yearly salary has 550 thousand yuan.
She is him glad.
Nevertheless, when Xiaozhang sends her to come home, say with her, about the thing of one's own mother, had not told a wife, hope king old lady calls not actively to oneself.
After this, king old lady is done not have all the time and young son is contacted.
Live well of day of original king old lady is good, also do not want to disturb young son.
The old partner of king old lady, because one's early years of cancer of the stomach dies, she is remained in the home a person. She although the body is bad, had gotten cerebral stalk, inconvenience of ability to walk, the life provides for oneself very hard, but two two female calculate filial, gave money to hire nurse to her, attend her life daily life.
Regrettablly before two sons two years deal fails, "The flower bought full automatic equipment many yuan 2000, but gave an issue finally, yard did not leave rise, owed a lot of money... " king old lady says, oneself fall ill 3 years, spent 80 thousand yuan seventeen, the daughter goes out, now also is to rely on to borrow money to raise her everywhere, this year she an employed nurse also demit was dropped.
Last year tomb-sweeping day, small Zhang Ceng has answered carry on to allow old home, want to go hold a memorial ceremony for is done obeisance to had crossed the one's own father with old age.
King old lady says, remember raining heavily that day, yellow mud road, bad to go, final Xiaozhang did not go, but pieces of small that day life that saw her is embarrassed.
"He gave me 2000 yuan, still call me to change a mobile telephone that can receive fund, come to an agreement or understanding makes money to me. " king old lady says, him age is old, good with old person machine, "I say with him, when business is promoted to carry on, suitable path will saw me go. Suitable path will saw me go..
After this, they had not met, "I also dare not call to him more, be afraid of the life that affects him, disturb his present family. Disturb his present family..
King old lady present life, often be to cook a bit rice, meal of dried vegetable hubble-bubble has one day, take medicine everyday should spend 20 multivariate money.
Although two still say to calculate in the son in be in debt,go beggar also can make her satiate, but she feels, this kind relies on kin now the borrows Qian Wei to hold life there is too bitter really.
"Be to do not have method really, I think me that young son also works any better year, income is good also, want to look for him to help, give me 89 yuan. " the telephone that then king old lady dialed that Xiaozhang that she knows and dare not dial.
However, begin from October, she made a telephone call a lot of times, the son did not pick up the telephone all the time.
"He may be to be afraid that I look for him to want money. "He may be to be afraid that I look for him to want money..
"Estimation is his foster mother does not hope he sees me. "Estimation is his foster mother does not hope he sees me..
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The time that does not attend pieces small as connection is longer and longer, of king old lady guess increasing also. Then, she finds media to seek a help, want the son that passes media couplet him strung.
3 days of dusks, the telephone that we offer according to king old lady, get through she is small the son's phone.
Xiaozhang states he is attending a meeting at the beginning, inconvenience is received hear a telephone call, but hearing is king old lady after looking for oneself, enquire particular case instantly.
He says, oneself do not know king old lady searched his thing to go up to heat up search, oneself do not pick up the telephone all the time, not be the reason that king old lady guesses, however because of the cause with busy job.
He still expresses, can contact king old lady later, appropriate handles this issue.
Up to when distributing news dispatches, king old lady has not received Xiaozhang's telephone call, nevertheless king old lady also says, he make pieces of small telephone call every time really is by day working hours.
Hear, xiaozhang promises to be able to call to oneself, king old lady is very glad.
And after this thing passes a report,
Netizens made a noise first however a pot of porridge-a complete mess,
The opinion is differ opinions vary.
A lot of netizens saw this news force hold out Xiaozhang, think this Ms. Wang does not have maternal obligation at all, be badly off in oneself however when, the yearly salary that has 550 thousand with young son is reason, ask its use up provide for obligation to oneself, this is the behavior that a kind of morality kidnaps.
And partial netizen feels should provide for,
Also be the unripe parent that gave you life then after all,
Blood is thick at water.
After children is adopted
The obligation that still has father and mother of provide for one's own after all?
The lawyer of the related side expresses, if be the foster formalities that deals with by normal procedure, although the children that is adopted is having kin with one's own parents, but between them about be in jural right and obligation, had removed completely automatically.
And if do not have those who had dealt with normal and foster formalities, on provide for obligation, relevant provision of law also is not very clear, proposal both sides can sit, peace talks things over resolve this issue.
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