Elementary school when the teacher has had taught a song " genuflect sheep pursues " , be like at that time is the sign language competition that still has this song. One it is constant of Taiwan musician plum is thankful song, libretto basically tells lamb genuflect feed story, small lamb and know be thankful mother, more what is more,the rather that person, either should know more " parental favor is like hill again, know favour pay a debt of gratitude not forget one's origin " ?
But the problem cannot get modern society or the provide for the aged that have so much country old person to be solved very well, always because of such and such reason, bring about harmony of family concern not very. In support old person this exists together various contradiction and problem. Say normally, living conditions is better and better, the life of the old person should pass weller to just be opposite, but the fact is not however such.
Be in a lot of countries, the old person of a lot of old, on provide for problem, an occurrence very big question, it is the problem of oneself maintenance. Because be in a country, the children of a lot of old people has 45 such, the provide for that such word can bring about old people and maintenance respect quilt female mutual shuffle, plant because of this just about mutual shuffle, the life of substance of provide for the aged that causes an old person cannot get safeguard.
Still having a problem is a singleton female reason, singleton female husband and wife now is increasing, the pressure of each respect should compare other family big, the burden is heavier than others also. Money of member of the child's expenditure, favor is waited a moment, need money. This is brought about go up in the issue of provide for the aged that handles parents, also give less than answering some material and mental support.
Be in vast rural area, very much young husband and wife is outer work, because obtain employment pressure is too great, left parents and family member, outer earn money, was far from home town and villager of elders of a country or district. All the year round, when spending the New Year, ability comes home visit father and mother, some spends the New Year to do not have time to do not have fare to answer repeatedly even. Be over too year, want to set foot on working journey again, the old person became old person staying behind naturally also. because of so short time get along, acting channel can exist for certain between old person and children, children is not willing to be communicated with parental communication, parents also more do not know from why to speak of. Children of this kind of circumstance also has the support of materially only to parents, and the provide for on spirit does not have attend to however. To them without any consideration, it is OK to think to want money only, can satiate wear warm go, themselves thinks how do sth over and over again how do sth over and over again.
Although in last few years the country made further improvement to the problem of provide for the aged of rural old person, but do not have some going to that improve very well. Solve obtain employment problem of the youth the most importantly namely above all, let children can stay in home town job, a bit closer from parents, make them OK somebody is relied on, need not so alone. Still have even if children wants to strengthen to parental care, in one's childhood they inspect you to be treasure, old cannot inspect them to be grass more. To them care care and company are the most important, they paid most individual to be born for the child, want to there can be the person of a support when he is old only. The biggest to them be thankful is not money, accompany however.
Occasionally really money can not represent be thankful, on spirit it is more important to be thankful. The much time that take a place accompanies parents, they are old, they did not have how many 10 years to be able to pass. They are your heroes no longer, they need your protection now.
