In one's childhood we, most jubilate, it is class hind and young associate beautiful rope of one take off, play hide-and-seek, play building blocks. The child nowadays, a lot of already became " electronic darling " , " remote control expert " , as less and less as nature and the opportunity that the person contacts.
Group the treasure Mom in says the child does not cry to Pad, holding Pad in both hands to look can look one day! This is not an exemple, however the current situation of most family. Some children begin to contact electronic product from 1 year old even.
Such recreation, injured the eyesight of children not only, still let the child face brightly colored, do not sum classificationed adult message, do not know resolution stand or fall, receive innocent and ignorantly right-down.
Electronic product harm is great, the child needs to have the communication of temperature more.
Nerve physiology psychology studies dagger of · of expert Sa Li amounts to De Bulaisi to express, interactive communication is very beneficial to body development between the parent and child, for example eyes communication, sing and talk, if put the child in pram, and his mom is using a smartphone, this kind of interactive communication won't arise forever.
Actually, a few look be like " primitive " activity, it is the main agency of skill of life of society of child understanding world, study, also be need in growing process of classics " main task " .
1, make by hand
Make carve of a mud, make a kite, do a mask with chipboard, pile the castle with sand.
Children is gizmo home, these practice can foster their imagination not only, rise start work the ability, ability that solves a problem, still can let them acquire a lot of knowledge in the process of ceaseless exploration.
2, the companion interacts
The organization hits picnic, smally.
Children are together amuse oneself, hard to avoid can have attrition. Alleged from an exchange of blows friendship grows, associate of understanding of a lot of children is from small begin, this is a kind of expression of human sociality, before the thing enters a society, interact with the person " rehearse " , one kind be child communication ability and independent ability takes exercise, the gregarious ability that oneself organize the process of picnic to be able to raise the child and handle affairs ability.
3, close child interactive
Make the child preparative breakfast, close child a panification, let the child do simple chore, let the child wash a sock, let the child carry the water that wash a foot to wait.
The parent need not relative strength of at every turn is in person, the anything that lest the child thinks in exert a subtle influence on,the parent does for oneself is should. Formed the disposition that is a center with ego gradually. Can let the child wash sock, end to wash crural water to wait, make the child ceaseless experience parental hardship and love. Rise provide for oneself ability, learn care others.
4, close nature
Entomologize, fruit, camp in the courtyard, identify snowman of 5 kinds of avian, caboodle.
Nature is children the best place of study, experience, observation, exploration. Here, their knowledge is able to abound. The experience is able to grow, observation is able to rise. The process that blends in nature can let the child search a lot of this true joy. Can learn to protect an environment from which.
5, spinule seeking a site is stimulated
Roll about on the meadow, attend " expeditionary " , funny face is painted on the face with dye.
The parent is much to the child now it is overprotection, those who dress up is clean and beautiful. The toy is far from original staff already, now and then throw one Jiao what one everybody person feels distressed is disastrous, more never mention it allow them to play these game that play them dirtily. Actually these game accord with the child's unrestrained nature, high-tech product can not replace the joy that can bring for them.
