Person, of the graph is happy, happy. Because,do not want wine cause delay in work or business, because vie,do not want to make a heart, more because kiss affection,do not want and sad. Accomplished these, the life can pass so that grow has taste.
Close friends, countryside adjacent 4 abandon, go inaccessibly, get together, with promotional feeling, but want to notice, wine has 7 to be not drunk, money has 3 to be not sent, the word has 3 not to say, busy 3 is not help, debt has 3 to be not owed, the bowl has 3 dishonourable, adjacent has 3 unlike, relatives and friends 3 do not go!
Wine has 7 to be not drunk
1
Do not drink much wine
Wine is drunk much, afflictive is him. Cannot be too fond of drink on wine desk, cannot wine of be addicted to. Answer to drink a few cups less, not drunk advisable.
2
Do not drink urgent wine
Wine is intense content, reserve strength is very great, must drink slowly. Cannot drink urgently, do not work first easily to respect. Drink urgent, once aftereffect came up, the meeting is very afflictive.
3
Do not drink urge sb to drink.
When drinking, want to know oneself bottom is measured, not via living of others persuade, feel embarrassed the face of stroke others, casual drink exceed an amount.
4
Do not drink the wine that tick off add
Drink should drink for health we chooses pure grain, drink the wine that tick off add to have vomit and diarrhea, drunk jian hou mian is fond of a head to bilge dozen of braincase, drank pure food alcoholic drink to get on next aerating not to cough,
5
Not malty wine
Close friend meets, do not great rejoicing big Bei, desperately drink, oneself or others is malty, to oneself also advantage of it doesn't matter, so classmate friend party drinks must one is spent, and malty and easy make trouble perhaps has an accident.
6
Do not drink anonymous wine
Do not drink anonymous wine. Drink should have a renown head, proposing a toast each other also is of course, but to what do not know each other, come with wine of purpose fill your person, do not want to drink as far as possible.
7
Do not drink irreverent wine
To look down upon your person, look intentionally low your person, conversation is acid your person, do not drink with him, the person must have self-respect and strength of character.
Money has 3 to be not sent
1
The money that lends an unit light is not sent
Him have the aid of of a lot of people is in the influence in the unit, borrow the east wind of the unit, sitting oneself business. Although may send bit of little money, but the result is very miserable also when having an accident, the facilities with him old effort is destroyed at once.
So, no matter the opportunity has many good, the thing that lend an unit light and gets rich is not done, the cause that cannot take oneself is joking.
2
Overdraw the money of 3 affection is not sent
Alleged overdraw the money of 3 affection, disregard a family member namely, the feeling of friend and family, below the condition that violates their apiration, earn a few shocking money.
To anybody, this 3 affection are extremely precious, a thousand pieces of gold is bought hard, must not overdraw everybody's emotion goes getting rich.
3
The money of damage person is not sent
The money of alleged damage person, do the interest that harms others to come namely the job that seek expands, it is for instance in the unit, for oneself upgrade climbs not hesitate to make to oneself colleague caustic action is waited a moment.
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Debt has 3 to be not owed
1
The child's debt cannot be owed
Must value the child's thing, no matter you have many busy. The career succeeds more again, compare with prospective photograph of the child, not important.
In the child education and profession plan to go up, must make great efforts extremely, must not owe the debt of child future.
Fall in the future you and the child's contradictory an apple of discord, again successful career also appears without any meanings.
2
Parental debt cannot be owed
Taking the advantage of parents to return be still living and in good health, the favour that fosters this fills go up! A respectful form of address for an old person thinks of where to look, accompany them, what desire strives for a side they come true, time is accompanied more accompany them.
If you already were parenting, this is to give the child to make model, how do you serve father and mother, how the child also is opposite in the future you.
3
The debt of benefactor cannot be owed
Had taken half a lifetime, certainly many benefactor extend aid to you, even if be little help and care only, also cannot forget.
Those are long the benefactor that did not contact, use the information that develops now, be contacted quickly!
Course of study of your what one is particularly good at has, the family is perfect, happy, it is the biggest to them pay a debt of gratitude, but cannot wait do not have an opportunity to said to export ability to regret.
Have a few always in our life " go regular " , do not have a person to be able to supervise you, but you must go however honour defend. Their hold together our life balance, maintaining people to advance on fixed orbit.
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The bowl has 3 dishonourable
1
The bowl dishonourable of kin friend
The person that does poineering work now is increasing, very much middleaged person is being invited by kin friend participate in do poineering work. Because middleaged person wants experience to have experience, should accumulate have active, do start armed struggle come reliable also. Classics of very much middleaged person does not have hard bubble of use soft tactics, worked good a period of time.
But, cooperate with kin friend, need great mind, old structure more, need more not dispute, not calculate, do not have even general friend possibly so that do otherwise. Must careful!
2
Short make the same score fast bowl dishonourable
Alleged short make the same score fast bowl, it is the mastery of a skill or technique that middleaged person uses him to be accumulated in the unit and experience the job that takes high salary in a few small companies. The experience that a few small companies accumulate to obtain middleaged person and skill, not hesitate beautiful heavy gold asks middleaged person, when paper of your that one window was defeated to disclose, you are not costly also, think former big unit is difficult again.
For the Xiaoli of that little, well the career gives lost. So, the person arrives middleaged seek a firm word, dishonourable weak point makes the same score fast bowl.
3
Iron the bowl dishonourable that the hand takes a risk
The bowl of the so-called risk that warm a hand, try the thing with a few too high risks to acquire rising, interest namely. Many middleaged people have the problem of have grandiose aims but puny abilities, there also was proper place on on-the-job field, a lot of things look be like oneself to be able to be done calm, but move a hand to come really difficulty is a lot of greater than what you think!
Adjacent has 3 unlike
1
Do not compare gold
Money this thing, it is good to be used quite, not was necessary to be compared with others.
2
Do not compare the child
The child has prospect, the thing that is him child, not was necessary to take oneself child to follow those who fasten a family to compare.
3
Do not compare a house
The room is used, no matter size, just be a nest. The check is the most serious is sweet, have nothing to do size.
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The word has 3 not to say
1
Not gossip
The person has the trouble of gossip more or less, many people " rumor, lie " or " the secret of others " treat as talk endowment. Everybody knows " Out of the mouth comes evil. " , claver not only nonnutritively, say much easy still wake a sleeping dog.
2
Do not say mad word
Be an upright person work, mad word boast should say less. Self-abased what does a person jump over, pretentious what to jump over, full paddy is low head, the not plump Gucai of only available sky admires a Xiang Tian. Be an upright person should low-key, condescending, if because of temporarily achievement, ego of arrogant and conceited loss, that thed loss outweights the gain.
3
Do not say to complain a word
Life is inferior to meaning nine times out of ten, in the life say less to complain a word as far as possible, search from oneself more when anything crops up seek an account. Think whether oneself were accomplished before blame everyone and everything but not oneself best, whether were oneself paid hard. Like to hear the word that grouse without the person, now and then the complaint that send a drop is OK, groan for long, again close person also can be overcome.
Busy 3 is not help
1
Those who flaunt one's superiority is busy cannot help
The ancients says: "Force is small cease load, character not urges a person gently. " the nature that help a person wants do according to one's abilities, cannot flaunt his superiority. Flaunt one's superiority help, the thing does not do, perhaps do was bungled, affirmative meeting is blamed by the other side, this is not the original intention that helps a person.
Even if after spending very great strength, did the business eventually, look in the other side, you are the fatigue of raise one's hand nevertheless, can not appreciate because of this. So, flaunt one's superiority help, no matter help,go up, it is to exert oneself not to please. Slap one's face until it's swollen in an effort to look imposing, cheerful is others, afflictive is him.
2
Of experience affection busy cannot help
Of alleged experience affection busy, involve the issue of people love, marriage namely. Common saying says: Do not do go-between, sansei is good. Society of archaic men and women is not free, must need go-between. Now, not be close kin good friend, be willing to help person introduction boy or girl friend not quite, introduce namely, also be to emphasize again and again, be in charge of taking the lead only let both sides meet, how are without giving thought to,two people after.
Emotive thing, marital thing, not be the issue that reason can resolve, alleged " the honest and upright official decides household issue hard " , unfavorable deepness participates in alien among them, can be more of a hindrance than a help otherwise.
3
Those who save end is busy cannot help
Common saying says: Help sb to deal with an emergency does not save end. Relatives and friends is in difficulty, the side is of course. But, anybody is not Immanuel, can save person misfortune only, and the destiny of unalterable others.
Aspirant to agreeing person, help everlastingly the dependence that instead can strengthen him, "Rise Mi En, the enemy that fight rice " the lesson is profundity.
Do not tell the person that be thankful, regard others as perfectly justified to his help, even be insatiable, flay a flint, still have a kind of person, beg others to help, not be to speak out directly, give you however " next covering " , coax you work to him, spoken parts in an opera is to use others.
Have the person of the problem to these bearing, be not being helped is devoir, was being helped is mutual affection!
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Relatives and friends 3 do not go
1
What do not take snobbish attitude is close
Hello, insinuate you, adulatory you, turn round you every day; You are poor, look down on you, stepping on you, be far from you, to you love is built pay no attention to. Such kissing, do not go.
2
Do not go too of great profit close
Have only in the eye benefit, for benefit, not hesitate method, everywhere calculate. Such kissing, do not go.
3
What do not walk along callosity justice is close
When it is difficult that he has, say ties of friendship with you, you help beg him; When it is difficult that you have, he does not help you not only, still hit a person when he is down. Such kissing, do not go.
Life is alive and main it is to pursue happy, not happy when go considering happy issue, also meet happy! Happy when consider happier issue, you can feel happiness is full! Your it is good intention affection everyday!
