To let you breakfast takes off sheet, parents also is very went all out

Author | Huang Jie China edits | Sledge

This looking at be about to spend the New Year, did believe everybody has been done become good by pa Mom implicative 7 great aunt the preparation that 8 mother's eldest sister control?

Did success go, age division of the a fewth where is the poorest, was the class of take lessons after school of winter vacation arranged?

Did the job search, what unit is decided firmly, when to put the enough money that buy a car probably?

Did the friend talk, does what family have a picture, when does preparation bring back see?

Before the friend expresses annual domestic party is met by aunt all sorts of urging marriage, as a result a meal had last year come down actually calm, nobody carries him. Asked to just know the son of aunt, namely because oneself small cousin is early love was call-overed to criticize when semester end parent is met...

Face relative by all sorts of examining minutely is to be able to let mostly person sense in the end aches, nevertheless its also should understand some problems really. For instance, if if know pa Mom takes off sheet to let you,have many,try hard, you also can understand possibly why this 2 old like this became urgent.

Have pity on heart of the world parents, for your marriage your Mom is held not only broke heart, new still even pick up put down old jotter to make a strategy. A mom of Hunan takes off sheet to let a daughter, listed directly date make an appointment watch.

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This makes an appointment be arranged besides time on the watch obviously for nothing, still date individually state of member of the native place of the object, family, belongings, record of formal schooling, professional, job was listed come out, repeatedly a few grab were written come out...

The netizen expresses, oneself should have when be used to of begin to learn so serious, had been in possibly now did not take a walk by the side of renown lakefront

Actually parents does so much homework solid also belong to but, date a road on the market and requirement are you are unthinkable simply.

Before paragraph time first about " Chinese type dates price-list " the report brushs screen network, there is the language of many unimaginably queers letting a person in the report, for example " be matched for marriage is iron rule " , " we do not look for an other place " , " do not have even the room, also dare date? " , " can spend deformity gently, but those who belong to a sheep is absolutely be no good! " ...

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Of every time date to many distain catenary undercurrent to emerge move. Car it may not be a bad idea, room it may not be a bad idea, far not as good as what registered permanent residence of a this locality comes is honest. Someone says those who do not have this locality registered permanent residence to take no account of even,

Is this to should force the person of the sheep with the other place passed together so that belong to?

Sheep: ? ? ?

Be in additionally date the house in horn also has a house distain catenary: "House-owner of the city zone looks down on suburb house-owner, room learning an area is looked down on be not room learning an area, those who stay in a building look down on live of bungalow, of three-room flat look down on two bedrooms... "

This income is very finally it is to date the Chongzhongzhi in is heavy, those who do not have money in date character is main market of it doesn't matter. There was media to list one piece dates before price-list, after looking, ability him discovery lives in the society so the most rock-bottom. . .

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Generalize with a word date distaining catenary is: Native look do not go up foreigner, the look of big city number of households and total population does not go up of small town number of households and total population, 3 annulus have the look of the room not to go up 5 annulus " suburb " , the look with high income do not go up income is low...

This each condition lets a person feel love lost the most sterling look, let a person must sigh with emotion the society is so reality. Also somebody say: "Date even if wash oneself clean had dressed up, put on chopping board to sell, who to see give a good price to win the home namely. Who to see give a good price to win the home namely..

See here, mug-up is fond of him to be in date horn is distained feel on catenary climb boil dozen, the pa Mom that explores carefully?

And they worry about to yours won't stop of course at dating on the strategy.

Search optimal time to be what differ on your arrangement to date this is the basiccest, the image that links you and date particular segment also should be you to give counsel, old Buddha of mother of an emperor of drama of large a note of the ancient Chinese five-tone scale having Qing Dynasty raises the grand move of empress for his imperial son. . . . . .

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Besides, they are returned not Wei is freezing, not him dread senile.

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Of Shanghai some park date horn, search to the daughter date there still is an uncle that passes 7 a period of ten years in one's ages in the main forces of the object. The daughter of graduate student record of formal schooling is very outstanding, but fast more than 40 years old still did not get married. So this uncle also is not considered on enjoy what old age to live, be forced one year another year to date horn " have the groom move into one's house after the marriage " .

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What don't this still calculate, how didn't parents nod skill to give you look for a partner in marriage now?

Before, the daughter of Martha elder sister of Heibei works in Chongqing, 29 years old still lone. Then Martha elder sister resigns directly from Heibei " kill " to Chongqing, become one with through learning mahjong and neighbour. She expresses " I learn card games is to be side daughter to look for a boy friend, those who become Mom is anxious, want to know bit of neighbour more through card games, good let them be being helped introduce a boy friend to the daughter! Good let them be being helped introduce a boy friend to the daughter!!

Good, this can whole village knows you want look for a partner in marriage. Your Mom hits mahjong not only recreation oneself, returning you to look for an object ~ fruit is close Mom really.

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Pa Mom breaks to let you take off sheet to hold the heart is true, just search date the object always brings little fright to you from time to time.

One uncle sees saline city son age became old lone still, thinking to give his son choose on the net. Can spend in the money in this process many, the girl does not agree to meet not only however, return finally its small letter is pulled black.

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Ability discovery calls the police after the son knows, this " the girl " it is unexpectedly male...

Besides what be worn to be deceived by all sorts of netizen flicker, still can give you to get on all sorts of acquaintance arrangement from time to time. Date the spot has much awkwardness, everybody is OK proper motion head fills...

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Date besides what know oneself beyond the object, your date also may know each other between the object...

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You had taken the longest way, the likelihood is pa Mom flicker a road that you go to dating.

Went out to ate an indescribable meal to be become occasionally date congress, more interesting is doing not have certain the other side also is be fooled to take repeatedly by pa Mom cheating those who come over, met mutual between often be a few faces muddled force. . . .

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Still the way that sees an old person went up to become the road that goes dating to go up insensibly. . . . . .

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Face the look for a partner in marriage of parents every time, marry wait for a problem, youth very defy cannot prevent again however.

Normally parents forces the way of marriage is education, force, look for close friends to suppress, arrange photograph degree of relationship forcibly; Children people also be to see action tear open action, appeared finally all sorts of " force marriage " , " force instead marriage is allied " , " spend the New Year not to come home " wait for all sorts of organizations and countermeasure.

Beside a few friends are urged two this years to avoid marriage, come home every year before the Spring Festival visit one's family, the Spring Festival goes out to had travelled New Year, miss close friends besiege.

Miss Dong of 35 years old is a lone doctor, meet to avoid to spend the New Year by " besiege " , she applies for the Spring Festival actively to be on duty more to the leader.

Did not think of attentive leader discovered eccentric part, return ground of sincere words and earnest wishes to tell her finally: "Spring Festival holiday is a very good intercourse opportunity, you should take the chance to know much contact more a few people... the Spring Festival is on duty I won't discharge you, use holiday to settle your urgent matter well. Use holiday to settle your urgent matter well..

Each marriage be forcinged, the youth had appeared gradually disease of Spring Festival angst, was immersed in " close country situation more cowardly " in the mood. Chose not to come home directly or eats meal of the eve of the lunar New Year to go.

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Even a few ursine children still have hire male (female) friend comes home the way that spend the New Year:

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Fiercer is direct send parents the picture that loves a beans when the object:

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In marry this respect, children people " pretend to be deaf and dumb, gu Zun is right and character is other " , and parents " Lv of exhaust essence exhaust, break arenaceous boiler to ask about a bottom all the way " the circumstance cans be found everywhere. In the final analysis, the acting channel of marital idea is a when make trouble among them main reason.

Marry at a mature age person increasing the reality that has become a society. Unlike wanted comfortable marriage age to marry early only before, what present person more goes after is ego grows, taller and taller also to the requirement of other in part, besides material, invigorative still go up with viewpoint of value ascend right. These do father and mother actually also should understand somewhat.

As to the youth single reason also is various, the job demand of busy, choose idol is high, like freedom, circle is small, marry because of making do with no longer.

▲ picture origin: Treasure a net to release " findings report of 2018 lone women "

Of that parents all sorts of forcing marriage, arrangement photograph degree of relationship also has the difficulties that one is reluctant to mention of themselves.

A lot of parents are urged marriage, because feel child age is old,not be, hope they are outer however there can be an individual to accompany when working, take care of each other, need not as to a person so work hard and feel alone.

The self-identity that present parents watch to filial marriage and understanding are promoting ▲ | Picture origin: Pear video

Also be to fear at the same time oneself went, leave child loneliness one person comes off work arrive home to did not heat up a meal readily, glad to can be shared without the person, encounter a setback can oneself a person is carried.

So, although be opposite,urge marriage feel impatient, we also should experience parents advise in earnest. If do not like their way really, that learns to communicate, understand a thing to always can be solved each other.

Spend the New Year come home

Most what does Mom is afraid of pa ask?

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