Be brought up even if again also cannot unbridled ground cries.
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A paragraph of such words see on small gain:
"Of modern breaking down is a kind of silent do not make a sound break down.
Look very normal, meeting josh, meeting fights noisely, the meeting is social, the surface is calm, actually the flooey worry in the heart has accumulated certain level.
Won't throw the door to break a thing, won't shed tear or hysterical.
But may some second accumulates acme suddenly, also do not talk, also do not break down really, also miss work not quite, also dare not go dead. Also dare not go dead..
Such person is too much, occasionally you see a person laughs very sweetly, very loud, but her heart is actually early break down unceasingly.
Occasionally you see he is driving composedly, but what think in his brain is " still was inferior to dying to calculate. But what think in his brain is " still was inferior to dying to calculate..
The world of adult, cannot cry hysterically, also cannot the cry of act as if there is no one else present, break down repeatedly must queue up to come.
01
Of adult break down
Want to consider consequence
Teleplay " the beautiful mist that be not a flower is not mist " in have such the three unities:
Xie Fan and Qi Fei are a pair of sweethearts, two people quarrelled because of a few bagatelle rise, in pairs throws the mobile phone into the river under stretch.
This teleplay He Zichen sees me together, when seeing this child celestial bodies says with the tone that cold-shoulder:
"Click of the tongue, looking is teleplay, those who act act, present adult, consider second birth angry, break down again, also won't throw a mobile phone in disorder. Also won't throw a mobile phone in disorder..
I ask questioningly: "Your woman breaks down when the mood cannot accuse oneself, either what is there to be thrown in the hand? Either what is there to be thrown in the hand??
Child Chen Xiaodao:
"When I and predecessor part company, two people quarrelled greatly one, he says I am the goods that nobody wants, I think the glass that there is boiling hot hot water in handle breaks the past at that time.
Just carried when me hand when, I just realize his what take in my hand Mom can be many 2000 Tiffany cup.
I use a bit reason that puts only, restrained inner impulse, the heart wants to be this broken bits male undeserved, put down the cup in the hand again, face about goes searching to suit to break his thing more.
Looked around circuit, the immortal water of vitreous bottle is OK, but too expensive, the mirror that the name achieves actor to taste 20 money is OK also, but I feel that broken bits male do not deserve even 20 money.
I took the perfunctory holding pillow in the arms on the bed finally broke the past, the mood also abreacted, had not spent a minute of my money, much better. Much better..
The world of adult, not " easy " 2 words, mood of discharge of a running fire should calculate sexual price to compare.
Can break cheap thing, do not be bungled stoutly expensive, only dot breaks down just won't consider consequence.
Adult falls hold pillow in the arms, want a consideration a little while how to come to its pick up with thickskinned.
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Of adult break down
Need queues up
The metropolis before A Lei comes off work everyday sits a little while in the car, wait for occasionally also do not work in the what in the car, smoking smoke hair to meet slow-witted, can bend over to cry 10 minutes like the child on steering wheel occasionally, next home of erase tear farewell.
Last year, a Lei is betted went up oneself whole body home begins to do poineering work, the career arrived this year bottleneck period, below one pile employee is recumbent he has a meal, there is next old having on oneself small, once fail, will penniless.
But he cannot give family to look the mood that such breaking down however, look to employee, can be only in the car this little space, abreact oneself exhaustion and pressure.
Light a cigarette, will diffuse with aerosol the eye with red extensive, with pretend choke arrival conceals the tear that cannot help staying.
After abreacting, display vigour, pat pat a face, tremble shake a shoulder, let smile return a face to go up, walk along excellent doorway to suck greatly, bring a smile slightly say:
"Son, father comes back, are you had today good ah? Are you had today good ah??
Of adult break down need queues up to undertake, you cannot be in the child wow wow when crying greatly, follow the child to cry together, cannot need to take care of in parents more when, be unluckyfeel disheartened weeps.
You need to do a good father and mother, also need to become a good young man and woman, when the child cries, you want method teases, no matter be to play the part of lovely still be jest; When parents needs to take care of, you want to do a body to stick, no matter be change clothes,still cook.
After should arranging all these, oneself choose to manage to find time again break down.
03
Of adult break down
Connect a friend circle to dare be not sent
Dream of tiring-room vermicelli made from bean starch says only, if oneself broke down,want to abreact, in the trumpet that can send small gain to go up only, several bad language, several lose energy, silent in be being put in small gain, nobody knows who you are, you how, such feeling is very good.
The gregarious platform of adult, enumerate all sorts of moods:
The thing of the life is written in small letter, sad in the small gain that the thing that break down writes in unmanned attention only, because small letter has a good friend to the colleague has a client to have family, and small gain has oneself and stranger only.
There are more and more people beside me, the friend encircles a setting " 3 days are seen " , also more and more people are not willing to sent a friend to encircle.
Because friend circle is that no longer can at any time the place of express mood, even if want to send really, before also learning to be being sent, install in group, think seriously, choose carefully.
Because your negative energy does not want to let each person see, the friend encircles you are active forever up, have old lad, also have ingoing friend, you travel everywhere, idle away in seeking pleasure, it is the life medium small I hope truly.
But be in the small gain that nobody sees, it is full however piece negative energy, bad weather, captious leader, the client with much work, break down oneself, it is the life medium small truly funeral.
Then, when breaking down repeatedly, we undertake platform chooses even.
Adult learned his mood since Tibet, oneself think saying word truly since Tibet, the anguish in those late nights and break down, those do not say unhappy sad mood, was closed silently to be in the heart, hold the post of its indulge in wilful persecution, hold the post of its to gobble up joy and vigor.
Do not let others see his negative energy, this is mature probably, but however feel sad.
04
Of adult break down
Say " I do not have a thing "
The lie with the biggest in the life adult, namely " I do not have a thing " , outer lead a wandering life to had arrived thoroughly eat not to have a meal, pa Mom a phone comes over, you say " I do not have a thing " ;
Be lovelorn unemployment feels life all up, friend haste comes, you squeeze constrainedly give a smile to say: "I do not have a thing " .
Japanese film " the husband got depressed disease " in, the husband is such invisible " break down " population, apparently, he is same as usual, get up cook breakfast, go out by subway, regular job going to work.
When somebody discovers incorrect, care enquires his mood, he is laughing to say: "I do not have a thing " .
Actually, he is early abnormal, inner hour lies the brim that break down.
Our why is not in reality such, a lot of moment hear " I do not have a thing " , feel the other side is not bad really, but until one day, when yourself personally speaks this word, ability will be clear, when speaking this word, often be oneself worst hour.
A Duan Zi has seen on small gain, ask others when you " don't you have a thing? " , people responds " I do not have a thing " , it is occupied really actually.
And ask when you " don't have a thing? "Others is one face muddled do not know so answer you " what? " , that ability is to do not have a thing really.
Bad mood always is stealthily arrival, anybody becomes a victim possibly.
In the world of adult, a lot of moment can not break through Cheng Jun, but pretend before others even very the look with very happy cruel, because everybody is adult, break down also should control an aspect.
Feel sad? Very feel sad.
The life, all along lets a person breathe heavily only at a heat, not much, make you very acedia; Many, make you hopeful still, funeral goes down is otiose, breaking down also is trashy, allow your times feeling pressure when reality, you can as soon as possible self-healing.
Be like plum absurd that word that says on small gain is same: "Happy dot friends, the world is undeserved. The world is undeserved..
