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Some child conversation are very late, the child is not anxious talk, the parent is anxious, afraid child is intellective respect has a problem, be the same as beside age the child metropolis come to an agreement or understanding became much, him home child is connected however " mom " won't say.
Does the morning and evening that the child talks matter with intelligence really?
Not be!
I have a fellow worker, her home daughter can talk to two years old of many ability all the time, often play together the child can have said a lot of short sentences, her home child does not say tardy namely, but adult says what child can understand, also can respond to, do not talk namely. She looks after children went to a hospital making an inspection a few times, examination audition also is no problem.
I also go to work in the hospital before, speak of this thing again once, she or afraid child have a problem, registered an expert name again the following day, I accompany her to go, take the form that checks before the move, after the expert has looked, to her the analysis says child conversation is late, besides mattering with audition, still have a lot of influencing factor, for instance environment of genetic, sexual distinction, family. And one helps her analyse:
Genetic: Classics inquiry, she and conversation of child father itself are not belonged to " glib " the sort of, conversation is slow, the expert says this is nodded also can affect the child to talk, additionally the child's father also says in one's childhood late, this is on one hand genetic element;
Sexual distinction: The girl should talk originally early, but her home child talks however late, that should be the result that is brought about by other factor;
Domestic element: Asked about domestic environment again then, her home is her parents helps look after children, the home town word that the old person says, the mandarin that they and child say, also can bring about the child to produce illusion so, also can affect the child to talk.
Final expert persuades her not impatient, always also do not mix beside with age child comparing, have psychological responsibility; Every child has his advantage and drawback, want to face up to this thing. Look from the result, child audition is normal, conference speech is sooner or later thing, want many somes of patience at ordinary times, talk with the child more, when what the child says is bad, want to encourage the child more.
Now her home child 7 years old many, conversation is particularly good, and a very outstanding girl also is in the class.
Mother of a lot of father works at ordinary times now busy, come home taking a mobile phone, also be all sorts of busy, talk with the child rarely. Actually, talking phase learns in the child, want to talk with the child more, teach the thing beside the child, color to wait more, had the environment that learns a language, the child just can talk faster. Language environment is this bit very important, but also often be to let parent oversight easily.
Actually, many child conversation are late, because audition has a problem really,some may be, but the element that also may be the parent and domestic environment a little. Discover the child does not talk tardy, the parent is best first him platoon is checked, which kinds of reason brings about see a possibility, correct then, help darling learns to talk.
① child does not talk tardy, should look after children first go to a hospital checking audition, sieve of the audition when just was born especially checks the child that has done not have;
② next, note the effect of domestic environment respect even, no matter say with the child is home town word or mandarin, had better want to unite, may cause a worry to the child otherwise, do not know after all how to should learn to talk;
③ should say with the child more at ordinary times, when the child tries to talk, the parent wants timely response, help child learning conversation correctly;
④ still has a bit the most important, the parent should have patience, because the child won't talk,often cannot censure the child, attack the child, say child stupid and so on, can be just the opposite to what one wished instead so, should be encouraged more and praise the child, raise the hope that the child talks.
Beijing Mom says: Child conversation is late, very big one part and parent are relative, consequently the parent criticises the child is stupid not always, should search more seek an account, help and accompany the child to grow!
