After 2 embryoes policy, looking at is the father and mother that there are two children on the street increasing, but actually, fertility-rate did not rise however, among them main reason has: Modern marriage is late, a few concepts of opposite child are more open, the family that wants the child is less and less, still having a reason is, give birth to 2 embryoes actually not much also, because our attention just looks,just be get.
Anyhow a word, before 2 embryoes policy comes on stage, the family that has accorded with much Yo policy still should be born with how to be born, after coming on stage, those who want 2 embryoes is not much also, and more and more young husband and wife do not want even the first-born.
Actually, the idea of most person is undoubtedly conditional ability wants 2 embryoes in the home, he Wei " conditional " ? Above all, economic condition must be close friends, what to take to raise the child otherwise, put up with is worn teach and bring up two to still raise as essence of life; Next, gave birth to the child namely who will take, one must ask an old person to ask housekeeper again again, oneself return all of body and mind exhausted, if second birth, be sin?
Say to give birth to 2 embryoes to be helpful for reducing educational cost, but reduce educational cost to be in modern society basically is impossible, inflation, prices is rising, salary still stayed before to get grade however, the child must go up language class, go up interest class, on a little good place gets the school, these a little, do not fall high with respect to what caused educational cost.
But fall in this kind of circumstance, wealthy person also is not willing to give birth to 2 embryoes, the current situation of family of a few sisters that edge economy condition has compared integrated body, have the following reasons about:
1 again honest nobody brings many child
Xiaoping of college fellow student, husband and wife is high pay, work in abroad all the year round, child nature also took the past, abroad asks baby-sitter fee is not a problem, let an old person leave home go taking care of, not only formalities is troublesome, and two people also do not have time company at ordinary times, a respectful form of address for an old person must fall ill depressedly, the circumstance of baby-sitter also is uneven, the Chinese is little, what the means of the foreign country that look after children differs with us really is too much, although also want to want a child again, but still must consider well really, it is to later the opportunity goes back to the motherland to say again, still raised to calculate.
Although be in home, this also is the problem of an inevitability, bring two children, unless the old person is still living and in good health, the body is not bad, and brotherly sister people the child does not need old person help, have to ask housekeeper otherwise, some even the old person comes baby-sitter looks in the home, baby-sitter looks after children, have to remand the child otherwise native place, the time that gets along with the child also so a bit, child resembling is what be born to others is same, what does that do even?
Two 2 children too be put into trouble
If two people have to time looks after children among them, perhaps do not have trouble on the time problem that look after children, but of two children take care of and teach really enough also parent to suffer, good education should have the parent namely often company, the child is naughty mostly, whose home is not the toy flies all over the sky, eating a meal also is gallinaceous flying dog jumps.
Fell ill when the child especially, one is infected in nursery school, another still cannot escape by sheer luck, think of the child midnight that taking two high fever at the outset goes hanging emergency call, be no good with respect to what regret, what does unripe so much do.
And, the harmony of two children gets along, also need parents to help strength, if was not taught good, two children quarrel in one's childhood, was brought up to break up, this is commonplace, between sisters-in-law trifling also be quite old two those who worry about.
About saying provide for the aged, carry easily also not clear, the old person of group of the children below how many genu or hand pull a hand went beadhouse, the word of two children, who will take care of pa Mom to also can appear dark emerge, if one male one female, have more prejudicial the suspicion that does not please.
So, conditional young husband and wife has mostly busy the career that is not over, and think of, although gave birth to two children, also be to be born nevertheless just, the child's education also wants to worry about, future much one caboodle thinks a cared support of the people more the thing that worry about, think of this, although conditional, also meet very hesitant.
I am candied mom, it is division of infant of an advanced Yo, also be the mom of 4 years old of darling, in Yo any problems that encounter in the process can ask me, hope my a bit proposal can help you solve the trouble in the process that bring child and quandary.
