The home is cruel and off the rails in show the marriage nowadays in the relation, it is again common the business that does not pass, but when this both coinstantaneous in a family, to be in that one party of losing situation character is a nightmare that always does not have peaceful day.
These days, " another " pull Mu " " the article is transmitted extensively in friend circle, for love far marry encounter a cruel Ma Jinyu get attention fully however, from a gleam of female reporter is become take child to fall the mom that run, what kind of misfortune did she encounter after all? Gut inverts again and again, debt? Sale? Does rich sympathize with? The truth after all why?
Type of a lot of families is tragic, result from one shows the impulse of marriage
The author Ma Jinyu of the article ever was a media person that works in city of a gleam of. 2012, the Ma Jinyu that became 14 years of journalists encountered bee in be interviewed Nongzaxi, after 47 days, for love, she is far marry the expensive heart county of Qinghai southwest ministry, that is western an out-of-the-way area.
After marriage, bear children, apiculture plants a flower, the life like a haven of peace, ever still passed inside media industry for a story pasted on with approval.
But reality is however, she encountered cruel of long-term domestic Bao Ling in this process. Even, for 3 children she can choose to bear only.
She is mentioned in the article, in the some day 2015, its husband is Bacchic after returning, enquire she is mixed his male friend is occupied, begin suddenly next cruel hit her, hit her pass water even incontinent.
Be hit to the morning all the time from in the evening, that is she wants to come up to now special when regret, did not accept card, not call the police for a short while appeal.
Ma Jinyu says, she almost every month can suffer the home cruel. Be in far before marrying, she is a reporter of city of a gleam of, now and then outback media fellow goes Qinghai sees her, can become by the argument with fierce home, but she still believes all metropolises end, but nightmare is never-ending.
Course of study of trading company of these a few years of phone very fire, she also begins to consider electric business business, be oppugned by marital kin however. Her husband asks for net inn password often with her, the helper is heavier and heavier also. Alimony of the baby-sitter cost in the home, child, it is she is being assumed.
Perhaps be to endure the life like jail of this cultivate land extremely, ma Jinyu is determined to take 3 children to leave later.
Before leaving, ma Jinyu still wrote a long letter beforehand, how does father of path palpability child hit her, how to treat children together with baby-sitter, why to look after children people leave wait for all sorts of reasons.
On departure way, she sends prefectural article couplet and the staff member that publicize a ministry the letter, entrust them to give prefectural the Women's Federation and public security bureau.
Ma Jinyu expresses, she these year experience draws up coming is not to should be earned sympathize with, want to reveal the truth that once left Qinghai town however.
See, she is the female of careful of a thinking, but after-thought she once was love far married act, mere 47 days of behavior that go to survive in all with one person with respect to the decision, really a lot of more cursory. If at the outset again can careful consider, perhaps won't so tragic thing happens.
There also is a few to show the case of marriage beside me, but final matrimony passes and not very is good. Actually the biggest reason is the moral that you cannot know a person truly at all inside short time, and in real life, of fuel trifling can arouse the individual's true one one side most.
Write down sincerely by the first thing after the home is cruel, accept card
Be in today, media contacts marital Xie Decheng of Ma Jinyu, face medium interview him to deny a wife completely to be stated mediumly in the article, feel very sad: "It is the thing that do not have entirely, if I hit her, say like her in that way, can a woman still follow me does such devil live 67 years? Can a woman still follow me does such devil live 67 years??
Xie Decheng says, at present two people did not divorce formally, but Ma Jinyu been takinging the child to leave expensive heart county, he also does not know the place of the other side.
"The phone is pulled now black, small letter was expunged, I also contact means without hers. I also contact means without hers..
Thank heart accepted theory or formulation, up-to-date Ma Jinyu did not contact him, he also does not know the destination of dispatch of the other side, hope she can give out an explanation.
After Xie Decheng is denied, on the net a lot of people oppugn Ma Jinyu is in hype, it is reporter one's previous experience after all, the power that understands how to use public opinion too drives atmosphere.
Two people stick to his argument nowadays, relevant section also begins intervening investigation. Home be pointinged to says cruelly to do not have the home cruel, be appeared cruelly to had not left strong evidence in time by the home. This also is carrying to wake to us, if experience home is cruel, must accept card in time, called the police to moment even if otherwise, also be rational says not clear.
In force of a lot of families, by the home cruel the reason that dare not say is very complex. Actually, if be to encounter the home really cruel, also can understand Ma Jinyu all the year round the reason of submit to humiliation, the female is in this respect often very passive, always consider too much, for instance the child. Perhaps be to miss the child a whole family, with respect to collect get along; Also be to do not have courage and courage probably, walk out of in that way environment.
How to avoid, walk out of the home cruel, victim in affinity this kind " review the gender is helplessly " the aid that needs whole society and consensus.
A lot of people blurred the property with cruel home, think this is a kind of phenomenon below contradiction of feeling of husband and wife only. The essence with actually cruel home breaks the law namely, inside limits of whole world of general consist in. Be difficult with sb of husband and wife, although be the thing of two people, but if touch legal bottom line, must find out after all.
Be in the home cruel more and more frequency sends today, need society all circles is collective condemnation, boycott, discovery, penalize, deliverance.
Still write down beautifully last year makeup complain tearfully of Bo Zhuyu bud by the incident with cruel home? That day, scheme of local public security has gotten involved investigation, phonate through media that evening, respond to the public expectation to fair justice. The home is so cruel not be each case already, in recent years, law to punish and be on guard the large network with cruel home knits more close-grained more.
Accordingly, also must be dared to stand to phonate by the person with cruel home, right of the person that violate 0 patient, just be best to the victim protection.
We always listen to an old person to say previously, not far marry, not far marry, from the angle consideration of a n experienced person, your pa Mom does not let the person that you marry, it is reasonable certainly, have nothing to do with the distance occasionally, concern with human nature however.
Cruel to the home, 0 tolerating is the bottom line that everybody should stand fast
See every time about the news with cruel home, total meeting has a lot of sprayer to oppugn: Why to meet by the home cruel, seek an account from him body more, it is your err what thing, be hit with respect to this?
This kind of victim is guilty theory, when to rest after all?
Face and a cruel case is sufferred like Ma Jinyu, should not consider " why to take a beating " , and should will " can hit anything but " as consensus. The attention dot of public opinion should punish severely the person that violate inside the frame that focusing rules by law at how be more, how the better legitimate rights and interests that protects the weak. After all, the home is cruel it is housekeeping not only, it is social thing more.
Once the idea of most person is " family scandal cannot outside raise " , feeling to be hit also is a thing that cannot say, but from silent not language to dare to phonate, it is the expression that victim thought progresses.
And social member also should give the clearest opposition to the force of any forms, the person that any right violating offers the most consistent condemnation, the solution that offers to law gives the expectation of the oldest rate, just be the comprehensive progress of civilization of a society and law.
Divide this of course beyond, how to leave life of the person that violate, avoid to suffer retaliation, need the help of more society orgnaization, the tragedy that ability averts to pull Mu repeats.
In this incident, a lot of people want not to understand, one has gotten higher education, in domestic famous media from course of study more than 10 years, the intellectual woman that has won professional domain large award, can make oneself deep-set unexpectedly of domestic force sloughy, be for love be still for the child?
It is love without giving thought to actually, still be the child, ought not to become a female to stand a cruel ground. Saying path, the home is cruel mix 0 times countless times only, the female with thought independence, independent economy, should realize this is nodded more. Encounter in first time when the home is cruel, be about to seek outside help actively, him rescue!
Although Ma Jinyu also was done so finally, but a little late still, and in knowing those years to undergo a cruel procedure, to the child and oneself the bottom of the heart leaves how many shadow.
In this news backside, it is worth while to still have a problem thoughtful, literary girl for love, the life like seeking peach blossom source is to be full of originally " poem and distance " romantic, encountered the home however cruel. Can love still let a person believe?
Actually love does not have pair of faults, the wrong person that has loved each other only. Shine marriage is original the thing that is an adventure, it is right what is more,the rather that not so the person that hnow through and through. Choice marriage object, bearing and goodness are very important inspect an element, only ability of sufficient pass a barrier is entered leave a stage, step on thunder otherwise, the lifetime that is him damage, still meet person of drag in home even.
Nearly two days, this incident appears again and again invert, ma Jinyu is exploded to go out owed a fellow worker one debt is not returned, a lot of netizens think domestic cruel news is for hype only, sell miserable, the drill that there has been major now allegedly dish the group begins to be mixed in raise donations numerous prepared.
Next the play should be the horse makes a speech everywhere attend class take money, explode again red, reap next suffer numerous sympathize with a heart, big Qian Jin comes.
Nitty-gritty after all why, still remain to observe, consider sth as it stands, if the home is cruel actual existence, hope every victim stands bravely for oneself; If be a hype only, hope everybody also can rational eat melon.
Now topic: Do you feel this business real situation why? Be hype?
