Spend the New Year, the family that has child 7 things cannot little, can be the happy feeling with

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" young prince " in a word says: Alleged ceremony feels, allowing some day and other day namely is different, also make this one hour and other hour different.

The Spring Festival is the Chinese's highest ceremony feeling undoubtedly.

Lu Xun is in novel " blessing " such medium elaborating say: "The end of the year of that the old Chinese calendar is after all most those who resemble the end of the year, the nature on bourg is to need not say, plant in the sky namely also show piece will come to the atmosphere of New Year.

In one's childhood most those who look forward to is to spend the New Year, because spend the New Year to be meant,can wear new dress, can have money given to children as a lunar New Year gift, can eat dumpling, can mix friends, sa Huan, still can go close to visit friend, do as one wants in kin home.

Remember coming is full warmth and happy feeling now.

And contemporary abound as material gradually, "Year flavour " weaker and weaker however.

The China on the tip of the tongue has said a paragraph of such words:

Year flavour is weaker and weaker, because make a living,flowing water rises smoothly. Every go to the mother spend the New Year to be able to complain ask: What to eat? What do you want to eat? Children people can say, you are done casually, informal, be forced annual as before.

This one informal, "Year flavour " send more become weak!

If not informal, have the child's family especially, just can bring the child a warmth recollect longly again!

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So, how to give the child a New Year that there is ceremonial feeling?

? 1, explain to the child about the draw that spend the New Year this

About spending the New Year we have a lot of to circulate long story, there also is a lot of now about the draw that spend the New Year this, if the child is small still, can read to the child about the draw that spend the New Year this, also can look for a few folktale on the net, tell to the child year how to come? The child loves to hear a story most.

? 2, draw together with the child, cut paper-cut for window decoration

Present child is all-round, calligraphy is good can oneself write blessing word, what the picture has drawn is OK oneself draw a few off year, still can cut paper-cut for window decoration together with the child, the son is in one's childhood when nursery school, the teacher has taught them how to cut paper-cut for window decoration, return he asks I buy the paper that takes color to him in the home, oneself cut a lot of very good-looking paper-cut for window decoration, undoubted this also is first-rate kiss happily child game.

? 3, take a piece of a photograph of whole family

After having the child, each days we want to keep best memory for the child it seems that, but in day of peace of a photograph of whole family not quite different, want to spend some of idea, look for a famous photo studio earnestly for instance, take a group of nice a photograph of whole family earnestly.

If choose to be in the home, also can choose every year to be in a place, make same expression with the child, take a piece of picture.

? 4, the success that records the child one year

Our adult can be done every year to the end of the year answer dish, the child also is! Can record he how much did height grow one this year, how much did weight grow, get arrives the mastery of a skill or technique with new what, there was what progress on study, what difficulty to encounter at the same time? There is what little cause in coming one year.

Can use an appropriative notebook, write down every year, in the meantime, invite grandfather grandma, grandmother Lao as form of a address for an official or rich man, keep beatific sign every year to the child, wonderful keep souvenir also can be after be brought up.

? 5, buy special purchases for the Spring Festival together with the child

Can buy special purchases for the Spring Festival together with the child, be in for instance snacks respect, oneself like what to eat, the child likes what to eat to be able to discuss with the child, return the lantern that can buy a few New Year to the child, colored ribbon, buy a festival new clothes, buy admire long already gift in the heart, let the child to spending the New Year one is expected.

? 6, with the child a stay up late or all night on New Year's Eve

Annual spring it is to press an axis to make fun of greatly late, our family can be surrounded sit beside the television to watch, the son takes this file program seriously especially, not was willing to fall even, the following day one big early, the son can run to pay a New Year call to us designedly, say a few lucky words, we also can give the child money given to children as a lunar New Year gift.

? 7, according to consuetudinary, take technological process with the child

"23, candy melon is stuck; 24, sweep a room; 25, grind bean curd; 26, the pork that stew; 27, fight a cock; 28, face hair; 29, stick couplet; 30 boil one constellation in the evening; Go into the street at the beginning of the first month of the lunar year twist... "

Itself the flow that this common saying is a first-rate ceremonial feeling:

Say as it is said, kitchen king father is ethereal constellation, because err to be demoted the world, administer hearth, saw this family do what favour and bad thing at the same time, the twelfth month of the lunar year this days 23, can answer the middle of forhead to report, so folk is in this day, sweet the candy melon that sticks again gives kitchen king, the mouth of clingy kitchen king, let him " God says a good work, go to the fields is protected restful " .

Present child had not experienced the top of a kitchen range, nevertheless kitchen candy is some, the supermarket also can have, I can be bought on a few, tell these old stories at the same time, eat together with the child at the same time.

Arrived every year in one's childhood the twelfth month of the lunar year 24 it is I and old a general term for young women do the general cleaning in the home together, the home in remittent in sweep clean, brush glass at the same time, hearth also wipe up.

I and child also can prepare a glove in this day, fold a cap to go together with newspaper general cleaning, we still can execute a system of payment partly in kind and partly in cash: For instance I contract kitchen, he contracts sitting room, oneself him bedroom is cleaned, or, I contract brush a thing, he contracts to be cleaned everywhere etc, the child is in finish all these when, also meet particularly successful feeling.

We because be,be in in one's childhood northward, wrapping dumpling every year a few days ago to the Spring Festival so is the mainest task, besides oneself the bag helps neighbour be wrapped together even, normally each homes can make a call each other, for instance your home is wrapped today his home will be wrapped tomorrow, next everybody everyday collect is together, lively chat at the same time, wrapped dumpling at the same time.

Now basically is he is do in the home, I can teach the child to make cooked wheaten food, current, him son has been met steamed twisted roll of leaven dough evaporate, evaporate steamed stuffed bun, bag dumpling returns within an inch of, do respect of cooked wheaten food to had been been nevertheless have skill, between the Spring Festival we still can make a few amused and good-looking cooked wheaten food, will celebrate the Spring Festival.

29 also be a grand time, because be about immediately 30, this day of our metropolis mixes the New Year picture that buys in the home couplet with sizy stick rise, the new clothes of children also is taken, so this day also is year of flavour a very thick day.

I and child also can stick couplet one day this to stick blessing word, still can stick paper-cut for window decoration, hang a lantern, outside and in is stuck very festivally.

Year flavour is sent more thick.

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A survey shows company of American Atlanta daily: In the story that collects in the home and memory, the satisfaction of matter of brought happy feeling outclass, and the achievement on the career, this kind of family is traditional, the memory that keeps to all family member and brought happy sense are in a steady stream is constant, because be born,won't change alive and change.

Look after children do these businesses, the memory that can let him becomes stereo and heavy full figure!