Often listen to a person to say to be an upright person should have situation? What is pattern?
Pattern points to the one the individual's eye, mind, courage and insight, internal composition that waits for psychological element namely!
The structure of a person is old, road ability of future is wide! If become life,make a dish of step, so the ending of life is decided by the pattern of this dish of chess. With respect to current like us life, no matter be rich,still be poor, put on a dish of chess, that also is temporary condition, a dish of chess did not fall, you still are not clear that the result is defeated win. Play chess says position, also tell the strategy to abandon child; A dish of chess often temporary predicament, plateful of not regular meeting all is defeated. So, our temporary difficulty, for whole to us life, also not be plateful all is defeated certainly. The mainest gains is: Harden oneself of our miserable dysmenorrhoea all previous oneself, regained consciousness oneself, saw through favor, see essence clear, our at least can know prospective way, how should hold oneself. This also is us the realization with indebted the deepest life.
A bit what decide situation is the most fundamental, it is eye shot. Stand in different level and height, can have different view and state of mind. Strode a new height when us, reached taller state, can have different view and mind.
Have what kind of situation, have what kind of destiny! The person that have big situation, have open breadth of mind. I am encouraging myself all the time, although I know I lose again and again, rush about by day, at night dim! But the person that I believe to have situation, won't because of current and bad environment and adverse situation improperly belittle oneself; Also won't mix because of the inadequacy of ability of the mood low and abandonment.
I feel we are very much person, often meet what live because of making a living be inferior to meaning and blame everyone and everything but not oneself, because of small setback with respect to can find no way out, because bore debt to be about dead to want work, because be looked down on with respect to be troubled Yu Huai, because be urged to receive those who;burst;ulcerate;fester to run quickly,wait a moment... we can jump out this situation: Bold tell oneself, everybody does not want to be in debt, everybody thinks stand out, since oneself fail,be in debt, bold admit, assume actively. Believe current difficulty does not represent whole life, we should have confidence to tell others, temporarily frustrated should do harden oneself, we make up for our fault with time and sweat, heavy head comes again, recovery new student, look upon is in debt this problem when do not want have one's view of the important overshadowed by the trivial not to see a father-in-law, all the day confused avalanche, one pace becomes incompetent person. Besides, are we qualified continue to sink into? Need not be your debt returned? What repay a debt to take? Not be catchword, also not be confused, it is to use dependable results to come repay a debt.
So, we cannot suffer oneself really " confine " be restricted, the life and job do not have direction, see not clear future. To our life for this dish of chess, sturdy all oneself current difficult position, not be us life is whole, the structure that wants him enlarge above all, cut life with big perspective, hold the way that the business develops, the palm dominates our action, had done the business that we should do, put down confused, discard anxious, work hard, economize. Pay off debt at an early date, open life leaves a paragraph of noble life.
Be heavily in debt because of why bringing about oneself consequently formerly no matter, want to still have glow to the life only, still have hope to future, should answer look at the past, introspection did not come, discard confused with hesitation. The action rises, do not sink into again abyss of misery, not again heart grey meaning is cold, not again have grandiose aims but puny abilities, present penniless, just is him test ability moment. Want to enjoy the happiness that the ordinary person cannot enjoy quite, should bear of course ordinary person place cannot enough susceptive is pungent. Do not want or else can extricate oneself, sink into abyss of misery, faineant do not see the move. Oneself should try hard, want to enter, want stand out. A lot of person should say for certain, be heavily in debt, want to work to do not have capital, easier said than done? Remembered, living the Li Jian that is assault, health is the firm aegis of defense. You are entered can attack, retreat can defend, is this capital? Do not do not have capital besides, can invite person ridicule. Lose this different, you just are true penniless,
Without giving thought to present you, indebted how many, the calm is faced, can go after all, difficulty is temporary only! Very much friend does not understand, after debt exceed the time limit, do not go to what try hard actively struggling make money, however inactive await, thought to still do not rise anyway, finally is to be imprisoned, struggling what to return? Think so the more, final result is really such, make arduous efforts, pay off debt, it is better and better to be met only finally!
