Busy move lays a lot of people now 2 embryoes, give birth to a reason with 2 very main embryoes, it is the first-born it is a daughter, the 2nd embryo wants a son, because of traditional idea still confine a lot of families. But still have a few reasons, conceive namely awful not unripe, there is no lack of among them the parents that a few the first-born are a son, the 2nd embryo wants a daughter, be born still is a son however. Some people express an opinion: The manners and morals of the time is really unjust, we what this wants to give birth to a son every day is to be born not to come out, fetal embryo is the unripe daughter of the son that spelled a life!
But connecting two embryoes is a son, it is lucky really also be unfortunate, medium was interviewed in community double family, also offer forum on the net, listen to father how to say:
Father 1:
"The time is hard, pressure is great, originally two people have I and wife the job, after having 2 sons, the old person is not taken at all, daughter-in-law can resign only, rely on me one person raises the home, saying is later enjoy a happy life, be afraid of is had not waited for enjoy a happy life tired died. Be afraid of is had not waited for enjoy a happy life tired died..
Father 2:
"When doing not have a son, admiring other people has a son, waited for oneself to have a son, still came down two, this thinking daydream can laugh wake, can not think of, the child grows older more, I become aware repeatedly sleep to not be free from anxiety, after thinking of, two sons must attend a college, marry son's wife, buy a house, one build with respect to two big. One build with respect to two big..
Father 3:
"What do two sons have to use? Is finally still mix daughter-in-law enters beadhouse hand in hand, now these children, married daughter-in-law to give birth to child, who can still serve an old person, we do not serve baby to them pretty good. We do not serve baby to them pretty good..
These double father runs personally " complain a husband " the circumstance cans be found everywhere, most after all it is ordinary common people, everybody cannot resemble capitalist general, ask servant to take, look for assistant Yo, must get relative strength to be in person.
1 offer two sons' true cost a lot
Saying is to be raised thoroughly rich foster daughter, but present boy, beautiful money which less than the girl, in one's childhood the girl buy tire, the boy buy basketball, interest interest gets beautiful more more, still cannot too economical affect the son into " Men Xiaosheng of dig or dig out with a finger or sth pointed " , go to school also should pay two tuition, good attended a college not easily, ask a girlfriend to have a meal repeatedly Fang Desheng is expended alive must be double portion, still must put house money to them at the same time, always cannot buy a house.
2 family property are divided really hard
Poor home has poor home to must be sufferred from, what rich other people also has them is difficult, more or less to get a family conditionally, part is so complex that part resemble teleplay in same, illegitimate child, add and so on of be the concubine of of lineal descent, the old person gets a will to get observation a few years ability stands, unless oneself have children prospect, have an industry, otherwise, the home of a few well-off, do not go up to fall, 3 houses cent is not clear, can be troubled by on the court initiates bloody battle.
It is very difficult really that 3 educations rise
The education of a child and two the child's education differ completely, more two sons when nevering mention it, can what the colleague teachs is sensible atmosphere, still do not break biased, that true need parents learns ability to go well, once let the child be experienced prejudicial, with respect to the abnormal psychology that can cause the child, contend for for instance strong emulative, work purpose sex is strong by hook and crook, the seizes of lineal descent battle that perhaps stages palace or the battle of wits on cutback life fights brave.
Actually, best circumstance is children complete in both respects, the old is, the second is female, this ability is perfect combination. The elder brother can protect a little sister, the little sister can take care of an elder brother, such education rise also can easy, because the elder brother is letting a little sister,be perfectly justified it seems that, but always let an elder brother letting a little brother, in elder brother heart but not certain and happy, especially difference of two brother age is in of 3 years old of less than, if differ ten years old, also with respect to easy to handle much.
Anyhow, 2 sons are fostered not easily, the treasure pa that was not born should consider to be clear about, oneself economic capacity and educational level can be competent, if had been born, that does that best to be fostered well, want child health only, happy, harmonious, even love is deep, be of one mind, can be each other really slotting tool of two costal region, that parents need not worry about with respect to what, two frat are taken care of each other, give aid to each other, this ability is best result.
I am candied mom, it is division of infant of an advanced Yo, also be the mom of 4 years old of darling, in Yo any problems that encounter in the process can ask me, hope my a bit proposal can help you solve the trouble in the process that bring child and quandary.
