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Cherish marriage, it is the obligation that every married personage should use up originally, but, some people however because not quite cruel-hearted and do less than cherishing.
Somebody may be not obvious " cruel-hearted " and " cherish " the relation between, the truth is very actually simple:
When you do not do consciousness to cherish marriage, need is resolved go cherishing, this kind of determination is cruel-hearted, it is pair of him firm.
When somebody interferes your marriage, you must the heart below firm casts all apprehension to prevent, such ability calculate cherish marriage.
A lot of people because do bad these two things, do less than is opposite oneself are cruel-hearted, do not do pair of him sophisticate marital person is cruel-hearted, so that lost marriage finally. Not only yourself can regret, and your other in part also is met disappointed to you in the extreme.
This man is the case of this respect below, because not quite cruel-hearted, lost marriage so. We will see his story.
A few days ago A is calling friend of our a gang to move to him, ask him why when everything is all right should move, he says, "Fasten gibberish! Move first! Wait for all good finding a place for, I ask you to have a meal to say slowly! I ask you to have a meal to say slowly!!
His moving can not be simple ground trades a place, sold original house however, bought a house afresh. Before moving a thing to go in, he changed the door and lock first, ability begins to move a thing after affirmatory indestructible.
From he and him the condition of wife looks, they two had been troubled by contradiction apparently, a got-up affair has not been appeased completely.
Worked several days continuously, do everything eventually after deciding, he cashs promise, asked us to have a meal.
He says he moves, because with him the mother quarrelled,be, the mother that because he does not think,lets oneself again interferes his marriage.
Need is explained here, he has divorced, now is 2 marriage.
He says, "I suffer enough my Mom always is sophisticate my marriage, I and freedom of my wife a bit are done not have. That paragraph of marriage divorces before me, it is the sophisticate because of my Mom, I do not think again follow the same old disastrous road. I do not think again follow the same old disastrous road..
He resolved move, because he suffers,be enough. He and his wife had removed contradiction because of maternal sophisticate, this let him remember on one paragraph of marriage, if he stops not in time still,he feels caustic, affirmative meeting divorces again.
After he remarries before long, his mother moved the past to live, going back on his word not to go all the time, be troubled by contradiction with his wife everyday. He has not been enraged, say, "Mom, ask you not to interfere my marriage again, I do not want to divorce again, do not think loneliness eventually old! Do not think loneliness eventually old!!
His mother demur does not say, right on the face scolded him, the decision moves under stretch of his this ability.
When the person is much, he just is in those who convey him " cruel-hearted " . When full empty after the show of wine full meal later, his this ability follows my confide aspirations, "I and ex-wife divorce, because I am too weak,be! Because I am too weak,be!!
The head is admired to visit a day when he says this word, the likelihood in the heart is bad to suffer!
The marriage of he and ex-wife is original and OK very happy, because two individual feeling are very good. But, unluckily he has an innocent mother, always be sophisticate their marriage.
He at that time is done not have this is cruel-hearted now, although do not have indulgent mother, but it is to acquiesce however, dare not bunt, dare not ask the mother leaves, bully his daughter-in-law in the mother even when, he still hides.
In him ex-wife looks, he is a man that did not take on. Because be overcome,saying on ex-wife mouth is of the mother-in-law bully and divorce with him, be too disappointed to him actually.
A is saying, "If not be me too weak, if not be my play truant, if I defend our marriage a bit earlier, follow dividing line of my Mom make a clear distinction a bit earlier, I and she also won't divorce. Regrettablly, say what is late now. Say what is late now..
After the divorce, he goes looking for ex-wife to resume marriage, but was rejected, ex-wife answered a few his words only: Not necessary, undeserved.
Resume marriage he of all up, this ability had digamous plan, ability married present wife later.
He says, "I am not to be reluctant to leave ex-wife, it is the feeling Is am sorry only she. The heart below real now firm and bounds of my Mom make a clear distinction just know, I am early should so do. Anyway, thing already so far, I won't again follow the same old disastrous road, not only it is my Mom, I do not allow anyone again sophisticate my marriage, this, I must firmly is defended! I must firmly is defended!!
Each marriage has aeriform dividing line, every marriage party should the dividing line that firmly guards marriage. Only firmly guards marital dividing line, do not let anybody sophisticate marriage, ability and other in part manage marriage wholeheartedly.
To the man, cannot let the woman outside marriage interfere her marriage, more cannot oneself ignore marital dividing line and open the door to a dangerous person. In marital bounds, have you and wife only two people, allow no less than others, you ought not to betray marriage, also ought not to let others participate your marriage.
Besides, the marriage that also cannot let mother-in-law him sophisticate, this must firmly is defended, no matter be good mother-in-law or bad mother-in-law, your marriage is equal to sophisticate is the marriage that destroying you.
? Good mother-in-law is the help that your marriage provides, you are OK jump at. But bad mother-in-law is interfered inscrupulously to your marriage, bully your wife, you cannot sit by and watch no matter, must assuming a responsibility right now, requirement mother-in-law fall back on besides your marital dividing line.
Below this kind of circumstance, if the man wants to cherish marriage, must accomplish cruel-hearted, not only want pair of him firm, and want pair of innocent mother-in-law firm. Do not feel embarrassed cruel-hearted, do not be afraid that your what people says, want the fault that is a mother-in-law only, wanting you only is to guarding marriage, you again how cruel-hearted also do not have a fault.
Some men are not done cruel-hearted, dare not be opposite mother-in-law firm, blindly play truant, the wife that lets oneself faces everything alone, this is too irresponsible. Final final result is: You escaped temporarily, do not escape to cross generation, your irresponsible meeting lets wife be bitterly disappointed, she can leave you when disappointed to you in the extreme and go, won't turn round forever.
Because oneself do not understand,cherish, not quite cruel-hearted and bring about a divorce, you do not regret impossibly. This kind of issue can avoid, you do not have necessary have to when ability regretted after the divorce regret having done sth, await in those days, everything is already late. (civil / Dong Linxi wells balanced, you have a story, will look for me)
