Recently, " Dou Ting is good " around domestic children the relation spreads out this, show the life the drama fire of 100 condition, people is talking all sorts of gut related to the character in at one's leisure, have the three unities, make a person sob particularly.
Su Mingzhe of Home Su old, one is graduated from the elite of university of Tsinghua of school of top class name and Stanford university, arrive in the person actually middleaged when unemployed, and apply for a job special also not successful. The pain spot of straight jab of a word of his wife Wu Fei: "As a programmer, your age already very big, I ask you, do you learn new thing to there is a youth fast? Do you learn new thing to there is a youth fast??
A person, the most terrible is not he does not try hard, do not learn, however he has been done not have enough much time goes learning, perhaps say, no matter how he learns, he can no more pick up the competition ability that he had once upon a time again.
A lot of moment, when we are having something, also be in actually lose something, for instance Su Mingzhe, everything what once had envy making a person, renown school graduates, tall record of formal schooling, high pay and the honor of these thing backside... however, push him one day eventually when all these mix to dejected faint when, we also make a question mark in the heart, be what lets a person from outstanding moved toward be defeated?
The reason is very much perhaps, but may by us the answer of oversight is, we once had some capacity, can not prop up us to take best lifetime. We must ceaseless before row, ability is in ceaselessly place.
We can understand eventually, on this world, any outstanding or good things are terminable. What what we once had is outstanding and idiosyncratic, redound may be brought to us in a certain period, and once spent a certain time, these are idiosyncratic if cannot repair refine to upgrade, translate into is richer competitive idiosyncratic, with respect to can decayed be defeated, be cast to answer the Tophet of the destiny.
Go up personally in Su Mingzhe, have a kind of appearance special typical case, this kind of phenomenon is " ability trap " the place in this book casts a point of view that give, everybody is immersed in easily " ability trap " , a person whether grow continuously, depend on he is cast off " ability trap " ability.
So, after all what is " ability trap " ? That is to say, everybody likes to do the thing that he is good at, when the thing that we rely on to do our to be good at savor benefit, and when be being harvested somewhat, we can duplicate this one operation ceaselessly.
The wolf that resembles letting starve only licks the belt above skates the move is sweet ice cube is same, it does not know forever, be in when it lick this belt the move is sweet delicate when, be issued by hunter cloth already trap. Same, the capacity that when us him support has goes repeating the ground ceaselessly " reap fodder " when, we are in via going already enter " trap " on the road.
Su Mingzhe's capability is very strong, but he never develops new capacity, and the times always is developing ahead, a person if cannot with when all is entered, he is washed out by times place with respect to regular meeting. For instance athlete, the person that is familiar with them understands somewhat, the time that the athlete invested excessive will practice them most adept action type, they think erroneously, let them obtain successful thing to also can let them score a success in the future now, trap of this kind of ability can be brought about, once he because the age or it is injury and the working chance that a variety of reasons lose this one territory when, he lost the value of his existence. Final he can discover he was immersed in the ability trap that manacles his, his original ability is in new working environment use is not big, original ability cannot have satisfied the requirement of new environment, this kind of ability becomes him to change his instruction instead.
Same, use oneself time in the thing that he is good at when us, can spend fewer time to be used on other issue only, but these things are likewise important, the thing that doing than us even is more important, our problem is not good what we can do, however we after all oversight what, namely what didn't we acquire?
Want to know onefold experience and ability are a kind of vicious circle actually, this causes the cause with your oneself insufficient competition ability namely. A lot of people know, in some the development of the domain can promote an individual the speech authority in this domain and corresponding value ceaselessly, but this kind of practice is not most be helpful for an individual developing.
Cite the case of programmer: Some company has Jia Yi two programmer, other condition not plan, two people enter a company at the same time, jia Jingjing course of study, work businesslike, quality is high, dedicated at oneself job domain, second works same businesslike also, quality is not low also, just the thing that second classics regular meeting expends time to do firm of a few helps actively to manage, what do naturally on own job is good without armour, but the second after half an year rises leadership post successfully, citing this case is to want to explain, ability is very important, but if too dedicated at oneself major domain, oversight the effort of other side is special the thing that goes against oneself, the boss is calculating person, he can be done only the biggest to company profit the business that turn, do not think effort trades identical get one's own back certainly, not be.
So, how can we just cast off this plant " ability trap " ?
Do not worry, author proposal can begin a practice from these 5 things:
The first, enhance your fixed position sense to the situation, it originates the extensive acknowledge to the industry and processing, capacity that uses information;
The 2nd, contact the project besides your major domain, you can be obtained from which think new mastery of a skill or technique, new information, newly and establish more connection with the person outside the organization;
The 3rd, enter exterior activity, through the part is being acted outside the organization him promotion gets the rate of attention, grow experience, ego to promote thereby, in order to gain more opportunities;
The 4th, combinative individual experience talks " why " . The leader needs to show think of a way before more people, but these people are not having same think of a way with you certainly, or not be inside limits of a professional domain, if want to let more people understand your think of a way, with respect to need the society tells a good story. This story can explain and derivative lecturer wants expressive point of view, want audience to be attracted by story place only, lecturer wants expressive point of view, no matter be,be being returned about the technology is science, be accepted more easily by audience place and remember. TED speech has the small recipe that an anybody can abide by, it is the individual story begin with lecturer, so you can be had the elephant to change through personal experience, this meeting more move your group;
The 5th, loosen your daily arrangement. The most successful controller is not the busiest that individual, it is a that of least efficiency to look instead, time is a kind rare lack resource, so controller the more busy when the work that needs to give a few time to answer expect to be less than for nothing more.
If you very hard job still did not rise job however, then you may were immersed in " ability trap " . Ability trap is the thing that does his to be good at only, the thing that thinks only oneself are good at just is the most important thing, pay close attention to detail too and oversight the work that the company needs truly, still reject to learn new thing at the same time.
Want to walk out of ability trap to be about to spend time in the person that like bridge join differs or organization, look into new tomorrow, promotion consequence, combine idea and individual experience these 4 things to go up. We can serve as platform with labour, enhance the fixed position sense to the situation through the exercise, contact the project besides professional domain, enter exterior activity, let oneself have more the ability of diversity, never stop thereby pace.
" ability trap "
(beautiful) Aiminiya Yibeila is written, beijing published a company jointly in April 2019
