Having a saw is such saying " not with be apt to small and do not be, do not be evil small and for it " ; Teach to the child actually for, also have vigilant effect very much. Parents should clutch as a child to the child certainly, if the hour is infected with,went up no matter indisposition has taught, wait for the child to be brought up to be able to have very likely cause very bad effect.
To us these two words are not new, because wanted parents to discover the child has only in one's childhood " take a thing secretly " or be " take money secretly " behavior can say such word to criticize the child, serious word hits child palm symbolisticly a few times namely, earnest ground prohibits the child cannot the mistake with same recommit, but is to the child this planted " take a thing secretly " is behavior a few children parents beats and scold to you can have been corrected really?
Toy of the newcome in satchel
The son of Mr Lin this year 6 years old, just went up elementary school one grade, always be complaisant to the person at ordinary times, neighbour people very admiring forest gentleman, educational child is so polite sensible. At ordinary times the son is very obedient clever, so Mr Lin is mixed wife to the son very be at ease.
But gentleman of this paragraph of time forest discovers his son is a bit strange, classes are over the room that came back to always run back to oneself locks up a door to say is feigned course of study does not want to be annoyed, was based on this bit of Mr Lin to generate question. The decision goes well interrogate a while child.
Mr Lin and wife decision go one dug unexpectedly, open a door to see a son and taking a toy to be able to play happily however in feigned course of study, see father comes in to hide the toy in back immediately, just began a son " pretend " saying a toy is to be the same as desk classmate Xiaozhang to borrow him to play, subsequently Mr Lin is in add of satchel land add ferret a few very new toys, immediately Mr Lin feels situation is a bit serious, examine minutely a son repeatedly, final son " explain frankly " .
These toys are he are taken the advantage of entirely when Xiaozhang is not advertent in the satchel from him " take " money goes buying. This where is to take, be stolen namely obviously. Mr Lin hears the son's explanation, immediately with respect to skinful fury, just wanted to beat a son directly, was prevented by wife finally.
After wife asks clear son does a thing calmly, had installed these toys, the hand that involving a son comes to the home of classmate Xiaozhang. Showed a case with small Zhang Jiachang, the money that takes the son pieces small secretly returned Xiaozhang's parents. Taking a son to apologize to Mrs Lin this thing, small Zhang Fu's mother also expresses to understand and excused the child, the kind that praised Mrs Lin teachs the child is too right.
It is actually in child memory to " steal a thing " and " steal money " do not have what concept, not clear whats dividing is to steal, the thing that knows Qian Ke to buy his to like play in order to use only inside the child's heart and buy eat delicious food. Discover when parents the child has actually " secretly " this behavior should want to correct the child immediately this wrong action, wait for the child otherwise gradually parents are regretful after this bad behavior is used to nurturance.
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Go up knowledge, my home child also has such action, always like to take the Qian Fang in I and husband trouser pocket to be in his memory canister secretly, is so this behavior incorrect? Look go back tonight should teach the child well.
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Sympathize, my son just read elementary school one grade is discovered by me the son's satchel everyday a new toy, it is a son so the satchel in the classmate come secretly, the toy that I am taking a son to come back secretly immediately and son give each child the apology to the school together, the son sees he steals people thing later, after parents should say an apology together, the son also had not appeared to take the classmate's action secretly again.
- We should tell the child what cries " secretly "
To major child to " steal " do not have what concept, just think oneself are only purely " take " toy, or be " take " money is used buy a toy to buy snacks, without what incorrect also, was discovered return comparing a person is.
We should engraft to the child is a very serious conduct secretly actually, be paid no attention to in others or be to do not have those who pass others to agree to fall, take the behavior of the property that takes others to be stolen namely.
To the child " steal " how should behavior parents teach the child?
- To the child " steal " the thing is first offence and consequence is not very serious, parents does not get angry first, should tell a truth with the child with calm state of mind. Often do not cry dozen cry scold, to teaching child parents to want reason is mixed have patience, the child also has self-esteem, so to education the first time " secretly " the child of the thing needs what Xiao Zhi moves with affection to teach the child with manage ground more.
2. if the child is not first time any more " take secretly " the circumstance of the thing, already very serious. So this is parents must teach the child sharply, hit palmar heart to come even when necessary " penalty " the child, must let the child know deeply to oneself " take secretly " thing this behavior parents is to use what manner to come " penalty " oneself, let child firmly ground remember stealing the seriousness of the thing. Cannot repeat recommit the mistake of this seriousness.
The child often steals a thing to lie 3. still has the most severe case additionally, one can say the child has been on a certain degree " hardened thief " , the education to parents and " hit " had been not put on the heart, steal the contented sense that the thing brings to oneself to keep satisfying, meet the behavior that second ground masks him theft with the lie, parents are right now so so called education cannot have helped the child, ought to look after children immediately go to a hospital seeing doctor of a few psychology accept standard treatment.
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