Hu Saimeng / civil
Do not want indulgent bad person, cannot worry sodden person, need not expect broken bits person.
Society, comprise by different person namely. Have good person, charitable person and beautiful woman, have afore-mentioned these hellion, sodden people and broken bits person certainly, when we face these sodden people, should pull black have to pull black.
01
Life waste does not rise
A few days ago, I wrote an article, caption is " you are like heartless, I am disloyal! Do not want to be bullied, oneself must firm a bit " .
After article hair comes out, a lot of readers scold my extreme, think article crime gas is too heavy, especially triumphant enlighten a lot of netizens, exploded even wide mouth.
Of reader and netizen these leaving a message and follow post, let me very terrified, him for fear that teachs the manners and morals of the time bad popular feeling.
Of course, this the manners and morals of the time, this popular feeling, actually early bad, I also do not have so large force, just, since my article gives a reader to add,blocked up, that has to talk about a few more again, lest the reader is misunderstood needlessly.
I say a man should firm, a lot of people think by accident sufferred grievance to be about to follow person quarrel, it is loose like fierce same homicide even incendiary, can reduce the 2nd pitiful Wudalang otherwise.
Actually, this is greatly misunderstanding, so called firm, it is decisive and definitely absolutely, it is a kind of social manner, method of force of and rather than.
The man wants firm, those who point to is the trouble that encounters vexed when us, bad person, do not rot with sodden person the thing goes pestering, want to accept or reject definitely if really, rapid to it cut, and unapt the life that lets oneself suffers bigger negative effect.
Life is very brief, only many days 30 thousand short, pass one day little a day, such Mi Zuzhen's valuable time, waste does not rise.
On this world, not be everybody lukewarm embellish is like jade, modest self-disciplined gentleman, also somebody is serpentine and evil, conscienceless.
The disguise or mask of an evildoer that draw a tiger paints spirit hard, you may know a person's face but not his mind. When a person, after exposing true and hideous face, no matter how many feeling and energy were thrown on its body before oneself, when should be being abandoned, must abandon, this does it " firm " .
Because there is investment before be, when so we make a decision, can hate to part with, refuse to come down is cruel-hearted, cut ceaseless manage to return chaos then, be pulled finally the glen of emotive lair and life.
02
Will of people is malicious
Liu Na ever had written " she is Pan Jinlian, you also ought not to be become Wudalang " article, related the story of a man and own wife.
The love that man and wife ever had had romance, hard dozen go all out, love is very consequently deep. Later, man career Xiaocheng, oneself become a boss, better to let a wife take care of the child and family, let a wife do full-time wife.
However, rush about the feeling that the man of the career forgot to take care of a wife, the brother that result wife follows him is off the rails. After the divorce, the wife follows a lover to be off to distant parts, the man is taking the child to live calmly.
After a year, because the lover of the wife peddles poison to be caught, and she right now already had pregnancy. The wife that holding out pregnant finds a man, the hope has been been attributed to again, look at once wife, the man thinks of the child needs to have a mother, agree to resume marriage then.
However, after a few years, the lover of the wife is released from prison, two people are done again, the man presses his suit, but still at job of no help, be troubled by so that chicken flies to the family finally the dog jumps wall, in pairs of the man's career, life gets bang.
To this, liu Na has say of some of ground of set a high demand on somebody in the hope that he will improve, "The most poisonous not cross woman heart, because of somebody vertical woman. Because of somebody vertical woman..
Really, that woman is Pan Jinlian obviously, man however have to longs for her to give up evil and return to good, hope with oneself sureness gets along, the result took oneself and child entirely go in.
This man if even if cruel little, also won't be troubled by even lowly degree.
The thing of farmer and snake is performed again and again, and Pan Jinlian's story also lasts long, this explains, there is the vicious people that bites a person forever on the world, and the woman like vicious people.
Forest is old, what bird has, it is popular feeling unfathomable what is more,the rather that person!
Actually, popular feeling not only measure hard, and dangerous still, alleged " will of people is malicious " it is such namely! Your goodness, over person broken bits " worthless " .
03
Your goodness is very precious
Fairy tale is admittedly good, but reality is not fairy tale however.
Real world, somebody is mud, do not help up on wall; Somebody is a hopeless case, cannot carry big; Somebody is dog excrement, who does step on to have bad luck...
To such person, go pester and be being expected why, cruel-hearted one stamp, leave Yue Yuanyue is well.
Some people, stamp is OK, below cruel-hearted be no good however, then one step by step deep-set among them, last be pulled step by step in mud pool, cannot extricate oneself.
Wu Dalang does not leave a heart with respect to firm, even if be kicked to break up in the ground by Xi Menqing, still longing for Pan Jinlian change one's views, with oneself sureness gets along, result die.
When a person undeserved you loved, even if you once loved him again, that also is gotten fast make make a decision, continue to pester, meet only internecine.
Let go, look be like cruel-hearted, is actually why a kind free and easy?
More what is more,the rather that, that person still is one individual broken bits likely, let go to such person, not only it is free and easy, more unfixed.
However, fu of worldly I husband I people look not to appear this however, persistent at oneself subjective happiness, to catching in one's hand thing, absolutely refuse to to agree to loosen to death, the result can be to take measures without attention to the changes in circumstances only.
Of course, free and easy life needs a lot of premise requirements. The equality of the self-sufficient, character of independence of powerful, affective, economy, only such, ability is accomplished need not anybody of leech on to, become " firm role " .
Lin Chong dare not shake firm, not be the method that shaking firm at him, the character when facing Gao Taiwei because of him however is low change, so he just step by step concede, until the family broke up, by be driven to join the Liangshan Mountain rebels.
In a jungly society, competitive cruelty, of popular feeling dangerous, hard to avoid of small white hare can be stared at to go up by big grey wolf. At that time, the choice with small white exclusive and right hare is good from Yue Yuanyue of big grey wolf, the hare mom that even if camouflage of this only big grey wolf is become next coming home.
Jungly society, the weak is having live naturally inferior position, if insufficient cruel, cannot if really definitely, can that answer the big grey wolf of arise suddenly how?
Say so, allow a man (woman) firm a bit, also be helpless nevertheless actually lift. After all, who makes us unripe be put in jungly society?
Cruel-hearted, it is to be protected oneself nevertheless just; Your goodness is very precious, do not want abuse please, the person that loves to be worth you only is paid. To person broken bits, the kind-hearted meeting that must not expect oneself is penitentiary he, because your goodness is worthless over him!
