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Children staying behind when the happiest, spend the New Year when seeing parents; When is that not happy? Also be to spend the New Year to leave other time with parents likewise. Annual the Spring Festival has blot out the sky and cover up the earth about staying behind the report of children, but problem still serious, urban and rural between of economy lopsided one day is not broken, the tragedy of children staying behind can continue all the time go down.
The teach in the elementary school that Mr. Wu is in an impoverished village, he also is children staying behind in one's childhood, the memory of childhood anguish, after letting his university graduate resolutely return home town, the hope can make these children little suffer bit of harm.
He just knows real hardship later, pure the care that relies on teacher and society, be opposite actually action is very limited for the child, the dress, book, contribution, actually children most the care that those who want still is parents.
He says occasionally very feel helpless, although regard the student as,be oneself wait for in light of the child, but the heart that walks into them very hard also, the child attends class god, discontinue one's studying loafs about on the street, go doing a visit to the parents or schoolchildren or young workers at ordinary times, the old person in the home also does not manager, the work is begun very hard.
Children staying behind has 3 big problems, rustic teacher is very helpless, parents wants much company
1: The nobody on study is directive
We see a lot of time the picture that children staying behind reads assiduously, but learn not to understand when them, when exercise won't be done, common child can appeal parents, can stay behind children does not have this pay, a few children staying behind that abstain ability within an inch of, those who do not have parents supervise, classes are over play, study achievement suffer a disastrous decline.
Can take an examination of those who attend a college to stay behind children is minority after all, work early for the most part actually, more it is the city that goes be in toward parents, so they aux would rather do not go attending a college, also hope to be able to be together with parents, such child actually future can care, besides do manual work, do not have other competence.
2: Devoid ego protects consciousness
Children staying behind is encroached, by the example of bully approach a lot of, and it is had developed beyond recall condition in the thing ability somebody pays close attention to, in the final analysis protects recognizant weakness with respect to the ego that is children staying behind, encounter unjust when go in past heart only, bear alone, do not have method to pour out to the parents of distance.
A respectful form of address for an old person inside the home also is in charge of do not finish sth, be in charge of the basic necessities of life of grandbaby only, do not be aware the feeling that gives grandbaby heart changes at all.
3: Abandon oneself to vice
The psychological problem of children staying behind has a lot of, self-abased, disposition is hot, through maleficent will abreact, the hope causes parental attention, some children can follow a person intentionally to fight, see oneself to let parents can come back namely, this kind of child is very easy with respect to go to extremes.
Do not go going to school, with socially lump of a few undesirable youths, be used very easily to do bad thing, will retaliate parents with this the be indifferent to sth to oneself.
Question of children staying behind is much, parents takes mouth care use not quite
See the child one year, the action of this love is too faint, communication and network develop now, match a mobile phone to the child, come everyday video communicates, can coach already the child's exercise, can listen attentively to the child's aspirations again. Age grows the child of a bit a bit, cold summer vacation when can receive come over, promotional the feeling between each other.
Parents also is actually by force of but, be in a country can the word of gain money, everybody does not hope to leave the child to go to distance working, but reality is so brutal, to raise a paste the mouth does not have method, this contradicts one day to be not solved, the problem of children staying behind can be all the time, parents can be to think method accompanies the child more more only.
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