Admit oneself, be short of regret mediumly to reconcile with life

Admit oneself, experience handclasp make peace with what he goes, reconcile with oneself heart, it is one kind grows.

Know newly last week just the university graduates before long little little sister. Her what just stepped a society, confused to knowing society and oneself profession to plan to be full of with tired out. At the beginning, I tell her this is very normal thing, everybody is from confused in walk over, it is good to put smooth state of mind.

What who knows her to tell her anxiously with me is self-abased. She lives in Sichuan wide in installed small town, under the protection that lives in parents 18 years old before, tiny bit what the bound comes out outside knowing none is wonderful; Till 18 years old later, study an institutions of higher education of Guangxi, she just feels to arrive as a child big, oneself are an a person with a very limited outlook. Before coming to Beijing, self-abased heart and vitreous heart still are done not have so serious. After coming to Beijing, the unfair treatment that undergo, let her proper pride be thwarted even more.

The job of firm exercitation, still do not have begin two months are dismissed by the boss, change a job again, did not do half month, feel boss attitude is very fierce, oneself resigned; It is dozen of chore of add of him land add next, do a part-time job, hesitate many times wander otherwise should return home town small town to seek a living, the train ticket was bought retreat again, retreated buy again, under ceaseless choice, because choice of oneself not reconciled to continues,live in Beijing.

Her heart longs to have independent moral quality, no longer self-abased, no longer vitreous heart. No longer because record of formal schooling of three-year institution of higher learning is self-abased, be harmed no longer because of the speech of others easily. But, time of half an year goes, she detects as before oneself are improved without what.

Do I ask her why is like this urgent? Resolved thing, can not come true at a draught, come a bit slower, can realize what you want.

anxious, still result from her family, there still is a little brother in the home, now already the university graduates, the undergraduate students fors reference definitely grind, her little brother takes seriously in the home and ignored she. Feel in the home girl, need not cherish too big hope.

She cannot understand the think of a way of her mother from beginning to end, him not reconciled to does not mix famous hall to come in Beijing of face of earth of grey head come home.

Such story, not come singly but in pairs, the most schoolgirl that comes to Beijing struggle, they mostly because of former unripe family unjust, oneself cannot be admitted, as stronger as oneself, as stronger as former unripe family, do not agree to excuse from beginning to end.

Hear her story, I thought very long, sad story always is similar, some people had chosen " reconcile with oneself " , a lot of people still live in kink. Self-abased reason, have the share of former unripe family, but the reason that also has oneself. Former unripe family has been the past type in life, and becoming his just is when undertaking. Record of formal schooling is admittedly important, but him promotion is more important than certificate of one paper record of formal schooling, and the approach that promotes oneself has a lot of, go reading, go listening to net class, go doing the business that oneself like truly, is not to live in everyday self-abased in, because give birth to a family formerly or record of formal schooling of three-year institution of higher learning, full of remorse.

Apropos I am looking recently " Dou Ting is good " , because feminine fair Su Mingyu suffers what give birth to a family formerly to persecute, the mother is kind to two elder brothers, however prep before sees her. Can go up originally she of Tsinghua can go only a school of average normal school, this makes her be troubled Yu Huai, do not have a law to excuse his parents and brother all the time, but after dying from the mother, all these happening changes.

A series of story, let her choose to be mixed with the 2 elder brother that excuse her father, in the story of the 42nd collect that just goes, those who tell is " reconcile " , shi Tiandong and Su Mingyu chat " reconcile with oneself " : "You can choose to be not excused, but you also can choose to put down, let off oneself. Let off oneself..

Believe the development as the story, ming Yuhui is put down gradually once associate with, repair once 1000 sore the scar of 100 aperture, the choice embraces warmth.

Well, growing is oneself and him those who reconcile is itinerary.

"Reconcile " , you can reconcile with others, also can reconcile with oneself. Reconcile with oneself, it is to love oneself to behave; Love oneself, admit oneself, it is one kind grows. No matter the life gifts our what, we should learn to accept first, go changing the life next, live forcibly, do not put oneself in big environment to compare plan, also do not take others and oneself to compare, any successes are put in compare no point.

Admit oneself, want him recognize above all, both neither can be too exorbitant unplug tall oneself, also need not look low oneself. Know clear and different level oneself, not because of a few regrets self-pity from moxa, the thing that there is perfect on the world happens, have a deficit with respect to circle resembling a month, water Man Zeyi; The society admits life in as meaning, life is inferior to meaning nine times out of ten. A lot of things give time, those experienced the associate with that time precipitates, final metropolis is at ease.

This takes the person all the way, who is to perfect whose ceaselessly? Who is at the same time before row at the same time as faulty as oneself " reconcile " ? Reconcile with the experience of associate with, reconcile with oneself heart, life ability and row and easy. Alleged years is static good, be such.