Aux would rather eat Lanzhou to play a side, also do not take these 3 bowls of sides: Person face, occasion, feelings
Old society has an old man to call Du Yuesheng, he has a very classical famous remark:
Life has 3 bowls of sides the most insipid: Face of feelings, occasion, person,
Du Yuesheng mixes slash all sorts of people, look most lucidly to human society,
But he speaks this word to be able to 't help making a person sigh with emotion.
One, person face
Alleged person face, it is the individual has to buy an outer part,
Often gave a few businesses for instance, we hold a relation in the palm to seek a person,
No more than misses the other side to sell an outer part namely,
This word can control outer part really the dead, "Don't you give me outer part? " this word comes out, power is boundless,
No matter be to be on wine desk, in still working, our Chinese stresses human relationship.
How to hold the measure of face, face also makes a person be in a dilemma sometimes,
Too devote into human relation too, can see a pair all sorts of pair of countenance, greet, fawn on, fawn on...
2, feelings
Alleged feelings, spoken parts in an opera also is feeling and face,
Outer part should be told between kin friend for instance, circle go-between arteries and veins also leaves feelings.
A lot of things, once touch,went up feelings is very unmanageable, without absolutely dispute decision criteria,
Handle well, everyone is happy, of processing bad, part on bad terms.
3, occasion
Occasion is figure, why it is better that a lot of people like to make appearance make appearance bigger, be like rainbow to build momentum namely the figure of flourishing.
The ways of the world is hot and cold, turn over a hand to be the cloud, fu hand is rain,
Do not have figure, others does not have accredit to you, what thing also is not done.
Can saying when Du Yuesheng is young is to want wind get wind to want rain to get rain,
He passes very short of moneyly actually in old age day, serious later defect in the bed he still plaints I borrow others without money now, do not have occasion, the friend also was done not have,
Sounding also is quite desolate.
Want to succeed on the career, person energy of life grows the effect that has a key,
Everybody already very arteries and veins realizes somebody want arteries and veins of associate with person, often must sell outer part,
Tell feelings and face of constant general reason is mixed afoul with regulation again interest photograph link up with, the feline be bored with of this within is too much,
Life wants to handle face of feelings, person, appearance reach every aspect of a matter, these 3 bowls of faces are quite insipid really,
Become backup force without enough money, force who gives you outer part, who buys your outer part,
And once value reputation too too, often get cannot help doing sth alive, live too tiredly, can be immersed in oneself even dangerous situation.
So these 3 bowls of faces: Person face, occasion, feelings is to not allow to eat easily really.
I am duty field amounts to person teach,
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