The Guo Lihua Yo that is 67 years old has 3 one female, after hardship brings up children, she should bring up again now the children of 3 sons. The children of herself goes out to work made money, very much like the village youth is same.
3 grandson generation is grown also now, the biggest granddaughter already had 16 years old, still live in grandma home. But the grandma should take care of them not simply, also want to take care of the man with bad body. The mental state that says the man according to her is not quite good, ability trip is in not long ago in the toilet, if nobody discovers the likelihood is dead,be in the toilet.
Guo grandma worries about everyday labor, so tired that be no good, leg of her stomach-ache, waist aches, need to take drug a few times everyday, do not have the place that does not ache up and down all over. Mention oneself meet with the life of the blame, she cannot help dripping the eye wipes a tear: "I did not auspicious day on booth, of this endure hardships, I am done not have (over- ) wedding day, the eye cries worked. " besides exert oneself, guo grandma gives even grandson generation people pin money, but herself also money of it doesn't matter, can a few a few to.
The village still has a lot of like such children staying behind and old person, the youth of 2/3 went out to work, the village became hollow village. Prospective grandson generation people grown, also can leave a village to go out likely development, old people became the true host of this village, they need cultivate land to work, take care of the 3rd generation.
Although Guo grandma is illiterate, but she also very worry about grandson generation people study circumstance, remind children not to do risky business even at ordinary times, now and then the child is not obedient also can start work to them, but often won't hit, she feels is not he is unripe after all, their pa Mom also is not beside, hate to part with really dozen.
The business that Guo grandma loves to do most at ordinary times calls to the son namely, she says exaggeratively one day to be able to be hit hundreds of times, should hear a son only " ah " meet very happy. The son gives later installed in the home photograph like the head, he wants only can open photograph the child that sees oneself like the head. The son also expresses in interview, oneself are the happiest is to come home, the most sentimental when going namely. Graduation of his high school came out to work, oneself also have the place of a lot of have no alternative.
Nowadays, the phenomenon of children staying behind and hollow village already can no more be person place negligence. Can the children that cannot get along for a long time intimately with parents appear certain psychology predicament? How should be the old age life of old people ensured? These are the problems that we must ponder over. Of course, the youth also has the place of be forced to do, want to pledge to child proffer safeguard has to go the big city with more substantial natural resources, but went big city does not have a law to accompany be beside the child, so the child also can leave what the old person of home town brings up temporarily only. Lie between Dai Yoer to also the issue that separates Dai Yoer exists nevertheless, parents still had better be he assume a Yo responsibility comes.
1.Acting channel problem.
The idea idea of ancestors, thinking mode, include information reserve to stay before, the society that catchs up with high speed develops very hard. And the children of new century can use begin machine, network natively mostly, hard to avoid can appear with old people problem of a few acting channel. Not be newest information, popular culture only only, also included viewpoint of value, world outlook and life option. These problems may follow the pa Mom with some lighter age to be communicated more easily some.
2.Lack is self-confident.
Not be to say every child that is brought up by grandfather grandma lacks self-confidence, but because a lot of children staying behind lack parents to accompany, hard to avoid becomes a little sensitive and flimsy, lack self-confident heart.
3.Disobedient certainly.
The child year young when, hear the word of ancestors quite commonly. As the growth of child knowledge and life experience, become strong plus physical strength, slowly no longer be convinced ancestors, can become very difficult certainly. Especially boy, after entering adolescence if rely on grandfather grandma only,the canal is very demanding for certain.
4.Old person ability not equal to one's ambition.
Old people is old people after all, manual energy affirms with pa Mom do not have law comparing, habit of odd odd work and rest follows youth photograph to go very far, time is long, ability not equal to one's ambition of hard to avoid, the parents that still needs proper prime of life will take care of.
On the child's education parental ten million cannot be done swing palmar ark, even if far in a thousand li, cannot raise the child directly, also should follow grandma of grandfather of the child, child, teacher great communicate, participate in the child more as far as possible in fostering, come. Our parents is already painstaking fostered us, when ought enjoying old age to live well, let them again endure all kinds of hardships is brought up grandson generation, why are we borne at the heart again?
