One, person a long time, tubal Pull in your ears! . The word is much, wrong dispute is much, much, ask for trouble; When the person is little, provide a heart! Improper thought, covet, anguish is much, worry oneself. Group place defend the mouth, be in alone defend a heart. Long oneself is with clear heart should, experience world is with Shen Yan first.
2, a truly powerful person, won't mix flower of too much idea in please add others in person above. So called circle, resource, just derive article. The society does bird of a dish, it is to can become phoenix one day, it is good that only he repair refine, ability can have others to be added in person.
3, Cao Cao again evil has intimate friend, liu Bei has dead on the right track very much again. Not too care about others to be evaluated to yours, had done him individual, had done oneself thing, had taken oneself route. Live in people look, it is the saddest thing on the world.
4, circle decides life, be close to what kind of person, can take what kind of route, alleged things of one kind come together, person with group cent. Card friend can urge your card games only, wine friend can urge you to cheer only, and the person that relies on chart can affect you how to obtain progress however.
5, two people are very thirsty, when drinking water of same mouth well, one uses golden cup, one uses slimy cup. Former feel from personal riches and honour, latter thinks him poor and lowly; Former the satisfaction that got vanity, latter is immersed in meaningless trouble in. They forgot, what oneself need is " water " , is not " Cheng Shui's cup " . We also are such in the life, the stuff place that is not needed by oneself is vexed.
6, arrived certain age, must throw away 4 type thing: Do not have the wine bureau of the meaning, the person that does not love you looks down on your kin, falsehearted friend; Must have 4 type thing: Raise is in the self-confidence on the face, grow the goodness in the heart. Be in harmony takes haemal strength of character, those who be engraved in life is firm.
7, the flicker that does not go listening to others, the each pace of your life must rely on his ability to finish. Did not expect in him abdomen, skill is done not have on the hand, understanding is again much the person is trashy also. Person arteries and veins can give you the chance only, but seize an opportunity or should rely on true original story. So ah, him Xiu Lian, than everywhere many fawn on other people is serious.
8, go out outer, no matter others heats up face or cold face to you, fasten too go in past heart; The world outside, valued is itself of person of setting and rather than. Between the friend, heat up face or cold face no matter, irrespective also; True friendship, be being handed in is complexion of inner and rather than. Need not too care about person and person between exterior mood; Sincere the person that meet does not need, the person not need that extensive meets. Mood this thing, you do not care, it is less than you with respect to the injury.
9, the thing on the world, most those who abstain from is a perfect, you see the moon that went up that day, once satisfactory, want deficient be disgusted with immediately; Cultivate the fruit that go up, once squashy, want to fall immediately. Everything always should stay a bit defective, ability holds constant. -- Mo Yan
10, knowledge person need not explore is used up, explore all is complained more. Tell a person need not character is used up, character all does not have friend. Duty person need not exacting is used up, exacting is used up numerous far. Respect a person need not low is used up, low uses up little bone. Let a person need not be retreated, retreat a road difficult.
