Hum. Company if first, the heart is depended on somewhat, everybody is good, here is a travel sitting room, I am peacefully, welcome everybody to listen to domestic force series, be in this one the content that we will share is to hit the child every time save one's breath, hit angrier more, how should do? The child is the treasure in the home, hold in both hands be afraid of in the hand fell, contain in the mouth, be afraid of change! ! But in. Often have in everyday life many grumpy, father mother! In face not obedient when the ursine child that does not learn, can not restrain the anger in the heart, the face child of right on the face is hit. As time passes, the child became clew, obedient. good baby! Allow to hit allow to scold also do not have reaction, of this pair of children grow very adverse! So, the parent. People how should do? We will see a case, a parent phones me to say, his child went up 2 grade, work at ordinary times do very slow, and special fear feigned trade, bring about achievement to lag behind all the time, as parental set a high demand on somebody in the hope that he will improve, often criticise child brain is stupid, come up against still can start work when the mood is bad dozen of child. When time grew to hit the child again, the child becomes not throat, expression is very chill also, resembling is to do not have emotive chump, because cannot get the child's response, jump over gas to want to hit him more, but still did not get favorable result, do not know how to should teach oneself child really! Believe many parents can encounter this kind of situation, if the child knows to acknowledge a mistake, perhaps know him expression. Idea! The parent. Can easier understanding is clear about its all the details, from go up at all the problem that solves the child to be encountered in grow and learning, this is everybody most the result of love to see and hear. But the child that if come up against this kind not to talk,also does not revolt, this parent answers! Also not be that also not be. The problem that also does not know the child goes where, in the heart precipitant fire burn, be at a loss again however, is the child true so is with parental feeling cool body the same as stranger? We give parent friend start reference below. The first, the parent wants above all sober, control oneself as far as possible, do not hit the child. Hitting the child should be a good position! When. When the child makes a mistake, the parent is not anxious hit the child, because hit the child actuationly! The effect. Often be just the opposite to what one wished. At that time you can speak yourself to the child at the moment experience, let the child know you are right he a moment ago the dissatisfaction of behavior. Tell the child for instance, I the mood is bad now, you do me so very dissatisfactory. I do not like you to do not have courtesy so, your expression very make me sad. Etc. The psychology that describes oneself is experienced, the mood that conduces to him calm, also conduce to the point of view that allows the child to stand in parents consider an issue, promote the child thereby think over. The 2nd, go conveying oneself to child time and opportunity. Never the fault of for no reason at all, the child does an any things to affirm be the reason that has it, although have some of time,these reason look in our adult is wrong, unreasonable, it is absurd even. In us so fury make a psychological attack prepares to start work before hitting the child, must him be pacified mood, let them speak the matter that them become so as far as possible. Such more conduce to. Certainly! With the undesirable habit that changes the child and behavior. The 3rd, esteem child. About this I think a lot of parents metropolis oversight, always feel child age is small still, whats do not understand, need us to show Ming Qingcai to be able to learn to discern what is what blame, little imagine child also is a young adult that has an idea actually! For instance you think the sky is blue, but they changed black however, because,that is dark, changed black so, the opinion that respects the child should give the child his space namely, let them become a person that has idea, such they just can be willing more and we communicate communication, this is right the following growing also is to have profit ining order to greatly. The 4th, if want to hit the child really, the means that uses understanding please will punish. The child made a fault, need not cross much criticism to censure, the parent. Can try to restrict to his action through wink, detain the thing that he likes, restrict playtime, this kind of indirect mistake that punishs a method to let the child understand his can be brought about why to plant result, also can let the child produce repentant opinion in undertaking sequential process, be helpful for avoiding recommit congener mistake. Of course parents. Still had better want the following to the child behavior to raise specific requirement, for instance to some thing, how should be the child done, perhaps need to reach what kind of level, such making clear that the behavior to the child expects, the self-discipline that can enhance the child in virtually controls capacity oneself. The 5th, do not hit 2. Year old less than and 6 years old of the following children. The child two years old ago because intelligence development is immature, lacking regular understanding is normal, the psychology that calls the child to be able to affect the child instead at that time develops. As the growth of child age, the child's self-awareness is perfected gradually, self-respect feels stronger and stronger also, the child after 6 years old has been the age that knows a truth. At this moment the kind that parents needs to manage with preach and child undertake communication, avoid to beat and scold negative effect produces in child heart. Must let the child understand black-and-blue reason finally. When be forced to do should hit the child, parents wants hit the child to regard as the ceremony of a kind of education, must tell the child explicitly, why can he take a beating, this secondary is hit a few times, make a mistake again next time, want how to be handled, etc after hitting the child, must fool fool the child, make the child clear, played his father mother very sad also. The most important is parents must let the child know, although he became wrong, father mother still loves him, hit him to just remember to let him, do not make same mistake next time, the degree that what tell in afore-mentioned case is dozen of child had arrived not to defend dumb room for action, can saying is to belong to more severe case. The educational means that this is early days is deficient in reason and method to cause. Parent friends should come down calmly above all before hitting the child, avoid a mood ultra, cause impulse, want to clear up its reason next, after avoiding to start work, bring about again regret. If be forced to do wants,hit the child finally, must let the child understand black-and-blue reason, do not want the mistake with same recommit, if the heart is depended on somewhat first,the listen respectfully that thanks you is accompanied, here is a travel sitting room, if you have what trouble in domestic force respect, can pay close attention to platform of dredge of psychology of sitting room of the heart at the beginning of date of small letter public to chat with us. Good, we fall period see.