Total meeting is encountered in daily life all sorts of " accident " inequitable perhaps treatment, for instance my husband works in hospital of a 3 armour, but even last year award has not been sent end of the year, this is to make a person furious really and the thing that cannot bear. Real need relapses with bargaining of human affairs branch, a book that this let me think of to was read last year " attend school of Ha Fo of Doctor Ji Tian is written down " the art of Ha Fo bargaining of place introduction.
The basic position of art of bargaining of haing Buddha pattern is: No matter which kinds of circumstance, anyhow need is complaisant and the requirement is specific.
The a bitth: Do not censure the fault of the other side absolutely
Want to remember oneself purpose well, believe to be able to achieve oneself goal certainly, do not want deep-set victim the plot of a play, do not criticize each other. Once the other side feels he is censured, may be immersed in energy whose to who complex dispute, is not the purpose that helps you achieve you.
at 2 o'clock: Trust the other side and seek a help
Trust even if project to what the other side has given out, believing the other side is good person, can help oneself person. The other side also is met so him look upon, do one's best help you. If give out,project badly, so the other side can agree with you possibly also directly, namely since you think I am bad, I am then bad, your thing I also am not willing to help you, why laborious do a good person.
at 3 o'clock: Regard oneself as goods will publicize
Emphasize oneself value, have energy of life of self-confident know how things stand and feel confident of handling them. Each person, as long as living (died even) , have its graven with the value that replace. Of course the person that people likes to be worth at high price, high value can bring potential benefit to the person all round. Want to promote oneself so, allude oneself high value, there can be potential get one's own back after you help me namely.
at 4 o'clock: Emphasize bilateral and common interest?
Emphasizing both sides is same a person on the boat, namely if I am bad, also can affect you. To do not affect you, also should help me manage this affair.
Total meeting encounters a variety of is inferior to in life meaning, I feel these need not be not remembered well at the heart flexibly, went this past. But this bargaining when, must use these skill well bargaining.
