Lucky person, be cured by childhood all one's life; Sad person, be in all one's life cure childhood.
Former unripe family brings our pain and brand, exceed our imagination. No less than " happy eulogy " what Fan Sheng beauty says in that way: "The fate that the family of a person is a person " .
Fan Sheng beauty calculates how to work hard earn money, cannot flounce off as before by insanity of former unripe family " suck blood " destiny.
She former family is bad, parents is heavy male light female, calculate her to become to look be like the temperamental white-collar that the head has a face, dare not spend money in disorder as before, dare not make a boy friend, because every month wants to give father and mother ceaselessly,send money...
To her parents character, fan Sheng beauty puts the value that be in exclusively: It is from the bleed white on her body the surplus value of last one fine long hair stopped, really lamentable.
More lamentable is, teleplay Fan Sheng's beautiful tragedy, however in actual life repeats ceaselessly.
The girl the name of a river in Shaanxi and Henan provinces that was born 1996, in Hangzhou a company works.
Many years old 20, it is the age of beautiful same happiness originally, but was forced to become beauty of actual edition Fan Sheng alive. Because can't bear bearing parental fine long hair to be asked for incontinently, luo Luo is in doubt jumped in October 2019 Qian Tangjiang perishs.
To this, the company that Luo Luo is in compensated 60 thousand yuan to its parents, this thinking that this thing ends at this point. Cannot think of, parents of the name of a river in Shaanxi and Henan provinces of the name of a river in Shaanxi and Henan provinces after 3 days alls alone a huge sum recoups a money suddenly, is the reason to want to buy house Fu Shoufu to the little brother?
In video we can see, parents cares to Luo Luo very do not reach the designated position, luo Luo is forced to choose to abreact in gregarious platform oneself mood.
No less than she writes so in gregarious platform before one's death: "I admit former unripe family is the cage that my this all one's life does not flounce off, my make much ado climbs outside, hide toward far, can think in me joy is free and easy oneself after all when, it blot out the sky and cover up the earth to sweep across and come, remind me with canorous a slap on the face: You do not hide, this all one's life, do not hide " .
Still Luo Luo returns ground of be bitterly disappointed to write: "I aux would rather beautiful money buys outright close affection, from now on neither photograph is owed. From now on neither photograph is owed..
Face camera lens, parents of the name of a river in Shaanxi and Henan provinces of the name of a river in Shaanxi and Henan provinces emphasizes the dissatisfaction to recouping a money all the time, "Is my daughter worth 60 thousand money? "Is my daughter worth 60 thousand money??
"250 thousand " , " the increase is the biggest change " " I engage in a lawsuit without time energy " ... in eye of Luo Luo's parents, thinking of to take most at the moment the biggest spent compensatory money, money is left only in the eye.
The work in the same placing that still has Luo Luo such say: "Others home is the daughter washs out mom with the mobile phone that come, her home (Home Luo Luo) it is mom must use new fund, wash out those who come down to be used to the daughter next. Wash out those who come down to be used to the daughter next..
Be in those who face boss of the name of a river in Shaanxi and Henan provinces of the name of a river in Shaanxi and Henan provinces to say " parents of the name of a river in Shaanxi and Henan provinces of the name of a river in Shaanxi and Henan provinces wants to take money of 200 thousand compensation,
Some parents do not deserve parenting, did not care her daughter to calculate at ordinary times, after dying to the daughter, still want to use her, the value of extort a tiny bit, this is too lamentable really with abominable.
This lifetime crosses Luo Luo too sadly, the life is weighed in this male light in female family, how does she try hard again, also do not escape to give domestic cage.
The world did not love filial parents, this is the biggest lie on the world.
Luo Luo's parents does not love her, they are very fond of the son with him care only, the daughter is the tool in allowance home stopped nevertheless in their eye.
There are many women in our life is be treated by so merciless cruelty, be weighed first male light female a married woman's parents' home is used flintily, after marrying, still be compressed by husband's family callosity.
Be in very multiple male light in female parental eye, it seems that the daughter is about to marry sooner or later go out, it is an alien nevertheless, it is they compressed to stop with the tool that demands resource, good thing should leave him baby son.
Wait for daughter marriage to marry a person, provide for the aged of him age gist, they however with " I am raised big you are not easy, you give me live out one's life in retirement with respect to this " for reason, hope daughter gives them well provide for the aged, quite acid really.
Face counterpoise male light female former unripe family, how should we do again?
Above all, you must admit parents does not love his fact. Perhaps, at the beginning you can be accepted very hard, this needs to need huge courage, but want only, the path is much wider.
Psychologist Shi Qi fine ever had said: "The price of childhood scar is right those who love all one's life long for, besides, do not beg without him. Do not beg without him..
Consider childhood traumatic to let us be short of love to do not have safe feeling, we are surrounded by love in longing all the time with cram, but should tell oneself: Parents does not love me, this makes me very painful, but the life that I was brought up to have my nowadays, capable also to learn to love, go answering all these.
Next, you can choose to escape to give birth to a family formerly. Psychologist fierce sign is red in new book " mix another oneself talk about confabulate " allude, escaping is very important, "Use this kind of freedom well, if your family lets you have choking feeling, you are OK little go back, do not go back even. This meeting forces a few old people in the family lower his head to the child. This meeting forces a few old people in the family lower his head to the child..
Finally, the society reconciles with oneself, love oneself well. Treat heavy male light female parents, and the former unripe family that does not have love, we should learn to admit all these, reconcile with oneself. Because become you to understand: As long as oneself are powerful, can harm us, have ourselves only.
Be born and be a person, we are worth to have better life. If somebody wants to harm us, it is blood thick the parents at water, we also should say with them stoutly " not " .
The family of a person is one the individual's fate.
But my life by me not by the day, be far from pain of former unripe family, good good life, cure oneself slowly.
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