A few senior fellows tell to just entered office before long Xiaowang, it is the most important that sureness does good work, did not use with others fool around, abandon useless socialization. When small Wang Xin works hard to work overtime painstakingly, discover they go out to drink. A few articles always also appear on the net, tell you " abandon invalid socialization " , as if to only oneself succeeded to just deserve to go gregarious. Actually, these are cogged chicken broth. Before you did not succeed, you want active socialization, do not have invalid socialization at all. We come to an analysis below.
One, for the person to the intention, do not have invalid socialization at all
Total somebody is carried " invalid socialization " this concept, be like major social activity no point is same. Actually, social activity disables effectively, depend on the person that join completely. To the person of an intention, do not have invalid socialization at all. He goes attending bureau of meal of a high end, the likelihood cannot know the person of those high positions. But he widened horizon, knew the technological process of these meal bureaus, close quarters observes the bearing of the way one speaks or what he says of successful personage is waited a moment, these are his earning. As long as intentional, every social activity can have income.
2, they let you abandon invalid socialization, actually hereat meaning is in misdirect you
Since be such, how so much person still persuades you to abandon invalid socialization so? What persuade you so is general have two kinds of people. The first kind is the person that those are afraid of to you exceed him, guide you intentionally to a wrong way, let you lower one's head hardworking, let you be far from likewise main gregarious field. Still have a kind of person, it is those dawdler. They do not consider be eager to make progress, also be disinclined to enter all sorts of social activities. They are afraid that others mocks him, install intentionally very chastely, telling you those is " invalid socialization " . Actually they just are happy the current situation and be disinclined to open gregarious phase.
3, not was to succeed to just match socialization, however socialization can help strength you are successful,
Some people did not succeed because of the career, a kind of self-abased state of mind always is in socialization. He thinks, wanted oneself to succeed only, sociable nature became good. He listened to others to persuade " abandon invalid socialization " if, very dewy-eyed. Actually, two legs need to come on successful path: Effort and person arteries and veins. Very rare job is to rely on to immerse oneself in only hardworking can successful, still need each other cooperation for the most part. When succeeding should enter social activity actively more, socialization can help strength you succeed quickly.
If somebody persuades you to abandon invalid socialization, do not want to believe please, because they return bubble,be in meal bureau. Without invalid socialization, have inadvertently person only. Dear friend, how do you look to the viewpoint of the article, leave a message together communicate.
