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Article ｜ Cheng Xiaoyi

Be in these days, there is a heat to discuss on small gain " grow smally fat it is what kind of experience " on hot search, achieve 1.7 read a quantity, participate in discussion number to achieve 22 thousand person-time.

Argue square cent is a men and women two cliques, woman clique is representative leave a message:

Netizen " Jlkfdjl " say, the gas that do not have a heart dressed up, think the party that go is hesitating to feel embarrassed, was disinclined to make up, lose the garment automatically to tasted what can collect bounty only to wear, the mirror is come up against to do not have in bazaar soon oneself, seeing cate is kink, see the belle heart on the driveway is more painful again at the same time, the eye looks at others to wearing beautiful dress to patting beautiful beauty to illuminate, the all the time is not regretting of a suit fat that this one impediment comes out.

Netizen " small amount plum Sir " say, take a picture not to show the whole body, the dress is worn only completely black, absolutely nobody can see I have multiple

Netizen " lanes and alleys remembers laughing " say, you say you are fat, still not be very fat, however this fat place is fat

Netizen " love with temperamental and famous small broadness " say, can wear flesh of block of broad leg pants only, be looked fat by others toot toots, miniskirt condole belt is dare be not worn really

From above, the point of view that can see the woman is, no matter be to wearing the dress to still be in,take a picture on, small fat it is fat, fat the biggest injustice feels even if oneself eat.

Man clique is representative leave a message:

Netizen " 2 bareheaded " say, feel of small fat schoolgirl is good, small fat schoolgirl can give you safe sense, you are worth small fat schoolgirl girlfriend have.

Netizen " glacial flesh " say, small fat schoolgirl, the constitution is good.

Netizen " restaurant leaves " say, the schoolgirl is small fat just good,

From above, the point of view that can see the man is, small fat it is good, not only body a copy kept as a record is good, feel it may not be a bad idea.

From couple of male and female for the perspective, they gave out respectively oneself different answer, so why both sides of male and female is in treat small fat the meeting on this thing has different view

Above all, why can the schoolgirl feel where she is fat?

Since since, have female for Yue already person look, loving the United States is the nature of every woman. Especially during love, a lot of schoolgirls hope she present a the most beautiful one side before beloved person.

If one day the person all round is talked about fat when thin problem, a lot of schoolgirls can explain her from the angle of oneself fat where, why to meet fat, for instance we often are heard beside female friend place says, my the upper part of the body is thin, private parts the metropolis that drink water is fat, fat, because fat do not love to be patted oneself etc.

Have theory of double element of a mood, call suspension bridge effect again, mix by Stanley Schachter at first Joreme E.Siner (1962) put forward.

This theory thinks, when experiencing some kind of mood, people always experiences his physiology to arouse first, it is instantly next in instantly environment seek clue, arouse to this kind of physiology undertake explanatory (Cotton, 1981) .

That is to say, discuss the article is for instance medium small fat topic when a problem when us, people often can wake up potential factor from inside the physiology of oneself, attribution these elements to his body, this also had why schoolgirls always feel she always are fat.

Next, why does the schoolboy like small fat schoolgirl or it is to like to comfort a schoolgirl.

John Grey is in author of popular psychological best seller his " the man comes from spark, the woman comes from Venus " call the man in this book Martian, the woman calls Venus person.

He thinks compared with the woman, the man that comes from spark prefers to prove his ability, they compare a preference to solve a problem, meeting natively regards the thing that all encountering as the issue will solve. So, the author call very humorously them " problem expert " .

The small fat topic that becomes a woman student appears before any schoolboy when, they can regard as is a proposition will solve, and the schoolboy always can take care of schoolgirl face. So, the male friend beside always comforts them, you won't be fat, you are firm just,

If be affinity, that partner can say directly, the schoolgirl has fleshy feel to had been compared.

For instance, in teleplay " why sheng xiao silent " in, why treasure and Zhao Mo are born in ramble when the supermarket, zhao Mo is unripe when speaking oneself to want to take the course as restaurant, she still feels to be able to be nodded too much, and why treasure says however, raise you a bit fatter, feel it may not be a bad idea a bit.

Finally, couple of bypass men and women is right small fat view, I feel small fat it is a thin person in fatso, the fatso in a thin person. Actually, you may need to reduce weight far from, there is bit of flesh to be able to fight a lot of disease on the body, small fat talent is the world's established healthy figure maintains.

A netizen is right " grow smally fat it is what kind of experience " in gave out oneself opinion, I feel very critical.

Experience even if, the abdomen that likes the person of a thin person to be able to stare at you spits groove your natant circle resembles extremely Mi Jilin tire, like fat person exhort repeatedly again I must not reduce weight to be able to be in even a bit fatter...

To this I want to say... self-confidence should be by inside and outside, it is a heart first powerful, express again explicit now. The evaluation of others is right for me perfunctory, no matter fat thin should do the most lovely oneself, anybody has his distinctive beauty

Deep think like that. Everybody has his distinctive beauty, need not too the eye that cares about other, a self-confident person should be by inside send out a ray.

No matter be schoolgirl eye medium small fat or in schoolboy eye just good, actually I feel, fat with thin decide because of individual element, it is thin that some person days are born with, how to also eat not fat, some people are to drink boiled water really the metropolis is fat, how does that do? Actually the calm faces his figure.

Resemble participating in discussion netizen " summary beauty is small handsome Ju Meng " be said,

Try hard well, should know be kind to oneself, management is good oneself, sooner or later one day, you want, time can want to you that you.

No matter be small fat still be fattish schoolgirl, do not affect you actually beautiful all the time the reason that go down, because of a truly advanced woman, be what won't mind him body to go up is fat with thin, but they know a society how to had managed their, how had managed oneself, perserve only go down, those you want can meet with you eventually.

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