Civil | Childe ease
After the child falls ill, I achieved acme to marital despair.
When be less than you to be about to break down, you do not know that man has many not to rely on chart forever. When the child is born, with respect to the body bad. I at ordinary times very the food that notices him, do not let him contact food of a few rubbish as far as possible.
Because the doctor also has said, had better not let child contact, the child is too small still, do not suit to eat rubbish food. Result, every time I go out to work overtime, the man can take these to the child. I had said countless times with him, but every time the man does not listen. Once, the child has a fever very serious, I have the job that does not turn, I say with him, must notice the child's food.
When waiting for me to come back, he is eating ice cream with the child. Want really at that time mad, but the appearance that he is indifferent to one pair. Result the following day, what the child burns is more important. I said him two, he makes a noise with me, you have.
This kind of end that I do not know where to the man comes in marriage is angry: Obviously oneself are incorrect, do not allow a woman to say however.
Encountered such brutal men, I do not remove contradiction with him as far as possible, the growth that because I think,gives the child an opposite tune merely environment. But occasionally, not be you want to pass well, he can cooperate.
He never thinks the child's education. The child bathes have a meal, he won't provide these jobs, you let him accompany the child to play. His condition is forever, the child cries which the day scrapes the ground, he hits game finally over to watch ball game as before.
I do not have method, be forced job of give attention to two or morethings and child. Every sky class already very tired, came home the thing of all children is I am done. I am the child's mother, I should, but I want to ask a man, is he the child's father? Why he can so ground of one is assured and bold with justice looks at me to dragging tired body, take care of the child, take care of him even.
A lot of this kind tired when, I think, even if I am tired dead, he won't is in charge of. Once, I spoke this word really. The answer of result man is: "Are you tired died? Tired do not never mention it to death. Tired do not never mention it to death..
The wife's latest in marriage despair is not formed. It is by each so acedia instant, little forced abyss.
Have the child, he besides lazy, besides do not love me, also do not have other big drawback, persuade oneself ceaselessly so, bear. Always look for a stepfather than giving the child strong. Although I pass badly, but at least the child is joy.
For the child's joy, I depress my despair to marriage from beginning to end. I want to smile to the child, be born in tear unripe squeeze the smile that give, it is how many pressure and helpless ego digest a mother.
But really, women, encounter this to plant " do not know marriage " man, bear no less than going to at all.
I think I can be borne all one's life. But my discovery is far from possible.
My child fell ill last month, need to become an operation the sort of. Since child be in hospital hind, he begins to quarrel with the doctor, the doctor was nodded slow, he wants to scold. I said he should scold a few words, like be like a whole world to make him dissatisfactory.
Can who how you? Although the doctor should serve for your child, but they also are need valued. What is more,the rather that, he the practice of business of this kind of low affection, can make my child harder only. He does not work with respect to what originally, whats did not work to calculate, quarrel with others even, look for my defect.
I am in a hospital when, want to worry about the child's illness at the same time, should bear at the same time come from at his this is planted bilious. Exceeding really break down. But for the child, I am in from beginning to end bear. I do not want to quarrel with him in the hospital, do not want to let the child be in ailment, suffer the harm that parents quarrels even. So, although I am again afflictive, I do not make a noise with him, avoiding he, bearing him.
But when the child goes becoming an operation, I still couldn't help. I am being held in the arms cry the child that do, the doctor called other family member many times, come over to help. He sits outside to see a mobile phone from beginning to end, should not hear. The child is advanced surgery when, my heart stopped. He is seeing a mobile phone as before. I wait for outer limit, break down covering mouth cries, he is seeing a mobile phone as before. The person all round looks at him, he should not see, see a mobile phone as before.
Eventually he does not see a mobile phone, he begins to scold outside surgery: "This what defeats a doctor, so small operation is done so long, dry what eats. Dry what eats..
True, I also am borne again not know clearly, broke down completely. Besides the divorce, do not have the 2nd road.
This is the real story of a woman. When she writes these to me, had not divorced. She divorces 3 years now. She says with me: "The child falls ill that is last straw that presses her marriage dead. "The child falls ill that is last straw that presses her marriage dead..
Went 3 years, she is celibate bringing the child well off. She says, occasionally, you marry a few men, he besides give you incommode, let your mood all the day bad, do not have any action. If so man, stop in time caustic is him can strive for most golden eggs.
Apropos today a woman asks me, if my discovery follows man departure, oneself are happier instead. Be together with the man instead very not happy, should I divorce?
My proposal is: If you do not have the child, need not do you hesitantly to think happy thing. If have the child, but had arrived of this woman this is spent, do not want to bear, stop in time caustic.
Ought not to be what the woman should remember here, however the man should remember:
Provide the home of a harmonious warmth to the child, not be a mother one the individual's responsibility, however you the individual's joint two effort.
Ask men to understand marriage. Alleged marriage is, you are accountability make the other side happy. Because you are happy, marital impression just is warm.
