The child follows the child between very incidental contradiction, if oneself child err finishs sth, do not agree to apologize. The child of others home may is opposite Yu Huai of this matter be troubled, do not be willing to play with the child again.
The result that does not agree to apologize is: Lost a friend, make two children not happy.
If be the child,contradict with adult happening, it is the child's fault, the child does not agree to apologize however. Some parents may let the child mandatorily apologize, beat and scold the child even.
The consequence that cause is: Parents feels the child is not sensible, the child hates parents, influence parentage.
So, how to let the child learn an apology, admit his mistake actively, obtain other to forgive?
Let the premise that the child apologizes, be to let the child know he is wrong, is the fault in? It is incorrect that the child is done so, the apology is to dare make the heroic conduct that dare become, apologizing is evasive craven, meet what be looked down on. If others harms you so, refus is not acknowledge a mistake, you can very angry? Do not want to play with him? But he apologizes, you also can excuse him, you still can continue to play, right incorrect?
Skill 1: Mood wants sincerity
Simple and optional I am sorry, the affirmation in audition popular feeling will be a little uncomfortable. Feel you do not have acknowledge a mistake manner.
The apology of mood sincerity, should be: I am sorry I am sorry; This is me is incorrect, I apologize with you; Too Ied am sorry, be very sorry.
Skill 2: The apology wants seasonable
You say to I am sorry, he says to have nothing to do with, a bagatelle, perhaps apologize at that time, the thing went. But feel embarrassed at that time apology, procrastinating, meet more feel embarrassed, this thing, the likelihood plunged into a root in heart of the other side, go very hard, ferment grow, it is an apology no longer can solve.
Skill 3: Give compensation even
If the apology is useful, even is the police dry? This is a net go up wide if be an apology no use that circulate. But if the apology is useless, the expressional bag that why Is am sorry flies all over the sky? The apology can express your regret, strive for those who acquire each other to forgive, the psychology that can reduce the other side hurts rate. The apology is only insufficient still, you lost the classmate's pen, bang up, genuine and seasonable apology, he still does not have a pen to be able to be used. Accordingly, apology while, give the other side compensation even.
Your dot assist, attention, collect... it is the power that I produce ceaselessly!Welcome illicit letter, get communicate under the counter, speak in public, the speaking skill that adult child can use.
