Mr. Yan Ming is expert of force of Chinese noted leader, administration
Yan Ming: EMBA of teacher of senior management instructor, Tsinghua, National People's Congress, Beijing University hires TMCC international attestation especially management of Bovey of visiting professor, Singapore consults presiding government adviser
Duty field is psychological 3 big trap: Smash a pot to pieces just because it's cracked -write oneself off as hopeless and act recklessly, be content with the current situation, be stranded by affection
In reality, have a lot of " hole " , our eye saw can keep away from, be harmed in order to prevent the body, be in likewise our " psychology " in, also have a lot of " hole " , we use these pit the eye cannot see, if do not take care to be fallen into, in comparing reality even " hole " those who fall is more miserable, we are not to often say: " good the scar forgot to ache " , the injury on a person is met as time elapse can cicatrization, and the lifetime that the scar of mentally can accompany us however.
Psychological trap one: Smash a pot to pieces just because it's cracked -write oneself off as hopeless and act recklessly
Like some of person likes to resemble seeking skill, in the life and job at every turn is gone after perfect, more very person if a thing cannot be accomplished perfect, aux would rather all finish (namely smash a pot to pieces just because it's cracked -write oneself off as hopeless and act recklessly) , but the life is not artistic, impossible at every turn is perfect, at every turn is satisfactory, this is understandable also develop a form for additionally one kind be art (namely misshapen art) .
Such example in the life is very much, the ancients has a word to admonish people: "Not with be apt to small and do not be, not with evil small and do it " , do not look to go up small kind, small kind is done more also became big kind; More in wanting oversight to live small evil, small evil do more also became big evil, the bank that likes a long distance destroys Yu Yi acupuncture point, if small error is not seasonable correct, can come big disaster.
And ' smash a pot to pieces just because it's cracked -write oneself off as hopeless and act recklessly ' corresponding is ' burn one's boats ' , although be in same kind in predicament, former it is ego abandons, abandon oneself to vice, and latter is to be in however ceaseless make a fight with the destiny, right with latter for, final result no matter success or failure, the conqueror that they are the life (constantly strive to become stronger) .
Mr. Yan Ming is expert of force of Chinese noted leader, administration
Psychological trap 2: Be content with the current situation
No matter be career or life, have a same reason, do not enter namely retreat. State of mind resembles is like riding a bicycle, if you are not ongoing, still want to poise, it is impossible, this that is to say, although your whats are done, if do not advance, you maintain good state of mind very hard also.
When the thing is great, must exploit a victory is pursued and attack, strive for bigger victory, do not indulge or satisfy at the positive result that instantly obtains, because have a kind of trap, be called easy and comfortable. I often say: "The person does not have the pain that cannot take, the good fortune that cannot enjoy only " , a person is sufferred from again again tired, the person wants to still be in at a heat then only, can carry the past on the head, also had these cross just about, just accomplished your firm volition tone; It is those blessing instead, make a person more easily paralytic carelessness, lose fight, this also is why to some of person is under cannon fodder of smoke of gunpowder, instead by sugar-coated bullet place knockdown former by.
The person has close concern surely without foresight, be content with the current situation, do not consider be eager to make progress, resemble a few people are in all one's life live struggle on the line, when eating without the meal, work hard, once the meal ate, with respect to easy and comfortable enjoyment, such person is destined commonplace and careladen lifetime.
Mr. Yan Ming is expert of force of Chinese noted leader, administration
Psychological trap 3: Be stranded by affection
A person does not have independent character, with respect to the right that won't have free choice.
' affection closes ' each individual need is faced, let a person the most easily also lose ego. Affection of love, close affection, friendship, brother is waited a moment, in affective world, it is good, also be painful, but do not lose oneself anyhow, the love that loses ego also lost its original taste.
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