The child is domestic hope, every family that has the child is special happiness, especially two home added a person, this is a particularly worth while and glad thing.
But the discovery after passing calmly, although be a glad thing, but inconvenience is when also having a lot of, be in especially child is a young adult when, to everything muddled muddled understands.
The child of this phase, say some matters say to understand to actually still a bit do not understand, say not to understand understand again so little, this moment is the most impracticable when, the parent's education appears particularly important.
The child meets by chance parental heat, two treasure Mom is different reply, to the child the influence differs
Yan Min is a mom of 6 years old of children, because be the first child in the home, yan Min and husband are especially so other be very fond of this child, what thing down the child.
Because be in as a child of parents bestow favor on be addicted to next is brought up, child Niu Niu of Yan Min is so special not sensible, and disposition is especially other also bad, often breathe out greatly to the family member small cry.
And Yan Min and husband feel the child is the age small, it is good to was brought up, after all dot is not sensible, mix because of Yan Min namely husband such educational concept, the ox is so arrogant more not sensible.
One day, after Yan Min sees Niu Niu is asleep, undertake with husband affectionate, but undertaking the doorway is standing discovering to the half Niu Niu is in, this moment Yan Min just reacts come over, it is the door was not locked up so.
Niu Niu sees such circumstance, the room that answers oneself directly, yan Min is especially other and nervous, do not know how to should explain to the child, said a lie so, say oneself and father are doing exercise, and what didn't Niu Niu say however.
And the child that Xiao Li is not such answers, xiao Li's son this year also already 6 years old, also was to meet by chance pa Mom to be together before long before affectionate, the idea that teachs the child because of Xiao Li is very right, so the child saw do not have deceit already, also do not have perfunctory child, used an example to show father mother to the child however why so do, after the son listens, understood.
Yan Min's child becomes aware parents does this thing is incorrect all the time later, feel especially other and ashamed, and Xiao Li's child falls in mom's correct explanation, think this is a kind of very normal phenomenon, also had a very clear knowledge with respect to this respect so, did not feel this is a bad ashamed thing.
If is parental of the same branch of a family come up against by the child how to do?
After all the child and parents are to live below an eave, so parental heat is met by chance by the child this is a very normal phenomenon actually, this moment needs the parent's accurate knowledge that popularizes this field to the child, do not fumble to the child or undertake deceit, it is bad to the development of the child's psychology and body so.
Right way should take the advantage of this opportunity to attend a vivid physiology class to the child, such children can have a viewpoint of value that cleans correctly in cerebrum, won't feel this is an ashamed thing.
Anyhow, the parent does not feel child age is small think whats do not know the child, the child of this phase is in the phase of a muddled actually, and need parents certainly in this moment undertake correct guiding, have correct guiding only, the child just can have a true viewpoint of value, ability can look very to leave to this thing.
Anyhow sex education is every parent should give the child all-pervading, the parent of a lot of China thinks this is a very bashful thing, but be in abroad, almost every child arrived certain age, parents can gain ground to the child, be being done so actually also is a kind of protection to the child, protective child is harmed not easily, this also explained why the probability that foreign children is encroached wants far be less than home.
I am candied mom, it is division of infant of an advanced Yo, also be the mom of 4 years old of darling, in Yo any problems that encounter in the process can ask me, hope my a bit proposal can help you solve the trouble in the process that bring child and quandary.
