The home, it is our port forever.
When us tired sufferred grievance, return the home in, listen to mom two talk on and on, talk about the job with father, be like the sky to wave 5 words:
That is not a thing
But some moment, the home also does not imagine goodly in that way like us.
Heat sows drama " Dou Ting is good " in, home Su this one child the person reveals the contradictory problem in the family undisguisedly before us.
Revive of the mother heavy male light female, those who make Ming Yuli opens the home definitely absolutely, won't love and by love;
Su Fu escapes contradiction when having a strong wife, after casting off a wife, put flying ego;
Get the boy with favorite mother, one supporting outer part forcedly, want to maintain domestic harmony;
Another although had grown up, go up to still still depend on parents in the heart.
"We waited all one's life, waiting for parents feel sorry; Parents waited all one's life, waiting for us to thank. Regretful is, most person is done not have when. Most person is done not have when..
The dispute between the character in drama, caused the reflection of the effect that people produces to giving birth to domestic place formerly. In this book list, we are in analytic characters in a play the family of content contradicts not just, also be those who include you, my, because give birth to domestic influence formerly, in the contradiction that produces in the life, problem.
Let us with to the manner goes facing come from parents perhaps you feel that " pressure hill is big " " cannot bear " love, not inflexible ground stands in place, also do not escape, foregone gives one condition, walk out of one pace again, you can feel more free more happy also.
01
" why the home can injure a person "
This book publishs more than 10 years to come, abiding concussion is caused in the reader, be touched deeply and changed ten million person, can calls Chinese family problem the book.
In this book, the author is meticulous ground of in a subtle way announces the moving mechanism that gives Chinese family, unscramble our affection mode, sticking the heart of instantly reader with very warm and strong written language,
Depend on experience of 25 years of industries, guide the myriad reader that strands for domestic concern place to set foot on ego to cure together as itinerary as what seek freedom of sue for peace.
Recommend reason
The home is " sentimental " place. warm, because,basically be the member in the home " sentimental " , can understand and show consideration for each other those futile feeling.
Parental relation just is the pattern plate of child mental health, and also be the child enters the society, pattern plate that establishs a relationship with other later.
02
" why you always can get hurt "
Mr. Wu Zhigong is engaged in psychological career 25 years coming, pay close attention to the mentation that becomes servents and change very much all the time, did work of many investigation, research for this, with psychological microcosmic angle, find deep-seated solution from inside the childhood family concern of party:
A person appears can acedia, indignant, because he gets hurt,majority is too heavy.
And effect produces in psychotherapy, basically be the force of love. We ourselves must seek the solution of life, we should regard ourselves as above all a person, also should regard others as a person.
You yourself must begin.
Recommend reason
Good parents, should be a strong container, life energy of the child, can flow inside this container, once the child discovers, his life energy is allowed, be seen, this life energy gives birth to energy with respect to meeting translate into. As parents, we want the correct concern that meets we and child, had held a distance with the child and control desire. Changing oneself while, give the child red-blooded the future with the space.
03
" the life that had you to say to calculate "
Wu Zhigong weighed a pound to be made newly 2019, cent gives ego alive piece and lifelong into full length two.
Give ego alive among them piece ego of with a view to grows, ordinal tell about destiny, ego, relation, motivation, thinking, body, affection; Lifelong grow piece a scan widely the coupling of we and world, ordinal tell about become aware know, space, creation, reality, free, fugacious.
This is the book that Wu Zhigong gives him to hit 90 minutes for the first time, also be the book that the heart physiotherapy of the sense that modern gives life alive heals.
Recommend reason
Concise of book of a complete set of Wu Zhigong is old psychology seeks advice from experience, and
Psychology of 3 million word takes notes, it is a modular intellectual system. Will help reader system and understand the knowledge of psychological system clearly. Angle him acknowledge from psychology, become more open, include, those who finish immanent consciousness is ceaseless rise dimension; Join the dense fog that concerns fully, master the get along path with the outer world, true " the life that had you to say to calculate " .
04
" encounter a person when me "
This book, it is for godparent not just how to teach the child, see oneself childhood story clear to help our everybody however, free oneself from inside oneself immanent painful mode.
We pass through the understanding that concerns to Mu Ying, will become aware oneself current situation, allow many minutes to oneself and child thereby, little a minute of judge and requirement.
Recommend reason
Mu Ying concerns to resemble the setting color of life, the child is smaller, the effect that checks one of giving birth to with the relation of the person that cradle is majorrer. The child is passed inside change the affection relation with parents to learn grow, the relation mode of childhood and the career after be brought up, marriage is loved, foster etc, having the correspondence of with meticulous care. This book tells about the lifetime that how is the child to lay warm and solid character foundation. This foundation resembles deciding Nereus needle, no matter the storm of the outside has how old, can stay in a center firmly, dissolve spend.
05
" all faults that are me? Reframe your domestic affinity "
Psychologist Mr. Li Songwei will be complex and psychological concept of the system, from Yo, domestic system, affinity, cognitive direction set out.
With " systematic pattern family is academic " to prop up, nod to be cut with specific life example, help you abandon traditional human view, change an angle to see a problem, overturn our cognitive confine, dissolve age relation predicament.
Recommend reason
In domestic concern, we often can search that " err " person, it is sometimes " err " the child, it is sometimes " err " parents. This book recorded family of pattern of a system to seek advice from division, also be a son, husband and father at the same time, these year of process that grows jointly with the family. No matter be professional training, still be individual experience, let an author realise the family is a complex system, if put,be in " problem " if, everybody manages this problem jointly with respective means.
06
" we will encounter love and loneliness eventually "
" we will encounter love and loneliness eventually " with Zhang Defen associate with " the story is changed " writing differs like that absolutely, write last a period of time this those who use situation is long, deep, and the quiver of body and mind that causes because of literal energy place, the person imagines Yuan Chaochang.
This book, the help every reader casts off the old pattern of life, jump emergence by other, mood, outside the game of condition bondage, repair refine and him breakthrough, realize true decay to grow.
Recommend reason
In this book, the author is not the adviser of life, however the example of cultivate oneself according to a religious doctrine of a soul, faulty, unusually true however. This is true, it is one side does not take the looking glass of form, can be placed in everybody before, let a person see his from which. We understood ourselves what to be deficient in only, what to need, ability knows how to love our family, how to enjoy loneliness.
Our family, pull with us forever stumble pestering, do not escape to also hide to be not dropped. The effect that it gives us is childhood not just, still have disposition, job the following family.
"Do not let parental dictate your life, become the look that yourself wants alive. Become the look that yourself wants alive..
Interesting is, do you want to into what appearance live?
Do you think here does not have the shadow of your parents?
When having, we struggle struggle, the hope can cast off former unripe family to bring our influence;
When having, we painful and confused, be immersed in former unripe family to bring us graven influence.
Loosen ~ to fasten insecurity
Have a look at these books, your aux will be able to handles family, job, feeling better quite the problem of each respects, create oneself good life.
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