Everybody is good! I am cloud of affection adviser element, welcome to today's course.
The most welcome girl on this world, some moment are not certainly those who grow the most beautifully that, but it is certainly most know man psychology that, once a lot of girls have like or the man student that each other have good opinion, become very easily passive, in losing feeling advocate control right. Element cloud teacher teachs you behead today male read intention, the man that uncover secret is right what kind of woman cannot help doing sth, teach you to become high quality goddess, retain high concentration love.
One, 3 feeling are unified: Feel crisis feeling, safe feeling, mysteriously
The man's unified to 3 feeling feminine least resistance. So called 3 feeling, show the crisis feels namely, safety feels and feel mysteriously. In bisexual relation, once the woman belongs to a man completely, depend on a man, the man can arise " you are my person, I eat already completely decide you " idea, be disinclined to spend time to go after you then, conquer you, slowly the condition that the woman can be in a kind to be eaten to decide. Man if get too much security,feel in getting along with yours, feel you cannot leave him, he did not have crisis feeling, natural secure in the knowledge that one has strong backing, more and more ignored you. Want to know, the person is in only not satiate when just can want to forage, if a person is satiate can wait for the comfortable area in oneself. Some schoolgirls meet this time doubt: ' then I should follow a few opposite sexes intentionally to have an affair with, say with him I have a lot of hunter, go building crisis feeling? '
Want to notice, build crisis feeling to want to had held to spend, if not was sure good to spend,can let a man feel to do not have safe feeling very much, once the man does not have safe feeling, feel you this woman is very informal and after producing an impact with you, his self defense instinct with respect to meeting general male arouses another extreme -- that considers to quit this paragraph of concern namely. So, making the crisis correctly feel certain is: Below the premise that you give him safe sense, go to correct ground " introduce competition " , letting a man feel to have you is kind of honor.
There still is a mysterious feeling among 3 feeling. If you made crisis sense only, but do less than justifying oneself, the thing that idea spends before you then wasted, this moment cooperates secret touch with respect to need, the exploration that arouses a man desire, make him ceaseless fall in love with you afresh, to your cannot help doing sth.
This is the glamour with 3 unified feeling. So, specific how should be done? Next I can teach you a few kinds of methods, let a man cannot help pleasing you, do obeisance to the official below the skirt that does you.
2, the specific method that implements 3 feeling to unite
1. " the uncertainty of occupation "
The first kind of method is called " the uncertainty of occupation " , simple for namely, who do you belong to completely after all this matter still says to forbid. Although he is in love with you temporarily in the relation, but did not conquer completely on behalf of him you, had you, you are having as before cannot control oomph. Allow a man in flattery your this respect has frustrate feeling now and then, let him suspect you belong to him whether completely from beginning to end, throw more not self-consciously in this kind of conjecture to you, come flattery and please you.
Implementation " the uncertainty that have " basically have 4 skill:
A) does not reveal forever: I have you only, I maintain you, the person that I am you this kind of attitude and mood.
The first, do not reveal forever: I have you only, I maintain you, the person that I am you this kind of attitude and mood. I often say, in any moment, do not want too cognizance certain man. Detect when a man you are when maintaining him, on one hand his conquer is about to meet drop greatly; On the other hand the man also can feel already complete to have you. Feel when him, your whole individual is whole heart belongs to him already completely, why does he take you seriously even? Especially after a lot of girls concern with man happening, can one is plant ' I belong to him, my this all one's life maintains him ' this kind of psychology. Remember, you are in any moment should be yourself, is not whose furniture. Even if entered marriage, also cannot feel who oneself belong to completely, who to maintain. If you have such idea,you can live very to do not have ego, how may a person that does not have ego have charm.
B) is withheld somewhat forever
The 2nd, withhold somewhat forever, update somewhat forever, in your economize to avoid running short in getting along, make him ceaseless discover the new glitter on your body is nodded, new glamour, new mastery of a skill or technique, and, want a bit by bit to show these come out. For instance, do not follow a man student at the beginning you all matters said, pour bean like bamboo slip same, although you may a lot of skill, but you should withhold secret touch, for instance: Now and then go singing K, he just discovers you are sung particularly sapidly; Take you to see art exhibition for instance, just discover you also have very tall attainment in artistic respect actually; For instance you had not carried yourself to be able to make food more, prepare food one day suddenly he is surprizing, he can discover: "Wow, so your hutch art so good also " ; Again for instance you had said musical instrument of him meeting little only, should encounter a guitar or piano, you can play a Jing admires liberally he. Anyhow, all your flashy dots and skill do not want a head to be shown completely come out, want a bit by bit to permeate him however. Such feelings that he just can have a surprise, maintain forever to you expect, also can let a man feel as if one find out treasure.
C) has his normal social circle
The 3rd, you should have your circle, have oneself opposite sex friend, have fun at hobby, belong to oneself completely once at least every week, the party activity that does not head a boy friend. For instance: You are OK now and then go enjoying a concert alone; Weekend is adhesion not merely him, you also can chat with boudoir honey shop; Can attend the interest that follows you to like relevant activity more; Go attending more a few have the opposite sex to also the same sex meets, OK also and cheesy ground comes say the trip that takes. You should let a man know, have him you are OK happier, but without him, you are OK also very wonderful, you did not lose yourself because of him.
D) has a brief depart now and then
The 4th, now and then come a brief depart, a few distances are made feel in concerning to the couple.
' the distance produces the United States, small Bie Shengxin marriage ' everybody understands the reason, have a few brief depart now and then, the secret touch when after can letting depart, meeting grows doubly. A bit distance is made feel in bisexual relation, can force a man to have make a thorough inquiry to you, arouse his imagination, pull from time to time remote can let you what each other miss opposite party is good, promote emotive chroma. So, be in listless period you also might as well try small now and then fasten, use small holiday to go out to travel for instance, now and then go boudoir sweet wife and children lives. Those who let him cannot master you now and then is daily, make new sense, want to know, the issue that the man always cannot master to oneself is full of interest.
E) pays attention to little detail
The 5th, pay attention to little detail. Phase of amative initial stage, the little detail in appointment also can make uncanny sense. Than if appointment ends not to let him send you,arriving home: You can let him send safer around the home place you every time, say to leave your home not far, can oneself go back, thank him to send you. The path that dates for instance fastens: Without giving thought to how what you play in appointment of a day is happy, how happy, but the time with arrived proper you are about to come home. Slowly he can feel curious, your secret touch nature is built came out. Resemble the Cinderella in fairy tale, in midnight the ding 12 o'clock is knocked be about to leave before the noise, the exploration that this can arouse a man more desire.
2. introduces competition correctly
Explained the first kind of method, we will see the 2nd kind of method -- introduce competition, let a man arise " emulative jealousy " . Simple for, let a man know you have better choice all the time namely, be reaved by others likely at any time. You love him, you also can love him well, but if he is right you are bad, you one face about, pile after one's death high grade male waiting for you. That is to say: "I can love you well, but also have the sth used to one's own advantage that changes you at any time, specific be when, watch your show. " so specific how should introduce competition correctly?
A) the first, you can introduce " father " competition. For instance, can tell you to follow father with him more at ordinary times between get along detail, can say father is considerate to yours favorite, and you are right of father a few Xiaochong is done obeisance to. Because the man is inherent,have competitive mentality, and he likes to you, more what do not allow you to always tell other man before him is good, although this individual is you old father. So his subconscious in can have want to follow your father " competition " consciousness, it is better to you to want then, will surmount your father, be opposite you of father adore reach love to grab come over. This more the primary level that applies to love, it is mechanism of simple competition stimulation, also be the safest. What how tell dad again because of you is good, unapt also him self defense instinct of the male arouses another extreme.
B) the 2nd, you can introduce " high grade opposite sex " competition.
Above all you can be mixed a certain or the passive connection that a few opposite sexes maintain open. The connection here needs to notice at 2 o'clock: It is open above all. That is to say you follow these opposite sexes say what does to be able to let him know between the friend, but not be ambiguous, a few interact simply with connection can. If you male friend likes, you also can introduce them to know even. Had better be passivity next. It is people contacts you actively below major case namely, you are the condition that stems from passive connection in.
Next, you should have the medium of communication that understands high grade opposite sex forever, the man that allows him to feel competition is minatory is short of forever beside.
Thirdly, you do not importune a man to buy a gift to you, but the gift that does not refuse others to send. A lot of girls feel the man shops to oneself just is the show that loves his, impose the principle of sunken cost, want to let a man throw more for oneself, cannot leave oneself. The word is right, but the accurate method that a lot of people did not use right guiding to invest, want to let a man buy a gift to oneself then this thing became mandatory, if things go on like this, the man can feel you are a woman that makes your contented without ability, total need lets him satisfy you. And, because a few petty favours are touched,always satisfy, also can appear experience is little. So, true condition is certainly: "I am not exacting you must buy a gift to me, the thing myself that I want is canned afford, also can ego is contented, but if you are bought, the happiness that I can be doted on many layers feels. " plus the skill that leads investment correctly, can more willing be most willing to is the man you are devoted.
Finally, you should have your social circle, this beardless give uncecessary details, be social to you value approbate.
C) the 3rd, introduce " predecessor " competition
Above all, you can maintain open passive connection with predecessor. This place catchs up with face " the opposite sex competes " is same argument partly, it is open certainly and passive connection is best. But many premise, it is predecessor not broken bits, 2 it is predecessor is in early had become the past in your heart, you had made past type.
Next, do not allude the place with too excellent predecessor, want to carry him to surmount the place of predecessor very easily more. If your predecessor is rich 2 generation, but currently holding the post ofis a young sectional manager only, then you allude too much this part, the man can have huge defeat to feel, can hurt his proper pride. So, can allude a few currently hold the post ofthe thing that spends bit of idea to be able to be surmounted a little, perhaps carry next predecessor in the conveniently below the premise that affirms him. For instance: "Darling you are really good, the birthday that when holding the post of together in front of me at the outset, he connects me can forget, you still can prepare a surprise for me from time to time, you are very more too much than him really, I am really lucky encounter you, the feeling that somebody bestows favor on is happy. " the man is to meet very enjoy this kind to be after competition, of the superior move that stands in pyramid top.
Thirdly, if be he asks about the problem about predecessor actively, how to answer?
If the schoolboy asks you actively the question about predecessor, you expert greatly square, it is good that mood says calmingly, divide drive up nevertheless, debase not overly also. The element that can fail you with predecessor feeling rises with his current advantage connection. For instance you and predecessor part company because of different ground, with currently holding the post ofis to be the same as a city, such OK saying:
"Part because of different ground at the outset, encountered you now, we have more time divide evenly to give each other, also have the process that understands slowly, can the better life that walks into each other, such sense is really good. Such sense is really good..
Such response believes he will be more recipient, also can let you more what each other experience is precious. The love that does not yield oneself forever visits comfortable area, such your feeling can be not entered retreat, life depends on do sth over and over again, also be to need a few careful machine and new sense on feeling. Considering have a love affair after two people are together with respect to live in peace with each other, your affection still is the first pace of a long march of ten thousand lie. Because you are not in in ascensive others,grow, what do you take to compare a dominant position with others when compete?
To here, we this behead male the course that reads intention is told, we consider specific content back and forth. Above all, the man's unified to 3 feeling woman cannot help doing sth, this 3 feeling are safe feeling, crisis feeling and secret touch. Next, the beautiful woman that becomes 3 feeling to unite has two kinds of methods, the first kind is " the uncertainty of occupation " , the 2nd kind is to introduce competition correctly. Accomplish this at 2 o'clock, you can understand man heart easily, the glamour goddess that becomes man cannot help doing sth.
We tell this class here, issue section class good-bye.
